Hillary was right in concept even if debatable in execution.
I don’t have children of my own body because implacable physical realities. Who can know what adjustments happen later? Sometimes the answer is “no” before you even dreamed of asking the question.
But NOBODY lives in a childless universe. Every single damned one of us are kids that someone–or many ones–nurtered along. Even if it wasn’t enough or just right, every child is another chance. The question becomes who’s gonna take up slack, fill in, somehow BE THERE for kids?
Children are messy, demanding, aggravating, fun and joyous. If given a fair shot and welcomed with an open mind they remind us–forcibly–of beginnings. They’re primal US, but with a crucial difference. They’re posssibilies, chances to nuture brand new people differently.
Children are gifts, always. They need as many strong-minded, flexible, warm-hearted folks going. Children aren’t burdens; they’re brand new chances. Don’t want one full time, personal history ain’t dealin’ that? No problem. Kind adults are always needed Smile. Play, calm, talk, tell stories or just listen.
NO responsible, aware person rejects children any more than old people. You were, you will be.
Veb