View Single Post
Old 08-10-2019, 07:53 PM
Acsenray is offline
Charter Member
Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: U.S.A.
Posts: 36,245
Originally Posted by SlackerInc View Post
Some posters in that thread have said that they think “wow” when they see an attractive, shapely woman—but that they don’t think really explicit, crude sexual thoughts. But many of us do. There is a difference, and I think there has to be some way to express that if we are going to really dig into the topic.
Hm. “When I see a woman I find attractive my mind immediately starts generating explicit sexual thoughts and images that I can’t control and which distract me from whatever else is going on around me, even business I’m conducting or the annoyance of my spouse who is sitting right next to me.”

No “I gotta hit that” and “98 percent of men do it even if they don’t admit it” and no “women can’t understand what it’s like to be a man.”
*I'm experimenting with E, em, and es and emself as pronouns that do not indicate any specific gender nor exclude any specific gender.