I have a 4 year old cat (tabby, if it’s relevant) who’s been an indoor cat all her life. About two years ago after I moved to Vegas, she’s become more and more listless and passive. Back home she spent a lot of time looking out the windows, but here she rarely bothers - there’s not really much to see. There’s rocks, dirt, and another building close by. She just seems extremely bored all the time.
I’ve tried to start taking her outside to add some excitement to her life. I bought a leash, but she doesn’t respond well to it. She’s a very small cat and even a light leash burdens her. She’s very scared and passive outside with it on, and usually just wants to come in. But if she goes out without a leash she’s adventurous.
She got lost (accidentally locked out) a while back. After 4 days of roaming, she managed to find her way home. Since then she’s managed to get out a few times - shooting through doors unnoticed, opening an unlatched screen door, etc. Each time she’s managed to find her way home in less than a day.
I started taking her out without the leash during the daytime when I could keep track of her. She’s extremely quick and it’s very difficult to grab her when she doesn’t want to be. But after 10-20 minutes of being outside, something would spook her - a neighbor, a dog, and she’d run back in. But after a few times trying that, she got much braver, staying out even after being spooked by something, venturing farther away from home - it became very difficult to get her to come back in, and I had to stop taking her out unleashed.
I feel bad keeping her cooped up in here where she’s often unhappy, but I don’t know if a cat who’s spent her life indoors could properly make the adjustment. She’s very smart, and she’s always managed to find her way home the few times she’s gotten out, but I don’t know if she always would. I live in a desert, so if she became lost I’m not sure she’d be able to survive naturally - there’s just not much water around. And I worry about people being cruel to her for no reason. She’s most likely too fast for anyone to catch her, but it unfortunately it wouldn’t surprise me to see sociopathic kids throw rocks at her and such.
Does anyone have any advice as far as what to do?