I’m reading a novel that has a brutal male-on-male rape fairly early.
I’m finding that I feel more unsettled by this fictional rape than by rapes where the victim is female, and I don’t have a logical reason for that. To some extent, I wonder if I’ve been desensitized to reading about women getting raped.
On the other hand, male rape is sometimes played for laughs. I can remember a movie commercial with someone getting (apparently) sodomized by a giant hamster? And there was an appallingly bad comedy a few years ago where the main character gets thrown into prison and gets raped. It’s supposed to be funny. I can’t think of an example where the rape of a female character is supposed to amuse the audience (though there’s that scene from an 80s comedy where a woman mistakes a costumed stranger for her boyfriend and has “consensual” sex with him).
So, I guess my questions are many. Do you perceive rape differently based on the sex of the victim? When the rape is “serious,” is it worse, somehow, when it happens to a man? If so, why?
Are there depictions of rape that you find funny? Does it matter who the victim is?
Thoughts?