Women: How often do you get "horny"?

[Blalron]

I'd like to get some idea of what the female sex drive is. Being a male, I'm rather clueless about such things, and the real life women I know are reticent about this. So I turn to the internet, hoping that the relative anonymity that this forums enjoys may elicit more forthcoming responses.

Ladies: how often do you desire sex? How often do you masturbate, if at all?

[Shaolinrabbit]

I'm a man, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm here. This is going to be sweet man. :D

[Sylkyn]

Hardly ever, much to my chagrin...and my husband's. It's not his fault, or mine either, to my knowledge. It started being this way about the time I had my hysterectomy, but it actually started a bit before that. It just got worse after that.

I think it might be something physical...maybe hormonal. I just know I'm tired of it. :(

[fruitbat]

As a man I am really interested in hearing the answers you can give. It would also be helpful if you gave us an idea of how old you are. For some reason this seems to be a great area of mystery for men.

Women just know that men are horny pretty much all the time.

[Sylkyn]

I'm guessing you were asking the women to give their ages. If so, I am forty three. However, I had my surgery over eight years ago, and I guess the "horny factor" left about a year (maybe more) before that. In my case, I really don't think my age had anything to do with it. I have a couple of friends a good deal older than myself who seem to want sex all the time! (Lucky old bats!)

If you weren't talking to us, pretend my post is invisible!

[Lsura]

Bear in mind that I'm not getting any, and haven't for a while, therefore my answers may be skewed. Oh, and I'm 29 (well, 30 in about a month).

I have different levels of horniness. There's the "oh, sex would be nice today" type as well as the "Oh my god, I am so horny I can barely stand to have clothing touching me" type.

The first type happens maybe 1-3 times a week. The second type, maybe twice a month, normally around ovulation - it's pretty much how I time my cycle.

Masturbation? Maybe...once or twice a month, but then other months, not at all.

[Manda JO]

This may come as a real shocker, Blalron, but it varies so much that the question has about as much validity as "Women, what's your haircolor?" I'm not saying that it's wrong to ask the questions or that the answers won't be entertaining--I'm just saying that they will be useless if used to predict any woman other than the ones that post here.

All hope is not lost, however: when you are in an on-going sexual relationship, you'll find out about that woman in particular. But don't assume anything.

[Whack-a-Mole]

Originally posted by fruitbat
Women just know that men are horny pretty much all the time.

I actually don't think the difference between men and women is that great when it comes to horniness. It depends on the individual and as you might suspect they are all across the board. I've known women who were totally disinterested in sex and others that were nymphos and most shades in between (if you graphed it you'd get a typical bell curve). I think men are just motivated more by sex. That is, it is more of a central theme to what we do (we work so we can make money to attract women so we can have sex, we shower so we can attract women so we can have sex, etc.). Women seem more likely to put it to the side and do whatever else needs doing and then get back to it but it certainly isn't forgotten for them.

Just my opinion...

[tanookie]

My hubby and I are both 30.

If I had my way I would have sex approximately every other day. We usually aren't that structured so we will have sex every day for three days and then take a couple of days off or some other variation.

Having a 2 year old and a baby on the way kind of messes with our ability to spend too much time alone and naked so we work to make the most of the time we do have.

I agree with MandaJo though that sex drive is not something that will be constant with all women or even with one woman over the course of her life. There was a time when I thought never having sex would probably be the best thing to happen for me.

And like Lsura sometimes it is a 'sex would be nice' kind of thing and other times it is the 'now now now now' kind of feeling. Both lead to a different quality of sex. I've dubbed the range 'generic sex' to 'wild monkey sex.' Those and everything in between have their places in my relationship. I'm afraid I don't have a graph for when and how often each occurs :)

As for masturbation, I don't really - if I'm feeling like I'd like an orgasm hubby is pretty much always happy to help. The ones he gives are preferable to the ones I can give myself.

[Whack-a-Mole]

Sylkyn:

Just a thought but I've noticed that when I haven't gotten any for awhile my interest in sex decreases. I know I want it and will certainly take the opportunity whenever it arises but it does seem that my horniness frequency/severity decreases. When I di get back to it I then remember how much I missed it (taking care of yourself is all well and good but a partner makes things so much better...usually). I do not know you and I am not trying to say you should or should not do something but if it is a lack of sexual activity maybe dipping your toe back in the pool might rekindle the flame. Then again it might not...just a thought.

[Olive, The Other Reindeer]

Almost always - and almost never.

One of the advantages of a live-in BF :)

[BornOfStardust]

This is an interesting thread. Honestly, I think that many women are horny just as much as or more than men. It has a lot to do with how aware of their own sexuality they are--society still has a long way to go with regards to accepting female sexuality, "Sex and the City" aside. ;) And then there are those who, despite their best efforts, can't get horny, just like there are men who can't get it up. Shrug...

ANYWAY, I'm 19 and I'd say I get horny fairly frequently (and want sex a LOT more often than I can get it right now since my boyfriend and I aren't in the same state at the moment. :(). Not sure "how often," but I will frequently masturbate once or more a day...sometimes there'll be a few days in between if I'm just not thinking about it much or am busy.

[pepperlandgirl]

I'm pretty much obsessed with sex....even when I'm not horny, I want it.

[Whack-a-Mole]

Originally posted by BornOfStardust
ANYWAY, I'm 19 and I'd say I get horny fairly frequently

At 19 you're a walking hormone. It's not that teenagres don't count towards this but I think they seriously skew the stats (not that there really are any stats). Society has changed alot but biological programming has a long way yet to catch up. From mother nature's point of view the late teenage years are prime breeding years. I don't mean to peg sex with something so clinical but all that horniness does come from somewhere. Your BF at 19 can't even think straight for this very reason (your BF in math class -- a2[gawd I'm horny]+b2[gotta call BornOfStardust and beg her to come over]=c2[wonder if I can get her to bring along her girlfriend] ;) ).

That said I say enjoy it! (With the usual caveats about being safe, etc.)

[Amberlei]

I don't know, Whack. When I was 19, I didn't particularly care for sex. My thoughts were wrapped up in my son, work, paying bills, etc. etc. and I'd say that there were days at a time when I didn't think about sex at all. Not that I didn't have sex then, I just wasn't all that interested. Now, I'm 34, and I'm definitely more of a walking hormone now than I was then. Like some of the others have posted, there are days when I'm so horny it's hard to focus on anything else at all, and other days when it just sounds nice. I really do think sex drive varies with each individual throughout their life cycle.

