Hey everyone,
First off I just wanted to say that I checked out the thread “How to handle daughter dating older guy (Long)” and was really impressed by all the great advice. So I wanted to tap your brains for another perspective, this time coming from the guy.
Firstly, I want to throw out that I’m not normally attracted to girls younger than 23. I think a lot of them lack maturity, and well, it just feels kind of weird lol. I also think I’m fairly mature for my age (great career, nice car, house, well respected in the community, etc).
So anyways, I posted a profile on a dating site just to see what would happen, and I’ve gotten quite a few messages. But I try to respond to everyone, just because I think it’s the polite thing to do. Anyways, the site listed this girl as a match, but I just completely ignored it because she wasn’t in that 23-31 range I was looking for. Nevertheless, she messaged me and so I shot her a quick reply just trying to be cordial. I’m not going to lie, yeah, it was a little flattering, but not what I was looking for (again felt she was too young).
Anyways, 5 hours later we finally stopped chatting and called it a night. And the thing is, I was super impressed by how mature she seemed, and some of the stuff she said was just like “wow.” I mean she was one of the first girls I’ve just clicked with in a long time.
And I get the concern about the “nice house nice car” thing, but I haven’t shared any of that. Like the entire time we talked about other stuff, interests, hobbies, beliefs (got into some pretty deep convos too), etc.
So here’s my question to all of you, what do you think? Should I follow my head and get out as fast as I can, or do I follow my heart and see what happens? I guess, am I making a bigger deal about the age difference than there really is? :smack:
Many thanks!