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Leaving out transsexedness entirely, this view ignores ambiguous genitalia. It is entirely possible for a human to be XX, and be born with a penis.
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I said it some pages back, but when we can't cure someone then we should make an effort to alleviate their suffering. Right now, the only thing we can offer these people is sexual reassignment treatment. Allowing them to transition (whether you consider it a farce or not) does seem to improve their quality of life. If it eases the pain of a fellow human being for whom medical science has nothing else to offer I am completely at peace with changing the pronouns I use to refer to a particular person. |
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You might be fine with changing pronouns, but what happens when other people are FORCED to do that or face lawsuits and possible hate crimes charges for not denying reality? Why should other people be forced to accept someone else's severe mental problems and play along? |
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Calling someone with a penis a "her" is denying reality. I hate trannsexuals? Proof of this? Do I hate bulemics too because I think they should get mental help instead of being enabled? |
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I'm just curious about one point here -- if you see a person who is dressed as a woman and in most respects looks like a woman, how do you know whether this person does or does not have a penis?
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What laws are being talked about exactly?
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Lots of people want circumcision banned, but how does it really affect them? how does someone else circumcizing their son affect you? People are having healthy body parts removed because they refuse to accept what they were born as. Would you have no objections to people getting healthy limbs amputed ? If they feel like doing it, they should be allowed to, and doctors should do it? Funny, the same people who seem to support these unecessary surgeries are the same people who love running every aspect of other people's lives, like smoking, how big of a soda they can buy, etc... And in the future, it WILL affect other people very directly beyond the deteroriation of medical ethics. THe cost will be on the taxpayers in a more socialized system. I'm going to have to pay for someone's needless surgery, their needless hormones. The laws I'm referring to are the anti "discrimination" laws that protect trans people. So if you own property, have a public bathroom, you can have the hell sued out of you if you refuse to let someone with a penis use the woman's bathroom. Last edited by stevenova; 09-03-2012 at 07:20 AM. |
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SO they can have surgery to reduce the adam's apple? Great, more unecessary elective surgery to remove more healthy body parts. Nothing mentally defective about that at all
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Someone circumcizing their son doesn't affect me/us, but it is a grievous and illogical alteration of "their" child's body and that concerns many of us.
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Could you be more obvious? It drips from every post you've made, and is demonstrable by the fact you refuse to address any refutation of your canned talking points.
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And what the holy fuck do you think happens in women's toilets? There aren't any urinals in there; no prizes for guessing why not...women sit...in...wait for it...stalls. With doors and everything! Where no one can see anything outside of ankles. And here's the funny thing about us women, when we're done with our business and we leave the stall, we already have our clothing back on! I reckon this must be very different than the gents' toilets you frequent, where men apparently cavort and caper around with their tighty-whiteys about their ankles and their penises at half-mast (or full; I don't judge), but guess what, that doesn't happen in women's toilets. So how do these scandalized phallophobic women you put on airs that you're protecting know who does and doesn't have a penis? Quote:
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You seem to be a person who is very fixated on genitalia. I don't think anyone here has the time nor the professional qualifications to figure out why, nor does anyone here know if they should be waving and exclaiming "hi, nonnies!" at this point. Perhaps things will develop as we go on. |
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Do I have to do the whole hormones and dressing like a woman thing to be considered transgender, or can I just say I'm transgender, and go about business as usual? There are plenty of non transgender women who look manly and dress like men, but they are women and are called women. Does one have to play the role? Or can I force people to accept I'm a woman, but still go about my business like I always have? So to use a woman's bathroom as a transperson, do I have to dress in a dress? If so, why are women who wear pants allowed in a woman's bathroom?
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Each time one of us is born we are a little different from the rest. This use to be necessary for our development as a species. If the difference was significant and "undesirable", we were naturally programmed to avoid the individual so they didn't have the opportunity to affect the gene pool. The difference may have been a physical defect or behaviour unacceptable to the rest of the community. This safeguard has been frustrated, however as we have become "civilized" and more compassionate towards those we see as less fortunate than or different to us. The important thing is, not that they conform to our idea of normal, but that they should be able to enjoy their lives as they see fit. The decisions they make will only affect them and they should be free to make them. I'm puzzled by your name. Is it Steve Nova or Steven Ova? The latter would make things very intriguing... |
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Are you differentiating between that which is with that person's consent, and that which is without?
