the further adventures of the SO's asshole ex.
I've ranted about his abusive behaviour, and his scientology. It has been well established here in the pit, that my SO's ex-husband is a blight on humanity's collective subconscious. I figured that I had said all that needs to be said. Perhaps that I am trying to be an optimist, or at least hopeful for humanity, but I didn't think the shitbag could sink any lower. Boy was I fucking wrong. So, turd burglar is going to court to handle his whole spousal abuse charge, and while there tells the judge that my SO and I abandoned her kids with him, and that he has sole custody of the kids. I have given over, quite literally, every penny I have made since my SO and I got together because the economy sucks, kids are expensive, and its the right thing to do if she and I are going to have a happy, healthy life together. She is one of those 'kids come first' type parents. You know, the kind that takes care of the kids first, and then, if there is any money left in the budget she and I might blow a little bit on ourselves...maybe. Understandably I am more than just a little bit pissed off about this worthless piece of shit A) denying that my SO and I have done anything for the kids since he got out of jail B) telling a court of law that my SO and I abandoned the kids, and C) using his children who he claims to love and care about as little tools to get his ass off the hook for beating the shit out of their mother. Now the fun part is that the DA's office has offered him the same plea bargain numerous times: plead guilty and we knock it down to a misdemeanor, you do two years on supervised probation and you're free to go. Shit bag thinks he can get out of this scott-free by using his kids. Well, with the possibility of a perjury charge now hanging over him, those plea bargains might not be so generous. Fuck, this guy has me so pissed that I am barely coherent. How the fuck do you call yourself a man, and say that you care about your kids, when you are just trying to use them to get out of trouble? I hope he gets jail time (a very easy thing when you are on probation in Texas,) and that he has a miserable time there. I hope that misery involves him mouthing off to the wrong dude, and pain ensuing. I wish the court would find him guilty, and then give him to me so I can get creative on him with power tools, duct tape, pliers, blow torches, very small rocks, 3 white mice, 12 miles of twine in 6 inch lengths, a feather duster, two jars of nutella and some mentos.