Personality and such aside, jeans and a T do say a lot.
I can’t recall off the top of my head the last time that I saw a guy in a plain grey T. Black, yes. But even solid T’s aren’t that common to me. Almost all t-shirts have something on them that will tell you about the wearer: bands, geek humor, etc.
Jeans? Here wrangler I associate with cowboy types. Most wear Levi’s. The cut of the Jean says a lot, too. My more hipster students wear skinny leg pants. Others wear the pants hanging down.
Shoes also say a lot about the wearer. Cowboy types always wear work boots, fir example.
Additionally, most of my guy students have visible tattoos and piercings.
You’re not interested in a perm, and maybe some highlights?
A good looking guy, in clean, well fitted jeans and T shirt, will have his physique attractively displayed. Yes, a man in a well fitted tux will also look great, but the jeans and T shirt show more of the body, if that’s what a woman is primarily looking for.
Back in the stone age, when I was dating, I wasn’t trying to pigeonhole prospective dates. Mostly I was concerned with whether or not they could talk intelligibly, and whether or not they were gonna break out the weed as soon as the date started. This was back in the 70s…perhaps I should call it the stoned age.
Okay, please re-read Diamonds02’s posts on here again. Do you really think D02 would be better off talking IRL? Some people just have texting personalities.
Girls see potential boyfriends as dress-up dolls. Seriously, when talking to them you can sense them visualizing the foldy-tabs on your shoulders and hips for the paper cutouts…
A dressed-down initial boyfriend gives them unlimited fashioning possibilities. Rest assured that, shortly after dating has started, the boyfriend is getting deluged with cosby-sweaters, fluevog-shoes, skin care products, knit silk socks, and any other accessory that makes it impossible to spontaneously play a pick-up game of basketball.
