Hey guys. Been away a while. Crazy busy, long story, hope everyone is well. Figured I’d jump back in with a nice, uncontroversial topic.
I am considering declawing my cat.
I absolutely do not want to hear or argue about the physiology of declawing cats. I’m aware. It’s why I am, as a rule, against declawing cats.
But this cat is a problem. His claws have only ever been successfully cut while he was unconscious. Tonight, four people, one of whom has over forty years of experience at handling animals, utterly failed at containing this cat and cutting his claws.
Some background: we found him VERY young (four-fiveish weeks) and feral. He adores me, likes a few other people, and hides in the closet when anyone he isn’t very familiar with and fond of comes around. He’s often aggressive toward my other cats (neither of whom are aggressive toward him) and insanely food aggressive (and again, I’m familiar with cat training techniques, he’s immune).
His claws are overgrown, since he won’t let them be cut (and I’m not gonna lie or make excuses here, I can’t afford to take him to the vet every month or so to have his claws cut, even had they have ever succeeded while he was conscious, which they haven’t. Also, I’m not terribly comfortable with knocking a cat out to cut his claws, that has inherent risks of its own.).
He regularly gets stuck in things (furniture, clothes, blankets, window screens etc.) and he gets scared and when I try to release him he screeches and scratches and bites as though he’s never seen me before in his life. Ten seconds later, he wants snuggles and I have to clean up all my blood first.
That said, when he’s not terrified, he (as previously mentioned) adores me. Pretty much all this cat wants from life is food and to be near me. And he’s a toucher. Some of you know what I mean. He’s always got paws on me. He particularly loves to touch my face and my hair. When he approaches me, the first thing he does is headbutt me and the second is to reach for my face. In the morning he wakes me up by “stroking” my face. This would be adorable, except that his claws are all overgrown, and in trying to be affectionate he scratches the hell out of me.
That might be the single biggest issue. I can’t just lock him out, since I have three cats and all of them howl like they’re being killed when they’re locked out of my room. Also, I LIKE having them in there, and I can’t lock the other two in and him out. At this point, aside from all the other injuries and inconveniences, declawing him is probably the difference between waking up pissed off every day and the alterative. I’m tired of waking up pissed off every day.
I am absolutely confident that I can keep this cat indoors (I’m careful, and he’s frankly never shown any interest in going outdoors). If anyone has an alternative idea, I’m all ears. That said, skip the Softpaws suggestion. Tried it. Had to knock him out, and they lasted less than a week because he frantically chewed at them and clawed at everything in his path to get them off.
I’m at my wit’s end. What do y’all think? And thanks for listening, anyway.