[kimera]

I've calmed down a bit now that I have a boyfriend. I'm 21 and a year ago when I was sexless, I used to masturbate between 3-8 times a day. Now I have sex/masturbation as much as I can. I am good with once a day, although sometimes I'd like a little more. :)

[Whack-a-Mole]

Amberlei:

Sounds to me like you're making up for lost time or it's a sort of delayed effect. At 19 with the responsibilities you listed I'm not surprised sex was low on the list. It must have been nearly overwhelming. It seems you now have more of a chance to indulge some of your needs and you're taking advantage of it and that's great. Sounds like you deserve some play time.

[Tusculan]

hey Blalron, i don't know if you've seen this other thread (Do you feel like you are the one who has to initiate sex in your relationship? (http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=196861)), but you might find it interesting for the comments of women in it.

[AngelicGemma]

A few times a week is enough to keep me happy, if not more. I'm 18, and in a long term relationship.

[Tusculan]

And I Do Know How To Press The Shift Key.

i simply chose not to. ;)

[Marley23]

Your BF at 19 can't even think straight for this very reason (your BF in math class -- a2[gawd I'm horny]+b2[gotta call BornOfStardust and beg her to come over]=c2[wonder if I can get her to bring along her girlfriend] ).
Her boyfriend is 21, Whack-a-Mole, and has always been less hormonal than most guys. She'll tell you that he's still a demon in the sack, however. ;)

[irishajo]

28. About every 20 minutes. But I'm single, that may be why.

[irishajo]

Oops, forgot one. Masturbate (usually) on a daily basis.

[Elysian]

Some days I'll just be bouncing along like normal and then my husband will kiss me on the back of the neck and I'll be like freeeeeeow (as the immortal Zaphod would say).

I guess I'm like most people, I'm always ready for it. "Sex? Here, now? Why, sure!" :D

And some days, and I don't know why, I will practically glow with the supressed sexual energy, like a firefly *blink blink blink*. Those are the days...

But if I'm feeling grouchy or irritable, or if I have been working in the basement or something, I will absolutely want NO ONE touching me. Not even myself! I have to be clean and sweet smelling to even get in the mood, and I can't be hungry or too tired.

[Elysian]

Ugh, I'm 26 and masturbate never-you-mind :p

[Shaolinrabbit]

Originally posted by Whack-a-Mole
At 19 you're a walking hormone. It's not that teenagres don't count towards this but I think they seriously skew the stats

Are you complaining because horny 19 year olds are posting? I, for one, find it very refreshing. Horny 19 year old girls post away! :D

[Angel of the Lord]

Horny: quite often. While I'm not "always on" anymore, I am willing and enthusiastic about sex 95% of the time. The other 5% of the time I'm either sick or just Not In The Mood(TM). It used to be that I was *always* in the mood unless I was near-dead. I think that having a serious boyfriend, though, has made that wane somewhat--if I'm ticked at him, then I'm probably not going to want to have sex. Sometimes I just want to play around, though... <g>.

Masturbation: Daily. There are a few exceptions: bad period days, tired, know I'm getting some in the morning, but otherwise, I do so almost as though it was part of my schedule.

[SnoopyFan]

Female, married, 25. Libido of a rock. Once a week will do me, and even then it's not horniness to the point of immobility (that happens about every other month). DH, OTOH, would be happy with twice a day, every day.

I wonder if I've already hit my peak and it's all downhill from here. Not that I was getting laid when I was 18 but I sure did want to more than I do now.

[if6was9]

Originally posted by Elysian
Some days I'll just be bouncing along like normal and then my husband will kiss me on the back of the neck and I'll be like freeeeeeow (as the immortal Zaphod would say).

I guess I'm like most people, I'm always ready for it. "Sex? Here, now? Why, sure!" :D

And some days, and I don't know why, I will practically glow with the supressed sexual energy, like a firefly *blink blink blink*. Those are the days...

But if I'm feeling grouchy or irritable, or if I have been working in the basement or something, I will absolutely want NO ONE touching me. Not even myself! I have to be clean and sweet smelling to even get in the mood, and I can't be hungry or too tired. I'm not picking on you Elysian, just an observation from a guy. All that is exactly why men don't understand women. Grouchy, irritable, working in the basement, dirty, hungry, tired, NONE of those things would make most men not be horny! Well, maybe tired but... I guess it must just be a hormonal thing.

[tanookie]

Originally posted by if6was9
I'm not picking on you Elysian, just an observation from a guy. All that is exactly why men don't understand women. Grouchy, irritable, working in the basement, dirty, hungry, tired, NONE of those things would make most men not be horny! Well, maybe tired but... I guess it must just be a hormonal thing.

I don't think it is necessarily a hormonal thing... I certainly wouldn't want sex if I was hot, tired, dirty and hungry - so turn on the ac and let me get some food and a shower and I might be more willing...

Hubby was out mowing the lawn and in this heat/humidity he was hot, tired, dirty and thirsty. He wanted no more than a shower, a cold drink and a chance to relax. If I had asked him for sex at that point he would have laughed at me and told me to talk to him after his shower.

I think it is a matter of comfort more than hormones.

[ABBAJen]

Age: 19

Horny: Like, almost constantly. Especially when I'm around my guy. ;)

Masturbate: Every couple days

I've pretty much always been this horny. LOL. :)

[chestnutmare]

I am 27 and it has been more than a year since I've gotten any. I am horny most days although sometimes I manage to repress my hormones so that I can get on with life. Levels of horniness vary from "hmm I could use some skin on skin time" to "Can I please get fucked senseless? NOW!"

Masturbation tends to leave me feeling more frustrated than relaxed so I rarely bother although when the hormones are running at mach2 I might do something about it.

[Yumanite]

Age -- 25.

'sex'd be nice' horny -- pretty much all the time
'wild monkey sex' horny -- about a week each month, sort of around my period.

Back when I was maybe 16 or so, I'd masturbate a lot (several times a day), but I don't think I was any hornier. I just had less stuff to do and no one to boink. These days it's every now and then, when I can't have real sex for some reason (which doesn't happen too often).

[LauraLittlePony]

I'm 19, will be 20 in November.

I get horny several times a day. Yessiree. :)

I masturbate about once a day. Sometimes I will abstain for a few days to increase the intensity for the next time, especially before seeing a, er, good friend of mine. ;)

[illuminette]

Age: 28

Libido has skyrocketed since meeting someone who knows what the hell they are doing.

Ahhhhhh.......so nice to have a man, not a boy.

Find myself having naughty thoughts about said man.

Masturbate rather often.

