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You have a clear way of explaining things that I like.
You don’t have a paradox, however, nor should you reach the conclusion that the question is meaningless without more info.
In the case you describe, make the bet. Here’s why.
There are 100 girls in your hypothetical town - 50 families have one girl, 25 families have 2 girls.
When the girl walks into the room, you have whittled out problems - the 50 girls that will make you lose are squished into 25 families. Even is she is one of the 50 girls, she’s in one of the 25 families, and you have a better chance of being in the 50 families that are boy/girl split.
So what did change? You have prevented those girls from “spreading out.” If the girls and boys in town each wore a number indicating their address, then you could still make the bet with the kids. You see a girl from address 30, and make the bet. If you lose, you won’t make the bet with the other girl wearing address 30.
Back to your hypothetical. By being in the house, you have prevented the 25 families splitting into 50 chances that are out in the crazy outdoors. If they are one of the 50 that make you lose, at least they’re both confined to one house.
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I think I see what you’re saying, but hear me out: My problem is that in this isolated case that I’ve created there is no way to figure out my probability of being right. My odds are simultaneously 50/50 (50%) and 2/3 (66%) depending on who I bet with (the mother or the daughter).
I could go back out into the world after the bet and meet the aforementioned girl’s sister and bet with her and lose (consistent with 50/50 odds), or I could keep meeting mothers and keep my odds at 2/3. (By and by, some people implied that once you actually meet the girl as an actual person the odds change to 50% which is definitely wrong).
In my isolated case, my two ways of making a bet converged. This implies that in any given situation, if you ask a person, “what is your chance of being right?” that person has to ask “well how am I going to do it next time?” Otherwise any number value he assigns to his chances are meaningless.
My main point was that if the original question doesn’t imply how you would repeat the experiment, then probability is meaningless. Isolated cases can’t have probabilities associated with them. I might as well say I’ve got a 100% or 0% chance of being right, because in reality the kid is either 100% boy or 0% boy, not some uncertainty in a box.
If you were to repeat the original experiment, and the next family you met with had two boys, what would you do? Discard that family like I’ve been doing to win money? Somehow magically make it impossible to run into a family with two boys? Automatically call it a loss if they have two boys? Automatically call it a win? Or maybe you’ll avoid that situation by meeting girls on the street and then go meet their families. If you do that and you end up meeting a family you’ve already met, do you still make the bet? Or do you get to meet the other girl in the family after you make the bet so that you don’t make the same mistake twice? I don’t believe the original question tells you how to deal with this situation, so no meaningful odds can be calculated without more information.