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Old 04-24-2017, 08:34 AM
Maastricht Maastricht is offline
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This is more or less the thing I have complained about for years here on SDMB. I did NOT adopt the sensible and lovable outlook Spice Weasel suggested. maybe because I was too busy feeling hurt to allow love back in.
My husband would not agree to elbows' Chaos Bin. We did hire help and that helped to a large extent.

In the end, we chose to deal with it in another way. My husband signed a contract today for his own house, a ten minute bike ride from mine/ours. I don't know yet if this is divorce, or LivingApartTogether, or something in between.

But it does feel like a relief for us both, and weirdly enough we've been very supportive and positive of each other in the weeks my husband's search for a house turned serious.