[BornOfStardust]

At 19 you're a walking hormone. It's not that teenagres don't count towards this but I think they seriously skew the stats Eh, point taken. =P And it's occuring to me that somehow when we 19-year-old women post about our horniness levels on here it comes out looking like the text of a spam email... =P Here's something to think about though. There are a LOT of girls out there who are my age and older (and some twice my age and older) who have never experienced an orgasm and have never tried to get themselves off. I think that's sad! :( I mean, how many adolescent males do you think there are out there who have never tried to choke the ol' poultry? And I don't think it's always a lack of horniness so much as a general repression and lack of knowledge about it. With guys, it's easy...it's all hanging out right there in front of you. With girls, you have to explore a little more, and some find that extremely scary and don't understand that it's a beautiful, healthy, natural thing.

And yes...Her boyfriend is 21, Whack-a-Mole, and has always been less hormonal than most guys. She'll tell you that he's still a demon in the sack, however. :D :cool: ;) :cool: :D ;) :D

[illuminette]

yes, my sultry sister..... you are so very right.

I am a firm beleiver in sex education not only from a health standpoint, but as an acquired life skill.
If I had known how to masturbate effectively as a teenager, I think I would have been a lot happier....at least more laid back.

[CanvasShoes]

I've had a high sex drive since my first "real" boyfriend (when I was 18) taught me what sex was "REALLY" supposed to feel like.

With a decently talented partner, I'll want sex at least 3 times a week. Usually more.

I'm 44. And it, (the sex drive), is showing no signs of diminishing.

[CanvasShoes]

Originally posted by Whack-a-Mole
Sylkyn:

Just a thought but I've noticed that when I haven't gotten any for awhile my interest in sex decreases. I know I want it and will certainly take the opportunity whenever it arises but it does seem that my horniness frequency/severity decreases. When I di get back to it I then remember how much I missed it (taking care of yourself is all well and good but a partner makes things so much better...usually). I do not know you and I am not trying to say you should or should not do something but if it is a lack of sexual activity maybe dipping your toe back in the pool might rekindle the flame. Then again it might not...just a thought.

Same thing happens to me. If I'm not in a relationship, I gradually lose interest until I don't think about it at all. I go dead from the neck down I guess.

Which is a blessing really. I mean it's bad enough to be alone, but to be alone and have to deal with sexual frustration too??? ARgh.

[BornOfStardust]

Originally posted by illuminette
yes, my sultry sister..... you are so very right.

I am a firm beleiver in sex education not only from a health standpoint, but as an acquired life skill.
If I had known how to masturbate effectively as a teenager, I think I would have been a lot happier....at least more laid back.

Amen! ;)

[BornOfStardust]

Thankfully, illuminette, I didn't have the problem of masturbation ignorance in my teen years. I had been unwittingly masturbating since I was...I dunno, 3, 4, 5, something like that, rubbing against blankets and such. I just didn't realize what it was until I was about 15. :p Anybody else have a similar experience?

[BornOfStardust]

(And of course, had I known more about it to begin with, it wouldn't have taken me so long to figure it out and realize that I wasn't weird or somehow hurting myself, and I wouldn't have had to depend on chance discovery to figure out how to do it. Which is just why there needs to be more education about it!)

[illuminette]

Actually, I did the same thing. It is very common. My daughter, who is a toddler, does it and I don't think anything of it. I know that when she goes to school I will need to explain that those things need to stay at home.
Although, I do have some interesting friends that have been known to go to work and take "personal breaks" frequently during the day. They swear it increases their productivity.
Hell, I'm lucky if I can spell my name after an orgasm, much less work.

[BornOfStardust]

I've heard that it's pretty common, yeah. I've vowed to be open and accepting on the subject with my children, when I have them--I have a very clear memory of my mom telling me "Don't play with yourself" when I was young. Of course, the advice that those things should stay at home is good, at least until they're old enough to learn discretion. ;)

Hee hee..."personal breaks." I can see how it would increase productivity though (once you had time to get past the incoherent part ;))--it's a major stress reliever, endorphins flying everywhere and all. I saw a report recently that said studies have shown people are actually more alert and can think more clearly when they get a massage, which suggests that employers should give their employees massage breaks instead of coffee breaks. ;) Imagine, though, if we got massage breaks AND masturbation breaks! ;) There would be a lot of happy workers out there.....

[Marley23]

Imagine, though, if we got massage breaks AND masturbation breaks! ;) There would be a lot of happy workers out there.....
Fuck dental plans, we need jerkoff plans...

[Orange Skinner]

17 year old female checking in. I get horny, on average, I don't know, maybe every two hours; yeah, that sounds about right. In a given week, I'd say I probably masturbate anywhere from 7-25 times, though usually it's about 12 or so, though more if I haven't had a chance to see Mudshark.

I've been like this for the past four years or so...my sex drive has progressively gotten higher since I started masturbating at about 11. Oh, and for the past year, I've been on medication that's supposed to inhibit my sex drive/ability to orgasm. When my doctor was going into the side effects, I said, "oh, that's probably a good thing," to which he gave me the strangest of looks. I can't imagine how bad I'd be without it.

[suki]

Figures I jump into this post first.

It might have something to do with being single, however I'm horny constantly.
:D

When I was married sex was near at least every other day, and masturbating...well, it's just about every day.

[Orange Skinner]

I'm not picking on you Elysian, just an observation from a guy. All that is exactly why men don't understand women. Grouchy, irritable, working in the basement, dirty, hungry, tired, NONE of those things would make most men not be horny! Well, maybe tired but... I guess it must just be a hormonal thing.


I've never been a good representation of the female mindset at large, but none of this would translate as DON'T TOUCH ME. Being irritable, hungry, tired and dirty, to me, translates as, "let me make a sandwich and then we'll have slow shower sex."

Forgot to mention. Ideally, at this point in my life, (whether it has to do with age or personal disposition or what), I'd have sex or some variant of it once or twice daily. While I wouldn't have sex during my period, being on my period does little/nothing to do with hampering my sex drive. (I just don't find sex while on my period an appealing prospect).

7-25 times might sound a little shocking, (especially considering it's that high with a boyfriend), but I'll usually go three times in a row, then not again for the rest of the day, and I'm counting all of those times individually, not as one session.

[Finger Princess]

I'm eighteen and I'd say I'm genuinely physically horny at least once every day or two, but I'm in a constant "Looking for sex" sort of state. My male friends won't even lay down next to me on the ground for fear of being felt up.

