[Mr. Nylock]

Originally Posted by BigT

What I do do is go to the experts. I read about what black people are saying. I read about what people of other races are saying. I look at the studies. I look at the people who are highly regarded on these issues.

What I would never do is just talk to my black few friends and present their opinions as "what black people think."

One black friend I had in school loved it when the girls would touch his hair--but now I know that's a no-no in the wider community.

Oh, so there is a consensus among "experts" on this issue? I never knew. 34