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The ignorance, it burns.
stevenova, you obviously have confused tranvestitism with transsexualism (look them up), don't know the difference between gender and social norms regarding clothing, and that's just the tip of the iceberg. I'm not sure I care to take the time to chip away at your mountain of ignorance. You are operating from a position of unwarranted assumptions and show no signs of desiring to actually learn something. And, since you seem to be a man, please STFU about who is and isn't allowed to use to women's public bathrooms as you have no personal interest in the matter and thus should not be allowed to dictate the rules. Although I agree you are also woefully ignorant about the toilet activities which, not too surprisingly, concern pissing and shitting rather than inspecting other peoples' genitals (though I hear that occasionally goes on in certain men's toilets, which may be where you're getting this from. I suggest you avoid airport and rest stop toilets containing Congressmen and you'll be OK). I mean, heavens, I have been in close promixity to a human penis before, I didn't faint or anything. For Og's sake, next you'll be suggesting that my spouse and I use separate toilets at home, lest we get cross-gender cooties or something.
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Different topic entirely-nice try, though. Comparing giving a vaccination to an unconcenting child to an adult seeking out gender reassignment surgery is akin to comparing apples and an orange-coloured F-16.
edited to add: Just so's you know, these arguments you are parroting have been done to death here. We've been to those websites and read the literature, so if your goal here is to trip us up with wordgames just stop wasting your time-it ain't gonna work. Last edited by Czarcasm; 09-03-2012 at 09:17 AM. |
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What does everyone think about hormone therapy starting before puberty?
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I wouldn't use the term hormone therapy. That generally describes hormone replacement therapy. I'd call this hormone blocking. I think care should be used before it is started. However, it does no lasting harm. If the patient decides 'golly gee! I was wrong about having GID' then you take them off the blockers and they undergo puberty.
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On the other hand, there are legitimate concerns about being able to adequately diagnose serious and real gender dysphoria in youth. I believe that the chance of regrets and reversals is significantly higher than for adult transsexuals, but it has not been an area of focus for me (yet). |
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The last I heard, Munchhausen By Proxy isn’t really a danger here, because the gatekeeping is quite strict.
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How much do repeated hospitalizations from repeated suicide attempts and self-harm episodes cost, Stevenova? Because for about 1/3 to 1/2 (or maybe more) of these people that's the alternative, not "they don't need care at all". Have you considered that perhaps a treatment, however objectionable you might find it, that puts a stop to suicide/self harm might, in the long run, actually be cheaper?
I had a friend once who was a "cutter". She regularly racked up six-digit hospital bills from her propensity to not only cut herself and swallow razor blades, but also to create third degree burns, all of it paid by taxpayers over the course of about 15 years where this was an almost annual circus (do the math). Yes, a seriously messed up individual, definitely mentally ill, but the answer wasn't to deny her treatment but to try different things until something was found that WORKED. I'm happy to say that something was, eventually, found and she's hasn't been a medical patient for about a quarter century, yay for psychiatry when it actually works. She wasn't a transsexual, but maybe she's one of the reasons I put "relieve suffering" ahead of "make me comfortable with this". When someone is unhappy enough - regardless of cause - they are actively hurting themselves to that point any discomfort I might feel at an effective course of treatment is nothing compared to alleviating the abyss of suffering that person is living in. I do understand that if you have never confronted such a thing in real life you might not understand it - and if you haven't, I sincerely wish you don't have to confront the unvarnished reality of that sort of situation. I do, however, wish that more people would have empathy for the suffering rather than condemnation. |
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Just ran across this interesting story about a study on monkeys about sex and toy choice.