Masturbation is pretty much once a day, sometimes with pauses of a few days to increase pleasure. The aforementioned friends are varyingly disturbed and intrigued by my penchant for public (secretive) self-gratification... Movie theaters, school, wherever.

It's been my experience that women can be horndogs just as much as men. The few female friends I have are very knowledgeable and comfortable regarding sex and sexuality, often to the consternation of our guy-friends.

I've been lurking for a few years now. It figures that this would be my first post.

[Syntropy]

I'm 37. I can't remember when I wasn't thinking about sex.

When I was 17, I thought the sex would never feel as good as it did when I was that young.

When I was 27, I knew more, had slowed the tempo (during) enough to enjoy it, and was sober for almost all of it (as opposed to when I was 20-25). Started going for quality instead of head count.

Now that I am 37, and hitting my plateau (women don't peak, we plateau :D ), I'm not nervous about asking for what I want, not embarrassed about doing anything & everything that comes to mind, and I have an orgasm every single time I have sex.

Really, I think men got the short end of the stick on this one.... (pun DECIDEDLY intended)

[Whack-a-Mole]

Originally posted by Maureen
Now that I am 37, and hitting my plateau (women don't peak, we plateau :D ), I'm not nervous about asking for what I want, not embarrassed about doing anything & everything that comes to mind, and I have an orgasm every single time I have sex.
Really, I think men got the short end of the stick on this one.... (pun DECIDEDLY intended) [/B]

I was just talking to some women tonight about this very thing. They were asking for sex tips (we are all friends but not sex friends) and the consensus of th guys was that women need to be more forthcoming in directing the guy to what they (the woman) personally likes. WE actually got spome resistance on this point that they don't feel comfortable with doing that. We toald them they only stood to gain from doing so and while they agreed with the logic the looks on their faces suggested to me that it wasn't likely to happen. Too bad because it's a win-win situation...everyone is happier. (Further discussion detailed that how the direction is given is important if you don't want to kill the moment but direction is still essential for best sex...everyone is different so guiding your partner is crucial for maximum effect unless you already know each other well enough to dispense with that [or are lucky]).

As an aside why is it that the women like Maureen never seem to live in Chicago (or the midwest)? Maybe I'm missing something but these ladies NEVER seeem to live within striking distance...more's the pity (for me anyway) :( .:D

[CadburyAngel]

Originally posted by Copaesthetic
Are you complaining because horny 19 year olds are posting? I, for one, find it very refreshing. Horny 19 year old girls post away! :D

Reporting as requested.

Like some of the posters above, I find that my horniness peaks when I'm ovulating, which is logical. During the week before my period I might get myself off two or three times in a week, and the week after it I won't be in the mood at all.

However, a lot of how horny I get depends on whether I'm getting enough exercise, whether I'm all stressed out, and whether I'm getting good sexy touch from people I'm attracted to. It's not an issue of whether I'm horny or not so much as it's whether I can go from 0-60 in five seconds or in five minutes.

[SnoopyFan]

"Personal breaks" at work?

Am I the only one that thinks that is way unprofessional?

[Draelin]

I'm 27 years old, and I would say my answer is "always." Of course, I'm single, so I don't have regular access. With proper care and treatment, I could be reduced to wanting it only every 12 hours or so.

[Silentgoldfish]

Originally posted by SnoopyFan
"Personal breaks" at work?

Am I the only one that thinks that is way unprofessional?

Probably. As long as you're not doing it at your desk how is it any different from a bathroom or smoke break?

[mipiace]

I'm nearly 36 I have been horny most of my freakin' life......LOL.

No really. I masturbate nearly everyday but if I have a regular steady lover, I want to have sex with him at least 3 or 4 times a week....still doesn't keep me from masturbating everyday...that is like a between meal snack.

The only time that really changed was when my children were newborns. I don't know if it was exhaustion or hormonal but that was the only time in my life when I had no sex drive.

[Syntropy]

Originally posted by Whack-a-Mole
As an aside why is it that the women like Maureen never seem to live in Chicago (or the midwest)? Maybe I'm missing something but these ladies NEVER seeem to live within striking distance...more's the pity (for me anyway) :( .:D

Thank you, how nice! :) But inaccurate. There is a two part answer to your question. First: there are. Plenty. You just have to stop chasing little girls and go after women. Second: sex for most women is something we are programmed from childhood to NOT WANT. "Nice girls don't do that. Or talk about it." Don't sit that way. Don't wear that. Don't walk like that. Don't laugh loud. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, DON'T DANCE LIKE THAT!! This is reinforced by men's belief that there are women you fuck, and women you marry, and never the twain shall meet. "I couldn't ask my wife to do THAT. That's why I have a mistress." As a result, there's a lot of unhappy people out there. And most of them have no clue why, and won't talk to each other, because they're too embarrassed. Sad.

[Syntropy]

AARGH!! Sorry. Could some mod please fix my profanity?
Thanks.

[PiscesPrincess]

I'm ready to "go" 99% of the time! My lucky lucky b/f ... :)

[AntaresJB]

Okay, I just turned 20. I am horny pretty much all the freaking time. Basically like a low, background, if-anyone-wanted-to-do-me-I'd-say-hell-yes kind of horniness. About once or twice a day my brain goes "Okay, I really really want sex NOW." And I just have to ignore it. I masturbate usually every night, as long as I've got my room to myself, and I own two vibrators. I think I started masturbating at about age 5 or 6, not even knowing what I was doing for years, only that it felt really really good.

The problem with me is that I have never had a steady source of sex. I've had one boyfriend, but he was long-distance and I only saw him about once a month so we only ever had sex twice, and that was the night I lost my virginity. I've had sex with two other guys since then, once each, and haven't really dated anyone since then either, so I would guess part of the reason I'm constantly horny is that I've never had a long-term sex partner. I just really really really love sex and I never get to do it so I want it all the freaking time. I'm sure if I had a boyfriend I'd maybe only wanna do it 3 or 4 times a night. ;)

[Orange Skinner]

I’ve found the variances in this thread from Doper to Doper pretty interesting. Some statistics:



Notice a difference in sex drive due to hormonal fluctuations:
Cadbury Angel; age 19 (fluctuates as a result of menstruation)
Mipiace; 36 (childbirth)
Yumanite; 25, (menstruation)
Lsura, 29 (menstruation)
Sylkyn, 43 (hysterectomy)



Sex Drive:
Very High (masturbate more than 7xs in an average week/want sex one or more times daily)
Irishajo, 28
Draelin; 27
ava, 21
AntaresJB, 20
Orange Skinner; 17

High (masturbate 3-6xs a week/want sex at least every other day)
CanvasShoes; 44
Mipiace; 36, not single.
tanookie, 30
Finger Princess; 19.
LauraLittlePony; 19
Born of Stardust, 19
suki
Angel of the Lord

Medium (Masturbate an average of once a week/want sex one or two times a week)
Cadbury Angel; 19
ABBAJen; 19
AngelicGemma 18

Low (Masturbate once ever two weeks-once a month/would ideally have sex once every two weeks)
Sylkyn, 43
Lsura, 29
SnoopyFan, 25



Make of all this what you will.

