Who has a better chance at getting layed a guy or a girl?????? And Why?????

[*~Amber-Skye~*]

Everyones opinion is welcome:)

[Lucky]

You're kidding, right?

[Jonathan Chance]

How can you NOT say a girl? In my experience guys have to go out and find a willing partner whereas (as I recall from college) any girl who's after it can find it on a Saturday night!

Note my sig.

[Bottle of Smoke]

Simple test:
Have a man or woman walk into a bar and announce "I'm in the mood for some hot, sweaty sex right now. Any takers?"

Observe the results:
If the subject is a man, all the women in the bar will burst out laughing.
If the subject is a woman, all the men in the bar will trip over each other trying to be the first in line.

[DrMatrix]

Bottle of Smoke

That's funny, I would expect exactly the opposite results at the bars that I frequent. (Of course, I frequent gay bars.)

[*~Amber-Skye~*]

No, I'm not kidding. One day me and a bunch of co-workers where just think about different topics and this one just happened to be an interesting question. The whole point of me asking is to get everyones own point of view. So basically no ones right and no ones wrong. It's just for fun and the responses shall be very interesting:)

And for all that reply, i truly appreciate your opinions:)

[Munch]

I'm waiting for a female poster to come in here and say that of all the people in the world having sex right now, 50% of them are female and 50% are male (excepting of course the small percentage having sex with animals etc.).

[Munch]

I'm waiting for a female poster to come in here and say that of all the people in the world having sex right now, 50% of them are female and 50% are male (excepting of course the small percentage having sex with animals etc.).

This will quickly be shot down, as nearly 100% of guys want to get laid all of the time (and will have sex with any willing partner), while a typical female will wait until she finds the right partner (not just anyone, as they know exactly how desperate we are). Thus, us losers will nearly always be shot down, and achieve a 5% success rate, while a woman will achieve a 98% success rate.

[Purd Werfect]

Probably anyone besides me.

[lolagranola]

Let me tell you, definitely woman have the advantage here. I'm not sure if I've ever been turned down. I've had more offers than I could possibly count.

To get laid, all I have to say is one word: yes.

Men, on the other hand, don't generally find things so easy, unless they happen to be exceptionally good looking, and have women panting everywhere.

[Fretful Porpentine]

I suspect a guy ... but only because gay men seem to get more than lesbians. Among the heterosexual population, men and women OBVIOUSLY get laid in equal numbers.

[Mr. Cynical]

:rolleyes:

[Badtz Maru]

An unattractive woman can lower her standards until she eventually will find a man who will have sex with her. A man can do the same, but he may have to lower his standards so far that he is unable to perform with the woman he ends up with.

I saw a thing on TV where they did a test, they took an attractive man and an attractive woman, put them on a college campus, and had each ask people of the appropriate sex if they wanted to go have casual sex right then. A good percentage of men said yes to the woman (though not all of them, I think it was like 60%), while no women said yes to the man.

[Munch]

Originally posted by Fretful Porpentine
I suspect a guy ... but only because gay men seem to get more than lesbians. Among the heterosexual population, men and women OBVIOUSLY get laid in equal numbers.

SO wrong. Among the heterosexual population, men and women get laid in equal PERCENTAGES (i.e. 50% of the heterosexuals getting laid RIGHT NOW are men, and 50% are women).

I suspect that of the men, many are "repeat offenders", and much more repeat than the females.

[JoltSucker]

Simple test:
Have a man or woman walk into a bar and announce "I'm in the mood for some hot, sweaty sex right now. Any takers?"

Observe the results:
If the subject is a man, all the women in the bar will burst out laughing.
If the subject is a woman, all the men in the bar will trip over each other trying to be the first in line.


The thing that would slow me down with a woman who said that would be wondering what was wrong with this picture, was I going to get jumped by a big burly guy once we went outside, was she a psycho man-mutilator looking for her next victim, etc.

But if I was reasonably assured that I wasn't stepping into a trap of some kind...

[Zenster]

Little Johnny and Sally were in the tool shed playing comparative anatomy. When Sally noticed one significant difference she burst into tears and went running into the house. "Mommy, mommy." she cried, pointing into her pants. "Johnny has something I don't have."

Sally's mother brushed away her tears and said soothingly, "There, there, Sally. As long as you have one of these, you can always get one of those."


I rest my case. This question is utterly ridiculous.

[tracer]

Connor wrote:

Originally posted by Fretful Porpentine
I suspect a guy ... but only because gay men seem to get more than lesbians. Among the heterosexual population, men and women OBVIOUSLY get laid in equal numbers.

SO wrong. Among the heterosexual population, men and women get laid in equal PERCENTAGES (i.e. 50% of the heterosexuals getting laid RIGHT NOW are men, and 50% are women).

And even this is an oversimplification, since somewhere out there, right now, at least one group is engaging in a menage-a-trois.

[BlackKnight]

Dear lord, I don't know why I'm even responding to this, but here goes.

