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Old 06-14-2019, 08:55 PM
monstro is online now
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I would very much advise against confessing. Right now, she has probably convinced herself that someone in the neighborhood was just being helpful. Let her keep believing this. The OP might feel better apologizing, but then he's putting her in the awkward position of having to show both gratitude AND forgiveness, in addition to feeling weirded-out. And having to relive those feelings every time sees him at the gym? No, just no.

This was a faux pas for sure, but not all faux pas require a confession and an apology. Sometimes ignorance really is bliss.

Last edited by monstro; 06-14-2019 at 08:57 PM.