[Lsura]

Originally posted by Orange Skinner
I’ve found the variances in this thread from Doper to Doper pretty interesting. Some statistics:


Lsura, 29 (menstruation)


I said ovulation, not menstruation. The former is when I get to wanting "wild monkey sex" phase, the latter is not. Yes, both are part of the cycle, but are rather different things.


Sex Drive:
Low (Masturbate once ever two weeks-once a month/would ideally have sex once every two weeks)

Lsura, 29


Nope, I said:

The first type happens maybe 1-3 times a week. The second type, maybe twice a month, normally around ovulation - it's pretty much how I time my cycle.


I just don't want to be put in the "low sex drive" category when I certainly wouldn't call my sex drive low. I'd call myself more middle of the road. How often someone masturbates isn't a good measure of sex drive - I can want a good deal of sex, but knowing that I'm not likely to get any anytime soon, it can be easier to ignore it rather than masturbate, which just kicks things into high gear and makes me spend a lot more time thinking about sex than I already do, and I don't have that much time to spare in my schedule right now.

[Syntropy]

Wow, I don't even rate?

[Orange Skinner]

Sorry, Lsura. Firstly, I was using menstruation to stand for the entire cylce, ovulation included. If anyone said that they found their sex drive different, whether when they were ovulating, actually menstruating, or directly afterwards, I just chalked it up to this in general. That's why there's a discrepency there.

Secondly, the ranking system was fairly generic, as you can tell. (I'd mainly mapped it out to see where the various age ranges/rate of activity would fall, as Whack-a-mole implied ealier that he felt teenagers would skew the results drastically, and from the posts I'd read, didn't feel this was the case.

To simplify, I tried to use two or three general indicators as far as ranking goes. You would know better than I about where you'd fall, of course. I wasn't sure if general horniness immediately translated to masturbation, as with many people it doesn't, and therefor didn't know where to put you. (I bit off more than I could chew, actually). So for you, and for a couple others, I had to sort of guess at it.

Maureen, you're so high you're not even on the chart. ;). Sorry about that. I didn't add you in, because while it seemed obvious from your postings that you would certainly be in the upper ranges, I wasn't sure just how high, as you hadn't given concrete numbers. (I omitted a couple people who just said they "were horny all the time" or "masturbated a lot" on this ground, only because I wasn't sure of where exactly they'd fall, or what they're "a lot" might be. That's all.

[Draelin]

Orange, do you need more specific information for this, or are you going to stop with the general study? I'll be happy to provide more concrete numbers. I have nothing else to do right now. :)

Which may have something to do with why I qualified for the "high" category. ;)

[Syntropy]

Orange Skinner, you are too funny, honey! I've got a feeling you're probably going to be the same way in about 17 years or so....

I think maybe Whack-a- mole did have a point, though, as younger women are more likely to answer questions like this then "women of a certain age."

To clarify something I said to the OP, by "go after women instead of little girls," I should have said: women who are emotionally mature and comfortable with their sexuality. That really has very little to do with age. My apologies if anyone was offended.

[Whack-a-Mole]

Originally posted by Maureen
To clarify something I said to the OP, by "go after women instead of little girls," I should have said: women who are emotionally mature and comfortable with their sexuality. That really has very little to do with age. My apologies if anyone was offended.

Fair enough and I agree wholeheartedly. Unfortunately I have yet to find a way to discern this before having sex with a woman. I personally have found no correlation between how a woman acts outside the bedroom as she does in it. Women who seem strong, assertive, open to any and every discussion may be anything but those things in bed. Women who are quiet and reserved may be tigers in bed. Mix and match at will (i.e quiet ones may be mousy in bed and asserive women may be tigers). I have yet to see a trend I can even begin to count on. My sixth-sense doesn't even tune on this with any accuracy (not trying to be mystical...just that 'gut' instinct you generate about people you meet).

[Orange Skinner]

Thanks, Maureen. And regarding the in 17 years...I certainly hope so :).

Draelin: If the thread gets a lot more hits, (and if my current level of boredom sticks around) I might end up adding to the first, so sure.

Oh, and if anyone thinks of some other another aspect I'm overlooking that might be interesting, let me know. I was thinking maybe something to do with sex drive variances with/without a partner...specifically, if it's higher/lower when in a relationship, if the urge to masturbate stays the same/tapers off/rises while in a relationship, etc. I think that might be sort of interesting.

[Orange Skinner]

(This might also make for some good background, though not as many previous posters have provided this information, whereas several had mentioned fluctuations with/without a SO in the picture):

I'm curious to see if the age at which one started masturbating has any correlation on how high/low their sex drive is today, and secondly, what sort of upbringing did you have regarding sex and sexuality. I'm betting these factors have a lot to do with the end result in many women.

[Tster]

I'm 34 and I think of sex more and more each day as I'm getting older. I think it's because as I've gotten older, I've been with more and more men that actually knew what they were doing in bed.

"Women just know that men are horny pretty much all the time." -Except when football is on. No, truly, I think men like to act like they're horny all the time but when it comes down to it, the average man has times when he is "not in the mood" just like women do. Just last night, I stripped naked and said to my bf (of 2 years)... come on, lets go in the hot tub. He's a generally sexually excitable kind of guy but (to my annoyance) he just didn't seem very enthusiastic (I made the effort worth his while though!).

As far as masterbating... I'd say once a week, maybe. It's not that important... sometimes I just get kind of bored.

[Q.N. Jones]

I'm kind of shy about sharing this on a public message board, but what the hell...

I'm 26, a virgin, and when things are going about "average" for me, I masturbate between 3-6 times per week, and I'm not happy unless I have between 2-5 orgasms per session. I think about sex about as often as most guys say they do (which is pretty much every other minute).

(As an aside: Being on the Pill or on antidepressants mutes my sex drive, but not by much. Antidepressants seriously reduce the pleasure derived from orgasm, though.)

