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Woman in coma gives birth
Link. Can you imagine the kind of abuse and neglect it takes to not only rape a comatose patient, but also not notice a baby growing inside of her until she gives birth to him? This is one of the worst things I've ever seen.
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Well, it sure ain't good, it sure ain't right, and the perpetrator needs to be held accountable and punished. But (and not to minimize its horror) it's far from among the worst things I've ever seen, sadly enough.
Last edited by Qadgop the Mercotan; 01-07-2019 at 10:29 AM. |
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Wonder if they'll DNA-test the baby against DNA collected from everyone who works in the hospital.
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I just can't believe this story. I mean, I'm sure it happened, but it's unbelievable that someone could do that and no one would notice. |
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And the anti-abortion group does a Happy Dance. "God intended for that baby to be born to that mother."
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Frankly, for as bad as the situation is, the resolution is pretty straightforward. You would greatly assume it was someone who worked at the hospital, so you can look back at schedules/time punches for roughly 9 months ago, DNA test the baby and against any males working...and boom.
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Do you always have to bring in some abortion/LGBT/religion/atheism non-sequiter into threads like these? This is a repeated pattern of yours.
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Right, all the males.
Wonder if this requires a court order or if it's within the employer's rights to force DNA tests of this kind? Something about self-incrimination/Constitution/Miranda, etc. |
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Also, unless the comatose woman were obese, how could the hospital staff not have noticed that her abdomen was getting larger and larger by the month?
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I suppose that it's possible that they assumed that she was becoming obese, since the possibility that someone had impregnated her was too ludicrous to consider.
It's also possible that the impregnator (I hesitate to use the word "father") was her primary caregiver, the person whose job it would have been to notice. |
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Is that how these facilities work? I had thought that care facilities had several primary caregivers, so the fact that not one of them noticed seemed indicative of some horrible negligence with regards to their duties.
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Is it possible for a comatose person to become obese in that way?
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Since there is almost no physical exertion, I would imagine that if a comatose patient is fed more calories than he/she burns in a day, that there would be gradual weight gain.
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If I read it correctly, the article doesn't mention any relatives of that particular patient; they mention relatives of other patients. Having a person who actually cares about you as a human being makes an enormous difference in the care a defenseless person gets; that's something we really need to improve as a society, I understand that having some distance from patients is necessary but it shouldn't get to the point where we think of that incapacitated person as nothing but a lump of meat.
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If she's been there for 10 years; they've been responsible for her caloric intake via a feeding tube for that time. It both costs more & is unhealthy to feed a comatose person enough extra nutrition to keep them obese for so long. |
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I've worked in a couple of health care facilities as an orderly. There is no way she was given enough extra nourishment to gain that much weight in that amount of time, and the nursing staff would have adjusted the intake after the weekly weighing(at the very minimum) was made. Also, any such change in the patient's condition weight and food intake wise would have been reported to the family.
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Purely out of curiosity, what method is used to weigh a comatose person?
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EVERYBODY does. |
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So the phenomenon is not unheard of (the phenomenon of comatose people getting larger, not of men getting pregnant). Last edited by kaylasdad99; 01-07-2019 at 12:45 PM. |
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The patient can be put into a padded chair that measures weight, or the patient can be put into a sling rather easily by rolling her to one side, tucking sling under her, rolling her to the other side and pulling it through then hooking the sling to the machine. BTW, this "roll, tuck, roll the other way, pull" method is also used to put clean bedding under bedridden patients.
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A court could order it as part of a criminal investigation, but I doubt seriously that a court would order all the males who work in a hospital to submit to a DNA test. It would likely be the same sort of standard as a search warrant. They'd need probable cause to believe that an individual committed a crime. The fact that some male obviously did commit a crime isn't enough to force all males in the vicinity to undergo genetic testing. It seems likely that there will be other evidence that can be gathered. The perpetrator likely had intimate knowledge of care schedules or was one of the woman's caregivers. Which will narrow the search a lot. |
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Also, the woman would have been on a constant calorie diet (no one knowing she was pregnant), so her only weight gain would have been the baby. |
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Leaving aside all the reprehensible misconduct issues for a moment, I'm kind of shocked that a (presumably healthy) baby can be born to a comatose patient at all.
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It could very well be that they were extremely careless, another patient sexually abused her, and they were trying to cover up their incompetence.
