I would like an opinion please..

Hi, I was wondering if a NJ or NY have any type of common law child support? I have been dating a guy for some time and I have found out through a mutual friend that he was denied a us passport because of back child support. She said it had something to do with with living with some woman for many years and she had a child that was not his. Supposedly it is not his child but was awarded child support because they lived together. Has anyone ever heard of such a thing? And to top it off he has not told me about this. To give him some credit he did just recently found out that he owes child support. Is there a way to research a child support order? I just wish he would tell me that he has a kid biological or not… And I am nervous because he was not the one who told me. I just wonder if I should break up with him over this because he still has not told me… I feel that I have the right to know and there is no trust between us. Thanks:cool:

Closed as a duplicate of this thread, which has been moved to IMHO.