Yesterday I finished my last class. ever. 19 years of school. over. I turned in my last paper. I said goodbye to my last teacher. I took my last long bus ride home from campus.
I wasn’t even off the bus before I started crying. Most of a bottle of cheap port later, I was still crying. It was one of the worst days in my life.
I’m so ill prepared for the life ahead of me. It feels like everything in my world is ending. But the fact is, it really is ending.
I can’t afford to keep living in this house. It’s a rathole, for sure. But it’s $500.00 a month. I can’t afford that. I can’t afford anything, but we’ll get to that later. So my little beach cottage. In the best part of town. With a giant claw-foot tub. And big windows. And everything I could have ever wanted in a home (give or take some mold). The place where I’ve lived for two happy years. My first home. No more. I put in my thirty day notice. I’ve got till July 1st to move out.
Move out where? who knows?
There is no reason for me to be any one place. I have no job. My boyfriend and I arn’t going to survive as a couple after the move. My friends are all moving out of town. I’m a complete free agent. No purpose. I could be anywhere in the world. I could be no where. It wouldn’t matter at all. But I’ve got about 20 days to figure out something. Because that is when they are kicking me out of here. I’m 20 days from the streets (or at least moving back in with my mom, a fate marginally better than death). 20 days.
All this freedom would be nice, and even a bit liberating, if I wern’t broke. But all I’ve got is $200.00 of Christmas money that I was saving for better times. I can’t afford anything. I’m going to hold a garage sale to sell my stuff, so hopefully that will help. Still. I don’t want to sell my stuff! It’s my stuff! I don’t have much, so just about everything I do have is special to me. Still, I’m probably not going to be able to afford a room that’ll fit what little I do have. And even if I could, I don’t have a car or anyone to help me move.A and I desperatly need the money. So goodbye stuff. It’s been fun. Goodbye.
I’ve been applying for around ten jobs a day. Ten jobs that I am qualified for. Ten well written resumes sent out. Over the last months it adds up to hundreds. I’ve heard back back from exactly two people. Rejection letters. How am I going to live if I don’t have a job? How am I going to do anything without a job? I don’t even care what I am doing! I don’t give a damn what city it is in! I’m prepared to be uninsured. I’m prepared to live in a tiny rented room in somebody’s basement. I’m prepared to never have a car or savings or new clothes. I just want to be able to eat! All I want is a roof over my head and enough rice and beans so that I’m not physically hungry. If I don’t get employed, I’m going to end up burning through the money I paid for a deposit on this house. Once that is gone, how am I ever going to get a place to live again? I’m just going to be broke with no recourse and no safty net.
No job. No more boyfriend. No more friends in general. Very likely no more cat. No more money. No more stuff. No place to live. I’m losing everything I ever had. I’ve got nothing to do. No one to talk to. Nothing to eat. Nothing. Nothing. My whole world is ending. And it’s going to happen in 20 days no matter and there is nothing i can do to stop it. There is nothing I can do to hold on to even one more day of this life that I’ve been so happy and so comfortable in.
Happy graduation. Wish me luck. Wish me lots and lots of luck.