Oooh, that’s so cool that you are almost done.
Highschool sucks compared to the rest of life for everyone, except the extreme popular guys and gals. For the rest of us that simply tried to do our best in social scene, it was really different.
Whoever said that highschool was the best time of your life was lying. Either that or their life really sucked after highschool. College is cool, but don’t worry about leaving friends there behind. There is truely something about friends that you have had for so many years, but in 4 years you’ll change a lot. Also look forward to learning a lot about the world. Or more precisecly, how little you know. I think the older I get and the more I know the more I realize that there is so much more to know about life.
Prom… Well being a girl, you have the advantage of just sitting back and seeing who asks you. If not, ask some dude that you like as a friend and make his day Doesn’t have to get serious, but it would probably make him happy to be able to go.
I definitely second the ideas of trying to go out and do as much as possible. You’ll get to look forward to a new world. You’ll probably know nobody there so you can be anyone you want to be in your deepest heart of hearts. You won’t have parents or friends to that have certain expectations that you have to live up to. Definitely go wild, and have (safe) sex and do whatever.
One thing I would try to stress is that in my personal opinion, try to steer clear of any sort of greek organization or club or whatever where there is some sort of pressure to fit in. You can have a small group of friends and have the time of your life. I didn’t do that and I regret it.
Learn to be yourself, but realize that you don’t have to stop having fun once you graduate. If you are so inclined, you don’t have to get married right out of college, or even start a career. Remember that when you make commitments like getting married, having kids, or buying a house you have a much harder time doing what you want. Use your time during and after college to have all the experiences that you ever dreamed of if you feel like it.
Importantly, and this has been hard for me to understand so much, that your deciscions about what you want to study and other things aren’t as important as they may seem. It isn’t so hard to change your direction in life after you have chosen a study and completed it.
Also if you get the chance try to learn a foreign language and study abroad. I always hated studying spanish in Highschool and even in the first semester of college, but I eventually learned to like it and I am very happy with the way it has turned out.