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You concede that the brain has a sexual identity. You also concede that the brain's sexual identity can differ from the body's. You insist that in such a case, the body is right. Why do you think the body has primacy? What do you base this on? |
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I must confess these "brain transplant" arguments and the related discussion are confusing the core issue somewhat.
The evidence seems very clear. Transsexuals exist. They're here, they are fellow human beings on this earth who want simply to be treated like fellow human beings. This is not in dispute. They have a mental gender which differs from their physical gender. This is not in dispute. Tens or perhaps hundreds of thousands of transsexuals have been completely professionally evaluated. Google Scholar can find hundreds or thousands of technical papers explaining this. The root cause is academic; they are living, loving, human beings. This disconnect causes them distress, in varying levels, but often to the point of suicide attempts. This also is not in dispute. To resolve this distress, the most effective and proven treatments known are to align the body with the mind, not the mind with the body. I provided many citations which as of yet have not been refuted. This alignment takes the form of body presentation and morphology changes, whether by clothing, or hormones, or SRS. The process of alignment is not in dispute. So it comes down to "should transsexuals be treated as the gender they present." What is the real driver for going out of one's way to treat a transwoman presenting as female, as if they were male? Treating transsexuals as their presented gender is not an unreasonable or burdensome demand on everyone else. It does not burden anyone one whit more to treat a transwoman in the same manner as an XX woman. They're not demanding to be treated as two different genders, or asking for special privileges above and beyond being treated as their gender. In fact, by going out of one's way to treat them as a gender differently than they present, one is actually creating more work for themselves, as well as creating more distress for transsexuals. And being a bigoted fuckhead at the same time, but I digress. Discrimination normally creates a lot more work, trouble, and burden than tolerance. So let's cut the thinly-veneered hysteric homophobia and penis panic. Stop the castration anxiety. Cease the stark raving terror that men want to invade the women's toilets. Get a grip and take a deep breath. Transsexuals as a population do not want to steal your "mighty" wang. They do not want to "trick" you into having sex with them. They do not want to peep under stalls in toilets. And they have not gone through years or decades of absolute hell just so they can attempt to "steal" some twisted idea of feminine sanctuary from men. The solution to the transsexual "issue" is so doggone simple: just treat transsexuals as the gender they present in public, the workplace, in schools, and in society in general. No extra work. No psychodrama. That's all. Pretty please, with sugar on it. |
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And in this sentence you show you a lack of courtesy. Saying you'll call "him" Mary belies that you probably wouldn't treat a transsexual you met IRL with the dignity and respect as due a fellow human being who has done you no harm other than merely existing as themselves.
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Actually, that sort of stubborness regarding identity isn't limited to just transsexuals. It's nowhere near as serious, but I knew a man once who changed his first name from "Lawrence" to "Lorenzo" for professional reasons (he was a performer in an area where an Italian name had advantages over an "American" one). 10 years later there were people who still called him "Lawrence" not out of a slip or carelessness but because they were very, very insistent that his REAL name was "Lawrence". Um... no, it wasn't, it was Lorenzo and had been for a decade, yet these folks not only stuck with the old name but would arrogantly "correct" anyone who had met and known him as Lorenzo since the legal change.
Then there's the whole issue of people who "correct" married women who retain their maiden names, or hyphenate, or do something else they don't approve of. Needless to say, such folks go ballistic over anything more extreme than a name change. A gender change? Who is going to clean up the exploded head goo? It's not just castration anxiety (although that is a real factor in many instances), it's about people who can't accept that someone might change, or that other people don't conform to their stubborn, incorrect images of them. How dare those people NOT play the game! How dare they not conform/submit/play their role?! |
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My point is very clear, your own I'm-the-defender-of-transsexuals shtick is really your bias showing. John is a man and will alwyas be a man. Out of courtesy I'll call him Mary (and she and her), but it's courtesy for a person suffering a disease. |
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Thus, if someone drugged them and amputated their limb, they would still, mentally, be a person with said limb. That would seem to be the outcome if we apply the argument you're using on amputees. Thus, they should be treated, per your argument, as people who still have that limb. |
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And I'm heavily biased, being an actual scientist myself, towards agreeing completely with the widely-recognized scientific consensus of the disconnect between physical and mental gender, and towards giving mental gender precedence. Something you have serious issues with for some strange reason. But thanks for noticing!