The reason I feel compelled to share is that I know I'm not average. I discovered how to give myself an orgasm without the help of a man or a vibrator, and being a horndog doesn't mean that I'm not picky as hell about who I date or sleep with (duh, I'm a 26 year old virgin--that pretty much speaks for itself). And even being really busy/stressed out/grubby/having my period/tired doesn't usually affect my sex drive. Hell, sometimes those things just make me think spending a couple of hours masturbating would be a lovely and much needed break.

[Q.N. Jones]

I didn't see page 2 before I posted.

Originally posted by Orange Skinner:
specifically, if it's higher/lower when in a relationship

Hard to say. In the one long-term relationship I was in, I went on the Pill, which killed my sex drive entirely. I will say that I was mentally hornier but physically unable to respond.

curious to see if the age at which one started masturbating has any correlation on how high/low their sex drive is today

I can remember masturbating as young as 6 or 7--couldn't achieve orgasm that young but I did have sexual fantasies and I knew what I was doing felt good.

and secondly, what sort of upbringing did you have regarding sex and sexuality.

I'd say mine was ideal. Mom told us about the function of the clitoris and that it "felt good to touch it" when we were very young, as a part of general education about our bodies, and made it clear without ever saying so directly that masturbation was perfectly OK but a private thing. My parents also were very open about sex ed (we discussed it at the dinner table, for pete's sake) and their central theme was balancing grown-up sexual behavior with the attendant responsibilities and concerns. Their message was to have healthy, responsible relationships when we were grown up enough to handle them.

Originally posted by Whack-a-Mole
As an aside why is it that the women like Maureen never seem to live in Chicago (or the midwest)? Maybe I'm missing something but these ladies NEVER seeem to live within striking distance...more's the pity (for me anyway) :( .:D

Well, there are a few of us here in the heartland... ;)

[illuminette]

Age masturbation started....ummm well, I knew what it really was at about 13 or so.
And yes, I think it raised my sexual "base line".

Family upbringing, my parents have always been and still are raging nymphomaniacs, after 34 years even. Hell, I think my mother has a better collection of fetish wear than most stores out there. Don't cringe, she's awesome for her age.
They were very open and would encourage very graphic conversations when we (siblings) got older about the importance of learning proper sex techniques and the role good sex had in a relationship.

[Audrey Levins]

Hmmmmmm.....I go through phases, so this is a tough call.

I'm 25. I'm happy with sex two/three times a week; I'd enjoy it more often than that, but Mr. Levins and I have a room-mate, and we both work weird hours, and sleep at odd hours....so sometimes it just isn't possible.

And I am incredibly horny during the middle/tail-end of my period. (A small part of me is wondering why I am saying these things to thousands of people, but hell. Why not.) Don't know why, but once the initial two-days' cramps have subsided, I'm insanely horny for at least a week after that. (Which can suck, b/c orgasms can lead to the dreaded Re-Awakening of the Cramps. Does this happen to anyone else?)

As for masturbating....maybe twice a week?

But my sex drive does go through phases....the more I have it, the more I want it, but if I don't get any for a week or so, I find myself thinking of it less and less. Girlfriends of mine have said the same thing; if you're not getting any, you don't really want any, but once you do get some, you want lots more.

[CanvasShoes]

Originally posted by Whack-a-Mole
[B]Fair enough and I agree wholeheartedly. Unfortunately I have yet to find a way to discern this before having sex with a woman. I personally have found no correlation between how a woman acts outside the bedroom as she does in it.
WHEW!! Then I'm not "weird"!!! LOL.

My boyfriend cannot BELIEVE the difference between my "bedroom self" and my "normal self". He's constantly complaining "how on EARTH can you be so shy about talking about stuff when you do the things you do in bed"???

We've been going out for about 5 and a half of the last 7 years and he can still make me blush with a "naughty" statement or look.

[Olive, The Other Reindeer]

You left me out :(

Age: 40
Has sex: At least once a day, usually 2x or more, rarely masturbates (unless it's part of foreplay)

[Syntropy]

Originally posted by illuminette
They were very open and would encourage very graphic conversations when we (siblings) got older about the importance of learning proper sex techniques and the role good sex had in a relationship.

Lucky girl. That's just not the norm. Although it really should be; so many people would have fewer problems if there parents were that open about sex.

[BornOfStardust]

I agree, Maureen. I'd like to be like that as much as possible with my kids, once I have them. I WISH my parents had been like that, but they sure weren't. I already mentioned how my mom told me not to play with myself when I was little. My mom told me about periods and puberty, but for some reason my parents never gave my brother or I "The Talk" about the act of sex itself. I don't really know how or when I figured out what it was all about...somehow it all filtered in eventually from friends, media, etc. Furthermore, there was hell in my house when the 'rents found out I was sexually active (course, part of what made it so bad was that I wasn't exactly monogamous at the time...if I had been I think they would have flipped less), and though they understand that I am mature and can make my own decisions at college, my mother still doesn't want my boyfriend to sleep in the same bed with me when he visits--we'd have to be married, not even engaged, for that. She still believes that chastity until marriage is the highest moral way to go, and that part of being a loving mother is to expect the highest morality from your children. Sigh.....

As far as sex drive with or without a partner is concerned...I've been with my current boyfriend for over 9 months, so I'm trying to remember what it was like without one. ;) With one, my sex drive is high most of the time. There was a time when I didn't have an SO but still had people I'd get sex from semi-regularly. If I was getting a decent amount of sex, I think my sex drive remained pretty high or increased. Sometimes it would still be high even without regular gittin-it-on, but there were certainly times when, as other people here have said, I'd think about it less when I wasn't getting it much. Not thinking about it can make not having it easier to bear, after all. ;)

I've mentioned that I was very young when I started masturbating--3 or 4, I think. It was definitely to orgasm, too. I would pile the blankets under me and rub against them and start coming up with more and more elaborate (for who knows what reason) spanking fantasies. I didn't know what the sensations were, of course, but the fantasies and sensations would get wilder and more intense until they hit a high point--and then suddenly there would be the comedown, and I'd feel extremely silly for thinking the weird things I was thinking and go to sleep. I thought there was something seriously wrong with me for doing this, and I was afraid that I was hurting myself, so I would have periods where I'd try to stop and feel proud of myself for doing so, but I'd invariably go back to it. When I was 15 and first did semi-sexual things with a boy, the big light came on and it all made sense. ;) Sometimes I've felt like my particular childhood experience hampered my masturbation ability in that I never did it by touching myself, only by rubbing against something. I expanded into that of course :p, but some of my most intense orgasms still come from "the old way."

