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Old 08-10-2019, 05:58 AM
Green Bean is offline
Join Date: Mar 2000
Location: NJ, Exit #137
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Nate, youíre usung the ďeverybody does itĒ excuse to try to justify your own destructive behavior.

Yes, typical men notice attractive women, and sometimes are even distracted by them. Itís not normal to be so distracted that you canít help hurting your wife.

Similarly, normal social drinkers may overindulge from time to time. Normal social drinkers can confine themselves to one or zero drinks of the situation calls for it. If they canít control themselves, then they need to get sone help because they have a drinking problem.

Similarly, you need to get some help because you canít control the outward manifestations of your reactions to women you think are attractive.