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It's a bit of a tangent and anecdotal, but there is a sentiment which is honourable on its face making life more difficult for those experiencing gender dysphoria: opposition to elective vaginoplasty. I watched a documentary (The Perfect Vagina) where the documentary maker expressed an opinion along the lines that if her daughter was not happy with her vagina at age 18, she'd have failed as a mother. While there is valid concern about exploitation of insecurities for profit, this kind of Platonic thinking may manifest itself in a more ugly fashion when dictating that people be happy with the body they're "born with".
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If you want to martyr yourself for science (which no one here has refuted, ergo it is accepted), or treating transsexuals correctly (which no one here has said no to) or hormonal treatment (which everyone has accepted as a treatment option) or sex reasignemnt surgery (which everyone has accepted as an treatment option) or even the use of the correct pronoun (which no one here has objected to), knock yourself out, but the OP asked a question and the answer was Yes. All your ohter causes fall flat because nobody was against them. BTW; "giving precedence" is a treatment option for a mental disease to improve outcomes. Last edited by Ají de Gallina; 09-12-2012 at 09:49 AM. |
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Apparently not, the quest is still on, the enemies haven't been vanquished.
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You seem to be disputing that self conception of sexual identity occurs. But you state that you are a man, and that if your brain were transplanted into a female body, or if you were drugged and surgically altered, you would still be a man. This is inconsistent. If your mind is set by who you are now, and changes to your body would not change your identity, then the concept of "gender" is real. If your "gender" is determined by your body, then if someone surgically altered your body to have female genitals, you would be a woman. Against your will, but still be a woman. You can't have it both ways. Either gender is not real, in which case you would become a woman, and then I guess be a lesbian*, or gender is real, in which case you would still be a man in a female body, and thus in need of some form of treatment - perhaps surgery to "correct" what was done against your will. Quote:
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I guess I can understand that. I have a certain mental struggle myself when I encounter someone who looks mostly masculine wearing makeup and a dress. It triggers a discombobulation, a sense of discomfort, a social awkwardness. I'm trying to remap my personal conception to think of them as female rather than male because it helps me mentally map my expectations to theirs, so I'm less likely to get confused on pronouns and the like. If I try to keep the conceptualization as "That's a man I'm supposed to treat like a woman" I'll get confused, whereas if I conceptualize "that's a woman who looks like a man" I'll be more likely to keep it straight. To me, it's all about mental compartmentalization to create a map of expectations, how to interact. Experience breeds familiarity breeds comfort with the situation. ----- *I'm assuming you still accept sexual orientation as different than sexual identity. |
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Yes, everyone different from you is insane, immoral, and intolerable.
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I suppose that I, for one, might describe it so. In my 64 years I’ve known only a handful of lesbians (known to me to be so), none well, and only one transsexual (a co-worker that I barely knew enough to say “Hello” to), and so, when faced with one, I tend to feel a little—off-balance, shall I say? On the other hand, as a theatre habitué, as a semipro opera/operetta singer, and as an active participant in Oz (as in “Wizard of”) fandom, I’ve known more “out” gay men that I can count, so I’m entirely at my ease. As Jack Point says, “Use is everything.”
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Well, there's your problem! Now if only you could get past that silly scruple, you could become a right-thinking sort of person like Aji!
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To tell the truth, I'm having some difficulty making sense of what their position actually is. I'd like to give them the benefit of the doubt based on some things they've written, and hope that IRL they actually would treat a trans person quite well. But there seems to be a communication gap here.
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I am trying to give you the benefit of the doubt here, to assume you have no ill will toward transexuals, but that it is merely a matter of definitions. It is easy to assume the other person has a hidden motivation for the definitions they choose, but I am trying to take it that it is just your perception, not a judgment. I can see why you might be frustrated at people implying motives on your part that you don't feel. |
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Perhaps I interpret the connotation differently because I possess Y chromosomes myself, and I don't think they're at all lame-ass. Powers &8^] |
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Well, I possess a y-chromosome and I didn't feel maligned by it. It seemed clear to me that she was speaking of her experience and not generalizing to the population as a whole.
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No need to fear, since I never tried to claim it was the only possible interpretation; merely that it was a valid one.
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Besides all else, I'm positively thrilled when rather than citing case law, a judge cites the Bible.
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For God’s sake, why hasn’t this flagrant traitor been impeached?
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As I said in another thread, I'm shocked he didn't find the petitioner in contempt for violating the Deuteronomy prohibiting against wearing female clothing.