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It could also have been someone visiting another patient. And it's entirely possible that one or more staff members noticed, at least enough to suspect, but didn't want to be the one to officially ask the question.
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I have no idea of the effects of coma on reproductive health, but as long as she got adequate nutrition, which she seems to have done, I would expect the "housekeeping" functions of the body - digestion, excretion, and even (God help us) reproduction, to degenerate slowly enough to allow pregnancy. That's not to say that this kind of thing is a good idea, or not high-risk, as well as morally outrageous. IANAObstetrician. The linked article quotes her mother as saying the patient is able to say Yes and No. I have no idea if that is accurate, or the facilitated communication thing, or something else. Women can give birth under extreme circumstances. Regards, Shodan |
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Our local news is all over this story for some reason. It appears there were no CCTV cameras in this place. One parent of another patient said that he was installing his own in the room. The facility decided (a bit late) that men could not go into female patient's rooms alone any more.
A DNA test on the child and mother might give some clues as to the background of the father, which could narrow it down. And men working there could be given the opportunity to voluntarily give a DNA sample to the police which could narrow it down more. DNA has not been mentioned in any of the news stories I've seen, which is interesting. |
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Law & Order had a storyline like this. Turned out the victim's mother wanted a grandchild and paid some dude to knock-up her daughter. Lots of legal highjinks ensued.
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This has happened before back in the 90s. In the previous case, the male employees volunteered to submit DNA samples and the culprit was found:
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I have never given birth, but I believe it can be done even under general anesthesia. Didn't they use to knock women out altogether? Quote:
Regards, Shodan |
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God allowed the free will of the perpetrator to override God's choice on the matter. God wouldn't be much of a God if He gave us free will, and then overrode it whenever it was convenient. |
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If I had the knowledge and power to stop the abuse of this woman, I would have. Anyone who wouldn't isn't worth much, morally speaking, IMO.
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I couldn't sit there and watch silently as a comatose woman was raped...but then again I'm not God, thank ghod.
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All in all, pretty damn scary stuff. |
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I don't have any objection to her bringing that here, it is a related topic.
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Strange. I thought the female body had a way of shutting that whole thing down.
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nm, my statement would need to be in Great Debates.
Last edited by rsat3acr; 01-07-2019 at 04:51 PM. |
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I don't know about you, but I have been a visitor in a hospital (not THIS hospital, mind you) about a dozen times and have never once been asked to state my purpose or produce an ID. Once, I was asked who I was visiting at the front desk, and was given a temporary visitor's badge. Again, I did not present an ID. I have also worked as an IT sub-contractor and walked the halls of Cedars-Sinai in Los Angeles. I wore a temp ID badge that did not have my name on it and was never questioned.
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Not quite, IIRC. Her doctor impregnated her to get stem cells to help his wealthy patient, who had Parkinson's. The mother wanted to keep the baby because it was her grandchild and she was herself against abortion. I think this was an SVU episode.
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You'd also think it would be done by someone familiar with the place, since your random delivery boy wouldn't know that he wouldn't get walked in on. I'd also think that the rape might have happened more than once, since she did get pregnant. |
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In the L&O episode, the parents paid an orderly to impregnate the daughter in the coma. It was about getting the grandchild. The orderly bought a Harley, then got the snot beaten out of him by brothers of a different patient who they thought he raped but did not.
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As far as testing the male staff's DNA, they had better come with a court order. I'm not interested in any spiel stating "this will eliminate you as a suspect." ETA: To be clear, I am NOT a rapist, nor do I think rapist should get a pass. Last edited by G0sp3l; 01-07-2019 at 06:55 PM. |
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I've a hunch that, as the story develops, one obvious suspect will emerge, with enough probable cause that the police will be able to get a warrant for his DNA.
That said, a legal hypothetical: Suppose that it were possible to narrow down the list of possible suspects to a finite and manageable number. And suppose that all but one of those men voluntarily offered a DNA sample to the police, and that all of those samples were verified as not being the father. Could that fact be used as evidence against the last suspect? |
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There was also a crime like this here in Rochester in 1995.
This raises the very disturbing question of how many comatose women are being victimized. |
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![]() I, too wonder what kind of "nursing home" she was in, for her caregivers not to notice that she was pregnant? For one thing, didn't she have menstrual cycles, and didn't anyone notice that she wasn't having them any more? Some of us on another board also wondered if the perpetrator might not be someone who works there - because it was ANOTHER CLIENT. ![]() |
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