# 10-minute-long rape scenes are inappropriate workplace viewing.

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
**Created:** [November 17, 2008, 5:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144 "2008-11-17T17:16:58Z")
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### Author: ![sjc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e5b9ba/32.png) [@sjc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sjc)
#### Post date: [November 24, 2008, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144/121 "2008-11-24T03:34:36Z")

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> [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](#):
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> I think she was going back and forth. But I may be mis-ascribing the things she said so quickly that I could not understand.

I re-listened with that in mind and what she says is “Laissez moi” (whatever the conjugation is) “Aiuto!” and “Sil vous plait”. I didn’t hear her say anything else. “Aiuto” is the only Italian.

I probably should have left it alone because that wasn’t a particularly nice thing to watch, but I study Italian and I wanted to be sure I understood what she said. Yech!

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### Author: ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)
#### Post date: [November 24, 2008, 4:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144/122 "2008-11-24T16:00:04Z")

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> [@sjc](#):
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> I re-listened with that in mind and what she says is “Laissez moi” (whatever the conjugation is) “Aiuto!” and “Sil vous plait”. I didn’t hear her say anything else. “Aiuto” is the only Italian.
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> I probably should have left it alone because that wasn’t a particularly nice thing to watch, but I study Italian and I wanted to be sure I understood what she said. Yech!

Your French is better than mine. I can’t bear to watch it; I keep seeing my wife or one of my nieces.

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### Author: ![Laudenum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7993a0/32.png) [@Laudenum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Laudenum)
#### Post date: [November 24, 2008, 5:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144/123 "2008-11-24T17:05:41Z")

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> [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](#):
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> Your French is better than mine. I can’t bear to watch it; I keep seeing my wife or one of my nieces.

Dude! Thats messed up!

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### Author: ![BoBettie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4af34b/32.png) [@BoBettie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BoBettie)
#### Post date: [November 24, 2008, 5:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144/124 "2008-11-24T17:35:55Z")

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> [@Bricker](#):
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> “What guy?”  
> [/indent]

OK, I love that story. Wasn’t it Eddie Murphy who did a bit about how once you figure out how to make a woman have a great orgasm, you can get away with anything?

“wasn’t me”  
“I looked right in your face!”  
“wasn’t me”  
“welllll…maybe it wasn’t you…”

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### Author: ![Cervaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cervaise/32/16693_2.png) [@Cervaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cervaise)
#### Post date: [November 24, 2008, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144/125 "2008-11-24T17:51:17Z")

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Okay, but, what about a nine-minute-long rape scene? Is that appropriate workplace viewing?

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### Author: ![Hostile\_Dialect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e495f1/32.png) [@Hostile\_Dialect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hostile_Dialect)
#### Post date: [November 25, 2008, 12:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144/126 "2008-11-25T00:15:52Z")

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According to the 2005 Stockholm Convention on Appropriate Workplace Viewing, the cutoff is actually at 3:25, so this one is well over the limit.

ETA: That’s assuming the modifier of “stated intent to make the victim ugly”, which seems to be in play here.

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### Author: ![greatshakes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/58956e/32.png) [@greatshakes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/greatshakes)
#### Post date: [November 25, 2008, 7:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144/127 "2008-11-25T19:35:18Z")

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> [@Quartz](#):
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> You’ll want to alert IT so they can retain the proxy server records.
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> I’ve been where you are and it’s not pleasant. That incident resulted in the offender being fired.

At my last job, just surfing the web, on break or not, was a firing offense. YMMV.

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### Author: ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)
#### Post date: [November 28, 2008, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144/128 "2008-11-28T16:40:34Z")

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> [@greatshakes](#):
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> At my last job, just surfing the web, on break or not, was a firing offense. YMMV.

Captain Nitwit’s job requires that he be able to go online, so that he may look at customer or potential customer’s websites in preparation for a call or during a call. I’m told that, before I started here, they tried web-blockers and found that it inhibited everyone’s work more than was worthwhile.

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### Author: ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)
#### Post date: [November 28, 2008, 4:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/10-minute-long-rape-scenes-are-inappropriate-workplace-viewing/473144/129 "2008-11-28T16:45:18Z")

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> [@Laudenum](#):
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> Dude! Thats messed up!

It’s messed up that I possess the ability to feel empathy?

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