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Old 05-24-2016, 01:26 AM
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Originally Posted by monstro View Post
I don't know why guys seems to think "niceness" is unattractive. 'Cuz it is not. But like any other trait, it is insufficient all by itself. I don't know why this is so puzzling to people.
Could be that "nice guys" are differentially attracted to damaged women--i.e., ones in a series of dysfunctional relationships. The nice guys think they can swoop in and fix things just by being nice, which of course they can't. So almost by definition, the women they are attracted to won't return the affections, because the women are attracted to abusive men.