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Old 05-23-2016, 05:53 PM
monstro is online now
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Richmond, VA
Posts: 21,156
A key bit of advice to the OP and anyone else who is open to receiving it:

Guys who are truly kind and respectful don't have to say they are nice. "Niceness" should just go without saying. Telling a woman that you're a nice guy is basically telling her she'd be wise to stay away from you. That's how widespread the Nice Guy meme is. So please come up with a different way of describing yourself.

I don't know why guys seems to think "niceness" is unattractive. 'Cuz it is not. But like any other trait, it is insufficient all by itself. I don't know why this is so puzzling to people.