I’ve mentioned Lucia occasionally before, usually in threads that have to do with caring for cats with diabetes.
I don’t know exactly how old she is. She was a grown-up cat, estimated to be at least 3 years old, when I adopted her from the SPCA shelter in January of 2002. She’d been brought to them as a stray, but had obviously belonged to someone before; she was already spayed as well as declawed, and very friendly. I’ve never known if she got lost or if she’d been abandoned by her previous people.
She nearly died of pancreatitis in the summer of 2007 and spent two very expensive weeks in the emergency vet’s hospital. I thought I was going to lose her then, but she struggled to stay alive after I told the vets not to take any extreme measures and I couldn’t give up on her as long as she was fighting.
When I first brought her home, I had to nurse her carefully for several more weeks. She still had an esophageal tube that I had to feed her warm, mushy, watery food through. That would take ten minutes or more a session, and I would lie on the floor with her and sing her songs while hoping she wouldn’t barf it all back up once we were done. She recovered, but she’s been diabetic since then and I’ve had to schedule my days around her regular insulin injections.
Over the last 13 years, I’ve spent a lot of time, effort, and money in keeping this cat alive, but tomorrow I’m taking her to the vet to put her to sleep.
It’s not because of the diabetes.
Up until a couple of months ago I would’ve said that she was doing remarkably well for a cat of her age and ongoing chronic conditions. She was developing some mild arthritis in her elbows and knees and was increasingly grouchy once the Calico Invasion took over our house in the form of two hyperactive kittens, but I had every reason to think she’d be with us for another year or two.
Then I found a small, hard lump on the underside of her jaw near the beginning of October. The vet said it was a bone tumor, probably a sarcoma, and there really wasn’t anything we could do about it but keep her happy and comfortable until that wasn’t possible anymore.
That’s what I’ve done these last few weeks. The lump has been growing larger with alarming rapidity. Lucia doesn’t seem to be in any pain from it, but I can see it’s making it difficult for her lap up her wet food and water now. She’s can’t manage kibble anymore. She’s still fighting, but I’ve been watching her carefully and thinking of little else over this weekend, and I have to accept that it’s time to give up. There’s nothing else I can do to make it better for her. I’ll be phoning the vet’s office in the morning.
I’m so sorry, Chee. It’s not how I would’ve wanted things to end.