So, a summary for Orange Skinner ;) :
Age: 19
Sex Drive: High
Age of First Masturbation: 3 or 4
Upbringing Regarding Sex: Not exactly Puritan, but not exactly open either.
Sex Drive With SO: High to very high
Sex Drive Without SO: Sometimes high or very high, sometimes medium to low

[Tster]

I wonder if any other woman noticed this... I never even considered masterbating until I was about 6 months pregnant. All of a sudden, I just had to have it at the strangest times.

[song]

About two weeks before my period I get so horny, I feel like my body is on fire from the inside out. It has gotten stronger this past year. I am not a sex fiend by any means. In fact, I can live without it any other time of the month, but for about one week per month, I am EXTREMELY horny and constantly wet. Thank goodness for masturbation and dildos because I am not the type of woman who can have sex with a man I am not in a relationship with. BTW, I am 47.

[Hello Again]

About two weeks before my period I get so horny, I feel like my body is on fire from the inside out. It has gotten stronger this past year. I am not a sex fiend by any means. In fact, I can live without it any other time of the month, but for about one week per month, I am EXTREMELY horny and constantly wet. Thank goodness for masturbation and dildos because I am not the type of woman who can have sex with a man I am not in a relationship with. BTW, I am 47.

Just think: you were only 39 when this thread was active.

Zombies' only lust is for braiiiins.

[Cat Fight]

I’ve found the variances in this thread from Doper to Doper pretty interesting. Some statistics:


Abed (http://community-sitcom.wikia.com/wiki/Abed_Nadir), is that you?

[TheWhoToTheWhatNow]

In my experience woman are VERY horny. At least as horny as men, if not more. It takes different things to turn them on compared to men, but women, especially when it's "that time of month" are randy as hell.

Unfortunately they're not allowed to be obvious about it or they look slutty, and guys suck at picking up on cues a chick is horny so girls end up going home frustrated a lot haha It's rough for them...imagine being hungry but not being able to tell anyone you want food and hoping someone will realize you're starving and offer you food.

I've met women with low sex drives, but the ones who are legitimately low sex drive are pretty rare, especially when single and in the 18 - 35 range. A lot of girls who think they're low sex drive have simply not had good sexual experiences or have a lot of repression holding them back from really enjoying sex (like they were brought up to believe only sluts like sex and it's a dirty thing to masturbate etc.) so it's, understandably, not something they really crave.

That's not to pooh-pooh girls who legitimately have a low sex drive. That's a definate thing...but it would surprise guys how rare it really is and that a lot of girls they date or are married to with low sex drives just have low sex drives for THEM.

- TWTTWN

[Autolycus]

I've found truth in the saying that men are like a light switch, and women are like a roaring bonfire. It might take some time to get it started, but boy, when it does!

[shijinn]

and that's only because the light comes on so quickly and often for men. you want a roaring bonfire, you take the time and effort to build it up.

[Siam Sam]

Hmmm. I'm seeing 17- and 18-year-olds in this thread who joined in 2002 and 2003? :dubious:

[Siam Sam]

Hey, no fair. If you click on the Public Profile on some of these 17- and 18-year-olds, you see they're actually listed as mid-20s.

[Ura-Maru]

Because being surrounded by horny women in their mid-20s is such a horrible fate . . .

--
I can't allow it. Run, my friend! I'll take your place!

[Siam Sam]

It's fraud, I tell you! If you can't trust what you read on the Internet, what CAN you trust?

[Soliloquy]

This thread makes me laugh. According to men I know well enough to discuss this type of thing, I have an unusually high sex drive for a woman, but according to this thread, I'm pretty normal.

Most nights, I'd rather have a quickie than nothing, no matter how tired I am. Kinda pretty much want it all the time. Usually a couple of times a day. Morning sex is the best way to wake up in the world.

Outside of a quickie, I am more than willing to tell my man what I want and how I want it, and he is more than willing to oblige. We have great communication, and some pretty dirty conversations, both in and out of bed. :) There are a few things that I haven't tried and am not willing to do, but everything else is fair game. And I don't even have to be drunk for those things.

I'm 32. I don't live with my boyfriend, so I make use of personal time a few times a week. Just the same, I make sure I rock him on the nights we spend together. The personal time doesn't do anything for how much I want him, and I like to make sure he knows it. And comes back for more the following week. ;)

[Siam Sam]

Damn. I've been "zombied." Didn't notice the original dates of the thread. So, I wonder how the horny 17- and 18-year-olds are faring these days. And if they need my phone number. (Don't call me at home, though.)

[CanvasShoes]

When I'm in a relationship? All of the time, ideally sex several times a week. When I'm not in a relationship? I'm lucky that it doesn't bother me (too much, other wise I'd crack and climb the clocktower :D). I've always been that way, even when I was much younger and supposedly hadn't hit that middle-aged "peak" yet.

It reminds me of a cute joke. God was in the Garden handing out presents to Adam and Eve out of this little black bag he had.

He says "oh, there are only a couple left, look here's 'can pee standing up' who wants that one"?

Adam (jumping around) says "ME ME! pick me!!!!". Eve says "it's okay God, let him have it, I don't mind".

God says "oh, well I'm sorry Eve, it looks as if all that's left is multiple orgasms".

:D

[Der Trihs]

It reminds me of a cute joke. God was in the Garden handing out presents to Adam and Eve out of this little black bag he had.

He says "oh, there are only a couple left, look here's 'can pee standing up' who wants that one"?

Adam (jumping around) says "ME ME! pick me!!!!". Eve says "it's okay God, let him have it, I don't mind".

God says "oh, well I'm sorry Eve, it looks as if all that's left is multiple orgasms".

:DThat reminds me of a comic I saw once. God is looking down off his cloud with a grumpy expression. Little hearts and <smooches> are drifting up from below.

God: "This is boring...I know! I'll make one peak at 18, and the other at 30!"

<ZAP>

(cartoon cursing from below): "@^&&%&!" "$%&*#@!"

God: "That's more like it!"

[CanvasShoes]

o yeah...52

[anya marie]

I haven't wanted much sex these past two weeks because i've been as sick as hell. First the cold from hell and bronchitis, so i haven't masturbated either. I'd like to have sex every night if i could get it and am 32.

[StuckinCA]

It's great that some women have a great libido, but the varied answers proves itself. Women, as it seems in everything, are more complicated and varied. Therefore, women and mens' sex drives are different. Men are like a truck and women are like the space shuttle. Both get you from point A to point B, but a truck is easy to maintain...

