# 365 Days: "country club" prison or severe depression

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/365-days-country-club-prison-or-severe-depression/713768>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [February 27, 2015, 2:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/365-days-country-club-prison-or-severe-depression/713768 "2015-02-27T14:03:19Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\
**Post date:** [February 28, 2015, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/365-days-country-club-prison-or-severe-depression/713768/41 "2015-02-28T19:09:53Z")

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I had depression for I think it was about 3 months in the mid nineties. It was so incredibly bad that I have essentially moved it into the “Can’t think about it long enough to remember exactly what it was like” portion of my memory.

I really don’t want to go to prison, but in this case, better the devil you don’t know.

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**Author:** ![Postariti](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Postariti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Postariti)\
**Post date:** [February 28, 2015, 7:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/365-days-country-club-prison-or-severe-depression/713768/42 "2015-02-28T19:36:47Z")

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> [@Robert163](#):
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> You have to choose one for the next 365 days:
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> Prison:  
> You are in a white collar minimum security prison. No violence. They have a tennis court and a two lane bowling alley. They show movies on the weekend. The food is good. You have one hour a day for phone/internet. They have a huge well stocked library and all kinds of classes to take. But, you can’t leave the facility and have to obey all of their rules for one year.

What you are describing is a resort, that is much better than my actual life.

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**Author:** ![Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/qadgop_the_mercotan/32/83_2.png) [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qadgop_the_Mercotan)\
**Post date:** [February 28, 2015, 8:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/365-days-country-club-prison-or-severe-depression/713768/43 "2015-02-28T20:20:30Z")

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> [@Postariti](#):
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> What you are describing is a resort, that is much better than my actual life.

I work in a maximum security prison without movies, bowling alleys, internet access, etc. And life there is a lot better than the actual life of a fair number of the inmates there. And that’s per the inmate. ☹

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**Author:** ![Mona\_Lisa\_Simpson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ce7236/32.png) [@Mona\_Lisa\_Simpson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mona_Lisa_Simpson)\
**Post date:** [March 1, 2015, 1:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/365-days-country-club-prison-or-severe-depression/713768/44 "2015-03-01T01:24:55Z")

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> [@dropzone](#):
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> _shrug_ Depression did a good job of that\* without the bowling.

Agreed. For me the only downside of prison is not being around for my son. On the other hand, _short_ bouts of severe depression of the type mentioned have left me at times not very good at being around my son. A longer stretch of milder but still debilitating depression has damaged my finances and some parts of my career. A year of depression such as you describe would probably be harder on my son and family than the separation.

\*Originally Posted by DrDeth  
But since the Op didnt specify this, I’d have to take the Depression, since a year in prison with the attendant record, would ruin my whole life and career.

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**Author:** ![Octarine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/22d042/32.png) [@Octarine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Octarine)\
**Post date:** [March 1, 2015, 1:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/365-days-country-club-prison-or-severe-depression/713768/45 "2015-03-01T01:28:50Z")

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It would be interesting to have a similar poll but, rather than a country club style prison, it’s a dingier and more violent one. It would still actually be a hard choice, but I’d probably go with depression.

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