Why, oh why is it taken as a given that every guy wants sex 24/7? This is one stereotype that I really wish would die.

*Que flood of male posters telling me how they are horny 24/7, and how I'm either one of the very few who isn't or am mistaken about how horny I am*

[handy]

Why is Amber writing all these sex questions? Is MM back again?

[Silver Fire]

Originally posted by BlackKnight
Why, oh why is it taken as a given that every guy wants sex 24/7

I don't think that, just so you guys know. :)

Amber, one question mark per question is really all you need.

[CnoteChris]

Wow. I'm pretty amazed at the one-sided answers here. I, personally, would have gone with a 60% female to 40% male in the easy-lay quotient.

As some may know, and others could care less about, I've worked most of my college days as a bartender in a few different bars here in Minneapolis. Popular bars, pick-up bars, sophisticated bars, you name it (I worked more than one bar on a couple of occasions).

When I first started bartending, at the tender age of 21, I, too, shared in the idea that any woman could go out and get laid any day of the week. I, too, also thought it was the job of the guy to win over the girl and seek out going home and getting laid.

Spend a few nights behind the bar people. Women are just as bad, if not worse, than the guys. I never would have believed it had I not witnessed it myself.

I have seen any number of good looking guys get hit on to the point of being somewhat pissed and begin completely ignoring the gals. The vice versa is also true, but the equality of activley seeking it out accross the board seemed pretty damn equal to me.

Women fall all over the good-looking guys much like the guys fall all over the good-looking gals. It may have been different in the past, but todays world seems to have balanced it out between the sexes.

[Stella*Fantasia]

Trouble is, in our culture, a girl who likes sex and has lots of it is branded a slut. Generally, it's not guys who're doing the branding, either...it's other chicks. (My personal theory is that they're jealous because they wish THEY were having as much as we are.) Anyway, most of us are brought up thinking that we're not supposed to get laid a lot.
Guys, on the other hand, are not brought up with that belief. If they score lots, nobody talks trash about them. (People may call him a playa, but he won't deal with the same group censure as a girl who gets around does.)
It's like guys are actively encouraged to be horny, and girls are actively discouraged from doing anything about it.
Who wants to subvert the dominant paradigm with me? ;)

[RickJay]

Originally posted by CnoteChris
Wow. I'm pretty amazed at the one-sided answers here. I, personally, would have gone with a 60% female to 40% male in the easy-lay quotient.

As some may know, and others could care less about, I've worked most of my college days as a bartender in a few different bars here in Minneapolis. Popular bars, pick-up bars, sophisticated bars, you name it (I worked more than one bar on a couple of occasions).

When I first started bartending, at the tender age of 21, I, too, shared in the idea that any woman could go out and get laid any day of the week. I, too, also thought it was the job of the guy to win over the girl and seek out going home and getting laid.

Spend a few nights behind the bar people. Women are just as bad, if not worse, than the guys. I never would have believed it had I not witnessed it myself.

Gotta weigh in here in total agreement. Not being too far removed from university myself, women were just as aggressive in trying to get laid on Thursday-Saturday night and not substantially more successful.

[Falcon]

Originally posted by Stella*Fantasia
Trouble is, in our culture, a girl who likes sex and has lots of it is branded a slut. Generally, it's not guys who're doing the branding, either...it's other chicks. (My personal theory is that they're jealous because they wish THEY were having as much as we are.) Anyway, most of us are brought up thinking that we're not supposed to get laid a lot.
Guys, on the other hand, are not brought up with that belief. If they score lots, nobody talks trash about them. (People may call him a playa, but he won't deal with the same group censure as a girl who gets around does.)
It's like guys are actively encouraged to be horny, and girls are actively discouraged from doing anything about it.
Who wants to subvert the dominant paradigm with me? ;)

AMEN, Stella.

My reasoning....if you're single and he's single, WHO THE FUCK CARES!

Thank you.

[Manda JO]

The reason guys always think that girls can get laid anytime they want to is that they are only thinking about the girls who turned them down when they tried to have sex with them. Go to a bar and watch: the women in the top 25% charisma-wise (and I mean both looks and personality) are being hit on by the majoprity of the guys there--the other girls, just like the lower 75% of guys, charisma wise, are SoL. Bluntly, most people only consider people more attractive than themselves as potential mates--I know plenty of people of both genders that would never meet thier own qualifications.

I have heard men joke about the "ugly friend" or the "fat friend"--the girl with the pretty chick everyone is flirting with. Trust me, when you are that woman the dry spells can be pretty long. Those of us who are not beauties or who have the sort of personalities it takes another eccentric to appriciate do not get laid whenever we want. And it is more or less the same with guys--those with charisma flowing out thier ears can get laid pretty easily, and the rest have to wait.

Amber Skye, you mentioned "co-workers"--how old are you? I've been assuming around 15, and cutting you a lot of slack because of it.

[ReservoirDog]

I've said it before, and I'll say it again...

Anybody who really appreciates a lot of extraneous punctuation marks is going to get laid a lot.