The researchers gave toy options to monkeys. Male monkeys picked trucks and balls, female monkeys picked dolls. These are monkeys, not human children, so human social influences are not a factor. There is a sex-related factor in toy type preferences. How does it relate to this topic of transgender people? The results of the above studies indicates that there are differences in the two brain biochemistries between the sexes. If the brain biochemistries can show a difference based upon hormones, and hormones can get out of synch between the genetalia and the brain, then brain biochemistries can get out of synch with the genetalia. Ergo, evidence that supports that gender is more than your gonads. |
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If anyone has access to the study ("Sex differences in response to children's toys in nonhuman primates" was the 2002 study), did the researchers account for demand characteristics? For monkeys I imagine it would take the form of food rewards for appropriately sex differentiated play, or even something subtle like smiling.
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This thread is really depressing
I am a transsexual woman, and I find this thread horribly depressing. Most people haven't met a transsexual person, and that puts us at a severe disadvantage when it comes to acceptance and understanding. There aren't even any real transsexuals on television that aren't the son of Cher. I'm a comedian, and with a lot of luck, I may be able to change that a bit.
I consider transsexuality a birth defect. My mind is wired to be female. My body, to be male. The problem is that my mind is everything that makes me who I am--my soul if you will. My body is just the fleshy bit that keeps my mind alive. So if there is something to be changed, it is the body. Don't give me some crap about why can't people want to be sharks. Humans are born with instincts that control how they act and who they emulate. My instincts demand that I am female. I really have no choice in the matter. If I did, I would probably choose the road without the horrible internal and external strife. In fact, I tried to for 30 years. Didn't stick. Unfortunately, we don't get the same sympathy as other people with birth defects. Surely, if God meant me to be male by giving me a penis, he also meant Joaquin Phoenix to have a cleft palate, and the surgery to correct it was an abomination unto the Lord. I know I won't change anyone's mind about people like me here. People who think they are experts after getting a B- in Mrs. O'Mally's 8th grade biology class aren't the type of people that can be reasoned with. I just wanted to chime in, because I'm tired of people discussing transsexuals without talking to any actual transsexuals. If anyone wants to see my work including a YouTube series I call Ask A Tranny, visit my website: http://www.sarahmaywalt.com Sarah |
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Good grief, in the next week not only am I meeting a transwoman tomorrow to talk, but I'm playing pool with another and have a bowling date with a couple of others. I have talked, lived, played, and danced with more transwomen IRL than I can easily count, and 10 times that number online. Please don't throw out blanket statements that no one here has "talked" to any "actual transsexuals." |
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The people defending are great! I have no problem with you, Una. It is depressing that myself and others have to argue for my mere existence. You are awesome, Una. Carry on! ^_^ |
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What do you suggest? A lobotomy? Whatever happened in utero, my mind is me. I could call it a "defect" or a "problem" or a "disorder" or an "anomaly" or even "a point on a spectrum," but the issue is clear trans people have a great and unchangeable aversion to living as the gender suggested by their genitals. The really sick thing is that life doesn't have to be hard for us. It is people like you who try to trap us and pin us to a gender, often times going so far as to have us committed, that cause our great pain. If people could *let us be ourselves* and treat us like *human beings*, a grand majority of our problems would be solved. We wouldn't feel the need to ask honestly and logically if suicide might be the better option. The other dismorphic events? Anorexia/bulimia is based on fear for instance. Treat the fear, fix the patient. Duh. No trauma caused me to be trans. In fact, most of my life's trauma pushed me not to be. Didn't work, and I wish people would stop trying. Sarah |
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From a personal experience, for nearly all transwomen I have known, starting hormone therapy has an enormous impact on their happiness and self-satisfaction, all for a $10/month Wal-Mart prescription which has very few negative side effects (even the risk of DVT is recently being found to be diminishing with the greater use of sub-lingual and trans-dermal 17B-estradiol.) In some cases the effect has been profound and lasting, like an entirely new person stepped out who is suddenly happy and full of life. This is an improvement in mood and patient health which I have never witnessed among those who choose to try antidepressants and psychological help. Hard statistics on the efficacy of treatments were presented by myself on Page 1. |
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