Dear Cecil,
I read the post about inserting objects into the vagina.
I was wondering if this behaviour has a name, or is listed as a mental illness under a name. I have been surfing elsewhere and discovered that ‘fisting,’ is an activity associated with inserting objects into the vagina also, but I know very little about this subject and don’t want to go to a porn site to learn more.
My sister blurted out one day that our mother, who is an extremely conservative lady who won’t wear trousers or drink alcohol had inserted objects inside herself.
She told me that our mother had had tea cup(s) and orange(s) inside herself. Either my mother is not all she seems or else there is another explanation.
I didn’t know whether to take my sister seriously or embarrass our mother by challenging her to explain.
Is it physically possible for a woman to insert a ceramic cup inside herself or an orange? How?
Is it more likely that someone else would have inserted such a cumbersome object
due to the tiny width of the female opening? Surely the pain would be prohibitive?
I have a few concerns because our father who died when my sisters and I were children sexually obused my older sisters and it has never been discussed in a transparent way. Besides, my mother went through a period of mental illness in her late thirties and early forties not long before my father passed away.
I am wondering if my father put objects inside my mother or if she did it herself?
I realize these are questions only for my family to answer but the problem is that they are secretive about the past. Praise God in time the whole truth will be known.
What I want to address here at Straight Dope are the questions about whether a person can insert such large objects into the female opening without causing much pain and damage?How?
Also, If my mother carried children in the womb whilst fragments of sharp objects were lodged there, could this have caused damage to a developing foetus if it came in contact with a sharp edge for example?
My mother had a lot of difficulty giving birth, and nearly died on two occassions. She had three sections and one natural birth. If she were carrying large foreign objects inside would this have affected her during labour and delivery?
It is documented that my mother attended doctor’s at some point in her adult life after my father’s death and was cleaned out. She says that they were really shocked and disgusted at what had been inside her. Up until recently, I never really wondered what she meant by these comments as she didn’t elaborate at the time. But now I can see that she may have been referring to the teacup and orange.
My family is a little tender and I have one sister who is long term mentally ill. I would appreciate any helpful links or advise about any of these issues.
Thanks,Alis.