JoeSki
05-13-2007, 12:46 AM
In light of many of our sex scandals, there has been some theory slinging about how it's no wonder that those most opposed to sex act out on it in inappropriate ways. How much influence does our perception of sex have on what we find sexy? I want to explore.
1)One a scale of one to ten, grade the influence of each factor on your perception of sex, and sexual education during your developmental years. One being weak, ten being very strong:
The media
Your religion
Your parents
Public school
Your family as a whole
Your friends
2)From the same list of factors, how did each respond to the subject of sex?
Casual. Joke fodder, dinner table conversation...a natural part of life and pleasure.
Formal. Not spoke about, but not shyed away from either. Questions were answered in full and in detail, and then the subject usually changed.
Awkward towards the subject and with some amount of aversion and discomfort.
Strict, and held in a very high regard. Possibly with rules as to how it should be done, at what age, to whom, and under what circumstances.
It was not to be talked about. It was all vulgar and disgusting.
Other. Describe at your own will.
3) How many of the following kinks do you possess? A few (1-5), some (5-13), or most (14-All)?
Heavy whipping
Gentle whipping
Bodily fluids
Body parts not usually considered for their sex appeal (ex. feet)
Hair pulling
Bizzare insertions
Choking
Nudes
Genital torture
Furries
Hentai
Lesbian
Social taboos
Role playing
Gay
Restraints
Psychological domination
Physical domination
An appeal to objects usually not associated with sex, but made sexually appealing without insertion (ex. Balloons, smashing cell phones)
People dressed in costumes not usually associated with sex (ex. clowns)
Heterosexual intercourse
Masturbation of either sex
Group sex
Oral sex
Anal
4)Finally, do you personally see any correlation between the most influential attitude towards your sexual development and your fetishes? For instance, say your parent regarded sex with fear. Do you fantasize about Freddy Krueger? If they regarded it as though it were weird, do you fantasize about things you classify as being weird?
__________________________________________
1)
The media 10
Your religion 1
Your parents 10
Public school 1
Your family as a whole 5
Your friends 3
2)
The media A
Your religion B
Your parents C
Public school B
Your family as a whole C
Your friends A
3) Some
4) I think my parent's awkward stance on sex has thrown a few fetishes my way that I otherwise wouldn't have. Sometimes my fantasies totally come way out of left field without any real rhyme or reason and I can't but help think that it's because of growing up without any real structure for my perception towards sex. I had the TV and movies explain a lot to me, but they don't always explain things so much as they celebrated certain aspects of the act. An imagination filling in the gaps with the assumption that the end result is going to be awkward is going to have some goofy results. My family as a whole were influential, but only in that they contributed to my perception of how a person should be viewed based on how they go about hooking up with other people.
1)One a scale of one to ten, grade the influence of each factor on your perception of sex, and sexual education during your developmental years. One being weak, ten being very strong:
The media
Your religion
Your parents
Public school
Your family as a whole
Your friends
2)From the same list of factors, how did each respond to the subject of sex?
Casual. Joke fodder, dinner table conversation...a natural part of life and pleasure.
Formal. Not spoke about, but not shyed away from either. Questions were answered in full and in detail, and then the subject usually changed.
Awkward towards the subject and with some amount of aversion and discomfort.
Strict, and held in a very high regard. Possibly with rules as to how it should be done, at what age, to whom, and under what circumstances.
It was not to be talked about. It was all vulgar and disgusting.
Other. Describe at your own will.
3) How many of the following kinks do you possess? A few (1-5), some (5-13), or most (14-All)?
Heavy whipping
Gentle whipping
Bodily fluids
Body parts not usually considered for their sex appeal (ex. feet)
Hair pulling
Bizzare insertions
Choking
Nudes
Genital torture
Furries
Hentai
Lesbian
Social taboos
Role playing
Gay
Restraints
Psychological domination
Physical domination
An appeal to objects usually not associated with sex, but made sexually appealing without insertion (ex. Balloons, smashing cell phones)
People dressed in costumes not usually associated with sex (ex. clowns)
Heterosexual intercourse
Masturbation of either sex
Group sex
Oral sex
Anal
4)Finally, do you personally see any correlation between the most influential attitude towards your sexual development and your fetishes? For instance, say your parent regarded sex with fear. Do you fantasize about Freddy Krueger? If they regarded it as though it were weird, do you fantasize about things you classify as being weird?
__________________________________________
1)
The media 10
Your religion 1
Your parents 10
Public school 1
Your family as a whole 5
Your friends 3
2)
The media A
Your religion B
Your parents C
Public school B
Your family as a whole C
Your friends A
3) Some
4) I think my parent's awkward stance on sex has thrown a few fetishes my way that I otherwise wouldn't have. Sometimes my fantasies totally come way out of left field without any real rhyme or reason and I can't but help think that it's because of growing up without any real structure for my perception towards sex. I had the TV and movies explain a lot to me, but they don't always explain things so much as they celebrated certain aspects of the act. An imagination filling in the gaps with the assumption that the end result is going to be awkward is going to have some goofy results. My family as a whole were influential, but only in that they contributed to my perception of how a person should be viewed based on how they go about hooking up with other people.