1957 vs. 2007

My final response to magellan01:

The problem is, no I can’t see that there are “not just a few ridiculous examples.” I’m seeing a bunch of descriptions done by groups that very much have an agenda, and therefore may or may not be the full story of what actually went down. A kid can be a good student and an eagle scout or whatever and still be trying to show off his gun. A little boy may be trying to kiss a girl on the cheek, and still forcibly overpowering her to do it. I don’t know what actually happened in any of these cases, and neither do you. The only people who know are the people who were there.

There’s a very real possibility that the adults making judgments were idiots. But there’s also a very real possibility that the situation as described is a highly incomplete, or even inaccurate, description of what actually went down. I tend to trust what the people who actually had to deal with it more than the people who have an ideological agenda and are armchair quarterbacking.

In any case, when you consider how many kids have been to school over the past twenty years and how many of these stories you’ve dug up, I’m really not seeing this as a trend. Stuff like this makes headlines, and that doesn’t typically happen because it’s commonplace.

But while the issues raised happend to use children as examples, they were about the over-zealous application of rules and regs. The use of children was strictly an appeal to emotion. And you were the one who told me to look at the cites in detail, so I did.

The interesting things is, if I’m remembering back to my psych major days correctly, they did the best they could looking at back when hangings were being used, and there was little lag time. They found, if anything, that the rise in violence associated with hangings was more profound than the rise in violence you see today in association with executions, probably because the hangings were public. Could be wrong on that, so don’t hold me to it. But I don’t think there’s any evidence to support your link between long lag and less rise in violence.

How often does that happen? And do you know how incredibly overrated eye-witness testimony is? It’s a real flaw throughout our justice system. My point is, it’s pretty darned rare that you have absolutely incontrovertible evidence that someone is guilty. There have been a goodly number of times when there was no question throughout the justice system’s collective mind that the right guy had been found, and later DNA had proven them wrong. It happens. We used to be a country in which the philosophy of “better ten guilty men go free than one innocent man be found guilty.” Perhaps we can’t afford that anymore. But the death sentence is pretty darned irreversible.

I’ve long been torn on this one, because from a practical standpoint, when it seems someone is not only a heinous criminal, but an incorrigible one, why spend the money to keep him alive? (Of course these days, it costs more to execute him, but let’s put that aside for the moment) If we had exile, it would be ideal, but we don’t have any place available for exile, no Australia handy.

But in more recent years, I’ve become convinced that the risk of convicting an innocent person is too great to take the risk. I used to be a bit more starry eyed about prosecutors and police, but I’ve learned that they do (as I do) get enamored of a single answer, and apply a confirmation bias to all evidence they find from there on - not all of them, but enough of them that it matters. And we as the public tend to be very trusting - it the police and the prosecutors tell us that someone is guilty, we’re highly likely to believe them.

That’s a bit of a dangerous situation. You never know when the person they’re coming for might be you, not the guy in the slum wiping his nose on his sleeve.

Wasn’t the Gentleman’s Agreement in force in 1957? I wonder what the people who prefer the Clean, Wholesome Fifties would feel about a synagogue on their street.

In 1957 I was a Teddy Boy and the world was my oyster.

In 2007 I was a year younger than I am today and I cannot stand oysters

I really like Bill Bryson. I think he’s hilarious. But he doesn’t know dick about the hardest parts of 1957. He is a white male who was five years old for most of that year. Of course the world was wonderful!

Thank goodness that Michael Phelps’ mother is an educator and took his ADD diagnosis seriously. Swimming seemed to help. They are not medicated to make them just stop being young boys. They are medicated to give them a chance to live full and productive lives that they can control themselves.

In 1957 I would have read the following post and not noticed that something major was missing:

Magellan01, the nurturing parent in my family was my father. All of our lives would have been richer by far if dad had stayed home and mother had run the family business. She liked being out in the community and he loved being with his children. I’ve seen the same abilities with other families. We really need to stop promoting females as the default stay-at-home figure. For some women it is fulfilling and for some dads it is the perfect job. Gender equality in such considerations is one of the positive things about 2007+.

I agree with you in principal about zero tolerance policies. Fortunately, I think they are beginning to crumble. And I also think that it had to do with administrators not wanting to have to explain the differences in decisions on handling students. Administrators should not explain except to their superiors. They have a duty to inform students of the rules and of possible consequences. They do not have a duty to discuss another parent’s child and that child’s discipline. In fact, they have a duty not to discuss it.

All of that aside, I find your comments about gang members and Eagle Scouts a little racist – theoretically.