Studies say men think about sex about 3 times an hour every hour when they are awake. And as long as it works (thank you Viagra), men can have sex when sick, angry or tired. They can have sex with women they hate, an X, or even ones they really don't respect. Some men even prefer women they don't respect or don't have emotional ties with. Men will pay for sex, beg for sex, and lie and say I love you for sex. They will have sex with a pizza, a vacuum cleaner or the worst I've heard a tree (don't know how). And even if a man is "not in the mood", just touch it and see what happens... (just an aside, there is a joke - the only woman a man doesn't want to have sex with is his wife.) That said, maybe, women give sex to get love, and men give love (or power and money) to have sex.

[don't ask]

Surely the sales of 50 Shades of Grey render this thread moot. Last week I spotted one of the young women at work reading it during her lunch break. Back in my day there were no young women publically reading dirty books with no redeeming literary values. More's the pity.

[colander]

It's great that some women have a great libido, but the varied answers proves itself. Women, as it seems in everything, are more complicated and varied. Therefore, women and mens' sex drives are different. Men are like a truck and women are like the space shuttle. Both get you from point A to point B, but a truck is easy to maintain...

Studies say men think about sex about 3 times an hour every hour when they are awake. And as long as it works (thank you Viagra), men can have sex when sick, angry or tired. They can have sex with women they hate, an X, or even ones they really don't respect. Some men even prefer women they don't respect or don't have emotional ties with. Men will pay for sex, beg for sex, and lie and say I love you for sex. They will have sex with a pizza, a vacuum cleaner or the worst I've heard a tree (don't know how). And even if a man is "not in the mood", just touch it and see what happens... (just an aside, there is a joke - the only woman a man doesn't want to have sex with is his wife.) That said, maybe, women give sex to get love, and men give love (or power and money) to have sex.

You're no Gary Oak, my friend.

[lavenderviolet]

Orange Skinner, you are too funny, honey! I've got a feeling you're probably going to be the same way in about 17 years or so....


Am I the only one who is kind of freaked out that this thread is already nearly 10 years old, so Orange Skinner is already over halfway to the "in 17 years" point now?

I wonder if she ever did become a sex therapist as she had talked about on here.

[Yeticus Rex]

Double zombified for extra oozey goodness!

[sahirrnee]

What do you mean by 'get' horny?
I can 'get' hungry, I can 'get' tired, I can 'get' mad, sad or lonely. I can 'get' a job, I can 'get' a sandwich, I can 'get' to where ever it is I am going.
I do not 'get' horny.
I am horny.
Being horny is like breathing, if I'm not either then I am probably dead.

[Loach]

Its ten years later and I'm still horny.

[RTFirefly]

Masturbation is pretty much once a day, sometimes with pauses of a few days to increase pleasure. The aforementioned friends are varyingly disturbed and intrigued by my penchant for public (secretive) self-gratification... Movie theaters, school, wherever.It may be nine and a half years later, but I've got to admire this post/username combo.

[Hershele Ostropoler]

What constitutes a high sex drive? I skimmed the ten-years-ago parts of the thread, has there been some kind of consensus? I'm thinking of the split-screen psychiatrist bit in Annie Hall.

[epbrown01]

It's like with alcholoism - the person that wants sex more than you is a nympho, the person that wants it less is frigid.

[echo7tango]

It's like with alcholoism - the person that wants sex more than you is a nympho, the person that wants it less is frigid.

My wife is a nympho. I can keep up, though.

(pun not intended, but, there it is)

[madrabbitwoman]

I get horny when I am manic (which is way too often for my comfort) I masturbate to try and avoid ending up in unsafe situations. Sometimes works anyway

[Rachellelogram]

What constitutes a high sex drive? I skimmed the ten-years-ago parts of the thread, has there been some kind of consensus? I'm thinking of the split-screen psychiatrist bit in Annie Hall.
Maybe you could check out the distribution in this Kinsey sex frequency study (http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html#frequency). It sorts by age, gender, and relationship status. I don't know that it necessarily indicates pure horniness, as nobody can have sex every single time they're feeling horny ('cept Hugh Hefner, maybe).

[Maastricht]

Tired 45 year old mom here.

My system just gets turned off after a while. If I haven''t had good sex in two weeks or so, the whole idea of sex moves to the back burner, and, eventually, switches off.

[corkboard]

Based on how often she initiates sex with me, my wife* clocks in at 3x/week. Add to that the 1x/week or sometimes 1x every 2 weeks that she'll text me a smiley face following her mid-morning, post-workout shower, which is our personal code for "I just masturbated, now it's your turn". That may or may not be an accurate indication of how frequently she gets horny, but there you go. She's 45.



*Contributed on her behalf, since she's not a Doper.

[johnpost]

double zombie or no

Men are like a truck and women are like the space shuttle. Both get you from point A to point B, but a truck is easy to maintain...


so is viagra like having 4WD and off road tires or chains? is the refractory period like having to put on new solid rocket boosters?

They can have sex with women they hate, an X, or even ones they really don't respect.

this is why men have more pillow cases than sets of sheets.

[Lucky 13]

I notice all the horny 19 year olds who originally posted on this thread have mysteriously disappeared as the years went by and no longer post on this board...

Anyway, I might as well contribute. 41 (42 in a few weeks,) no partner, and way too full of urges, at least once a day. I don't even have to touch myself to get off sometimes, all I need is to fantasize. I would have thought my libido would decrease after my hysterectomy, and later when I started on antidepressants. Nope.

[Siam Sam]

I notice all the horny 19 year olds who originally posted on this thread have mysteriously disappeared as the years went by and no longer post on this board...

Met with misadventure no doubt. All the more reason to lock up your wimmin. And cover their cleavage.

[Yeticus Rex]

Two words:

Evil Captor

[olivesmarch4th]

I'm a 29 year old married female. There's like a week out of every month where I'm horny every day, and even then it's touch-and-go. Outside of those times, I don't really think about sex or feel a compelling need for it. In fact, I generally see excessive masturbation as a sign that I'm depressed. I can, however, be persuaded.

[DemiP93]

I am a girl 19 years old. I feel as tho I am always horny. If I'm with a guy I'm 9/10 times horny. When dating I want it as often or sometimes more often than the guy.

[AngelSoft]

34 years old and never. I haven't had the 'urge' (solo or otherwise) for at least 3 years. And even then it was very very rare. Though, I do realize this isn't the norm.

[Siam Sam]

I am a girl 19 years old. I feel as tho I am always horny. If I'm with a guy I'm 9/10 times horny. When dating I want it as often or sometimes more often than the guy.

Got cleavage?