We have friends whose first child was born 3 months ago. We hadn’t heard from them since (they live in a different city), and assumed they were just caught up in their new baby & huge life change.
We found out today from mutual friends that the baby has been diagnosed with Prader Willi Syndrome (PWS is a complex genetic disorder that typically causes low muscle tone, short stature, incomplete sexual development, cognitive disabilities, problem behaviors, and a chronic feeling of hunger that can lead to excessive eating and life-threatening obesity - from this site ).
I am horribly inarticulate when it comes to appropriately handling any type of difficult situation, and I need Dopers’ help. We of course are sending them a card & baby gift, but how do we let them know that we have heard of their situation and that we care and that we’re thinking of them and wishing them all the best?
I don’t want to seem callous but I also don’t want to come across as pitying or patronizing.
Advice please!