Y’all ask some interesting questions on this issue.
Please consider this post the biggest WAG you ever saw. And just my personal opinions, too. This is not to be taken as anything more than just my musings on the subject.
Now, I’m not a head doctor or anything like it, but I do think in some cases mental illness is part of the situation. I’m not talking so much about “imaginary friends” (although we see some of that too), but referring to the degree of obsession some folks display where this place is concerned.
I’m differentiating from Imaginary Friends created to bolster a argument (which is just pathetic) and people who truly buckle on the sword and come to the Straight Dope to fight with all comers.
Looking back through our time online, both here and on AOL, those that have given us the most grief over the longest period of time have been disabled – physically and/or emotionally, mentally. Maybe that’s not wholly coincidental.
Back in the AOL days, one of our more persistent trolls would send around pictures of himself in his wheelchair; how could we be so mean as to pick on a cripple? Another one would say the most horrific things, yet cried that we were abusing him because he was disabled.
We’ve had other problem children who presented with obvious emotional difficulties, though not quite to the incredible heights of the two referenced above. (Thanks be to every god everywhere.)
I don’t discount that it might just be that they’re to home, have a computer and lots of time, more so than the average Teemster.
For those that are forced into a life of the mind by the world’s limitations on them, this little hothouse seems to be just the place to hang. It’s a corner of cyberspace well inhabited by fascinating characters and vivid opinions. It’s very much alive. If your window on the world is a computer monitor, it’s not hard to see this place as your neighborhood, these people as your people. And when you don’t interact well with people in real life . . . this place is not much different.
BTW, this is NOT meant as any sort of criticism or condemnation of anybody with any kind of disease or disorder. One of my favorite people around here has been courageously up front and honest about his struggles and I’m not talking about him at all, so if he’s reading this he can just knock being oversensitive off right now. And we have even had a case where we had a poster with many problems of all kinds and the Teeming Millions helped him turn his life around; we helped him GET a life, outside of his house, away from his computer. Last I heard he was in college and doing fine.
There’s an excellent example of this kind of strange and bad behavior I’ve been talking about. It’s happening right now on the alt.fan.Cecil Adams newsgroup. John/Cyberian is over there now, desperately trying to ignite arguments with combatants from our days on AOL, bringing up old arguments and insults he previously hurled . . . while simultaneously denying that he is/was that poster from those old days. Reading over the threads, it’s like seeing an accident happen in front of you; you don’t want to look, but you keep looking in some sort of horrid fascination. It’s beyond losing your head over a dispute, it’s miles past wanting to have the last word, imho it’s illustrative of someone with some serious problems.
Not all trolls are mentally ill; not all people that are mentally ill are trolls. But sometimes that’s the way to bet.
your humble TubaDiva
(who could probably stand to have her head candled her own self)