Has the old ruling by the Supremes changed? We were supposed to let them wear almost any item unless it disturbed the class. (Of course, I never understood why the teacher wasn’t part of the class…)

In 1957 if mother needed a pack of cigarettes, she gave you a quarter and sent you to the corner store. You went to the display, picked out a pack of Wings, gave the clerk the quarter and went on your merry way. If you were lucky, you also got a nickel and bought a Hersey bar.

In 2007 if mother needs a pack of smokes, she has to go the store, ask a clerk, and wait for the clerk to open the locked case to get the package. She has to have at least $5 to pay for them.

Nitpick: You agree in principle. The principal is your boss.

Obscenity standards don’t apply quite the same way in schools as they do in the wider world. Much as school officials can conduct warrantless locker searches and so on, they have much wider latitude when it comes to banning offensive or obscene material. Bethel School District 403 v. Frasier allowed school officials to prohibit lewd, vulgar or “plainly offensive” stuff. This is presumably the case that your school’s policy is based on.

This authority was narrowed a little bit by Morse v. Frederick last year (the Bong Hits 4 Jesus banner) in which SCOTUS determined that political messages (which, of course, is more strongly protected that ordinary speech) could not be censored, even if obscenity was involved.

IOW, if you want to wear a shirt with boobies on it to high school, writing “vote McCain” underneath oughtta make it okay. Well, not really, because the obscenity has to be an integral part of the political speech to be protected - but you get the idea.

Forgot to mention: Tinker v. Des Moines is the other big deal in this area, and the source of the “disruptive speech can be banned” rule.

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Sorry. I thought the only reason we were posting privately was because we couldn’t post on the board (the board was down), so I think it’s ok with magellan, but if it’s not, I deeply apologize to magellan.

I looked further down thread and didn’t see this anywhere else so…

Huh? Doors? wha??

I’m pretty sure he/she’s referring to wives showing up with black eyes because they “walked into a door.”

No, it’s about doors to opportunity being shut in women’s faces. Now, women own a lot of the businesses, so they own the doors.

Wow! I just searched for info to confirm this, and that’s the number I’m seeing. What’s weird is that I had a thalidomide victim in my elementary school (NYC, circa 1969). He didn’t have the flipper arms; he just had essentially no fingers; just little nubs about a third as long as the first segment of each finger. I also had a friend in college (from Cuba) who’d had polio when he was young; he pretty much heaved his torso around whenever he needed to reposition his arms. (Since this is the pit, I’m not very sanguine about parents refusing to have their children vaccinated for anything; I’m not sure how this got started, but even if some of it is based in fact, it can’t be related to all vaccines, particularly not polio & smallpox).

IAC, in 1957 the entire world was in jeopardy because of commies with nukes. I think that some peoples’ memory of the 1950s was colored by the fact that the US went through a period of rapid changes just after WWII, partially aided by the economy redirecting its war-related manufacturing base towards consumer goods, along with returning soldiers having access to the GI Bill. Perhaps people who lived through that are remembering the rate of increase in the standard of living compared to that of the war years.

My gosh you’re right. And I bet he wrote and got a major publication to press without an ounce of research or fact-checking, too. I may not have been around in the '50s but I’ve spent [del]hundreds[/del] fuck that - thousands of hours hanging out with older friends and family members who were, and believe me, most of them long for those days. I know everything wasn’t perfect and I didn’t say it was (and neither did Bill Bryson, and I said that . . . ), but I seriously don’t get what’s with people on this board wanting to trash the past. And it’s not just in this thread. This has come up before.

And up your ass, by the way, for the implication that he should be ashamed of being a white male.

No one said anything about being ashamed of being a white male. It’s simply the as a white male, you didn’t have the blocks to success that non-whites or women did at that time, so you might not be aware of one of the drawbacks in a visceral way to that period.

Everyone always looks at the past with rose-tinted glasses. They’ve done that forever. Will Rogers once said, “Things aren’t what they used to be, and they probably never were.”

Mmmhmm. “Oh, you don’t know how it was/it couldn’t have been hard for you, you’re just a white male.” Condescending at best.

My grandparents picked cotton and lived in labor camps. Fuck anybody who thinks they didn’t have it as hard as any minority.

Look, anyone who wasn’t an adult in 1957 doesn’t have a visceral feel for what it was like then, OK? Fair?

In any case, I’m done with your whining.

Thanks for letting me know, your highness :rolleyes:

(in case your memory doesn’t go all the way back to 20 minutes ago, you’re the one who started in with me)