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A panel has recommended post menopausal women NOT take HRT as the risks outweigh the benefits. This is for women who have actual physical problems due to the lessoning of estrogen in their bodies. So do you think it's okay for MEN to take HRT even though they have no physical problem that even requires it, when doctores recommend women not take it due to the health risks?
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First off, the impacts of hormones on transsexuals have already been discussed, or you could have looked them up yourself. Hormone therapy for transsexuals, especially 17B-estradiol, has been proven relatively safe, with even the potential for DVT now being thought to be very highly over-rated. Breast cancer is highly rare in transsexuals, as are other cancers and negative cardiovascular effects. Increased mortality exists but it greatly overweighed by the increased risk of suicide, homicide, and HIV/AIDS among transsexuals. The reasons for which were previously discussed.
Second, nearly every drug known has side effects and risk factors associated with it, even aspirin. The question to ask with any drug is, does it relieve more suffering and do more good than it has the potential to cause harm? And in the case of hormone treatment for transsexuals, the answer is "absolutely." Third, HRT for post-menopausal women is not the same as hormone therapy for male to female transsexuals. If the reasons are unclear...(shrug). Fourth, there is a physical reason for hormone therapy. The physical differences between the brains of transsexuals and cisgendered persons has already been discussed, although there is disagreement by some as to the magnitude of those physical differences. |
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What are the LONG TERM studies on men taking female hormones? kind of hard to believe it's "safe" for men to take hormones not meant for their bodies but it's unsafe for women to take them. Politics and political correctness getting ahead of safety once again for a liberal feel good moment?
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Political correctness has state it's not a mental illness to take dangerous an unecessary hormones and to cut off healthy body parts. How long until it's hate speech for me to say that?
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How about sex? especially anal sex? Guess what, someone can quit smoking, or not even die from smoking, but you can't get your dick back after you cut it off. |
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You have no factual basis to claim that hormone therapy is either dangerous nor unnecessary. You ignore the parallel of other cosmetic surgeries. You ignore the citations given and seem to be pushing some sort of intolerant and ignorant agenda. How unfortunate.
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Nor can one convince a transphobic hater to change. In all my life debating the issue I have never once interacted with a transphobe who ever changed their opinion towards one of behaving tolerantly and decently towards transsexuals. It's like arguing with moon landing hoaxers or birthers.
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Perhaps "mentally ill" isn't the term that I should hold on to. Now I realize that what I'm about to talk about it purely academic, and philosophical, that's what I'm intending. But to me the question comes down to in what cases, and to what degree, when there is a mind/body disconnect is the body or the mind the true determiner of reality? Like I said, it's purely a philosophical argument. I think it's the most ethical to fully support a trans person's treatment, and refer to them by the name and pronoun they choose. I consider that argument resolved, case closed. I do think that the philosophical question, though, of which is "real" is, even if useless and unimportant, interesting to think about at least. Perhaps the question could be formulated as: "If there were magic pills that could switch the mind's gender, and an equally hassle-free pill that could switch the body -- would one treatment be more correct than the other?" Last edited by Jragon; 10-24-2012 at 12:36 AM. |
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If there were a magic pills that could make either change occur in such a hassle-free manner, I don't know there would be a "right" answer, just that person's choice. But I suspect if *I* found my identity at odds with my body and had the choice of a simple pill to change each, *I* would probably keep my inward, personal self (i.e. identity) the same and make my outward self (i.e. body) match. Because it's my self.*
A more challenging question is if we managed to come up with a pill that would magically change the mind's gender, but don't have a magic fix for the body. Then the choice is a simple change to the gender, or a BFD to tinker with the body and hope it eventually sort of resembles the sex the person wants to be. In that situation, how does the primacy of the identity stack against the realities of the effort involved? That's probably a philosophical discussion that could be had in another thread. For now, we don't have any magic pills. ----- * Here's another analogy and strange philosophical question that helps demonstrate my point. What if there were a magical pill that would allow you to change your mental ethnicity, such that instead of being a middle class WASP you could transform into an ethnic Serb, or an African tribesman, or a Japanese? In other words, your social cues and expectations, your speech patterns, etc would be morphed to make you act and feel like that ethnicity. Would you opt for such a pill? Try it as a lark? Pop around to see what life is like? Or would you keep preference for your original mind? Can you guarantee you'd ever be able to find your "self" back, if you didn't like the change? |
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