# 5th Grade-level books for sensitive Kindergartner?

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**Created:** [June 3, 2013, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/5th-grade-level-books-for-sensitive-kindergartner/660043 "2013-06-03T15:46:30Z")\
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Madeleine L’Engle – The Time Quintet:  
_A Wrinkle in Tim_e  
_A Wind in the Door_  
_Many Waters_  
_A Swiftly Tilting Planet_  
_An Acceptable Time_

Edith Nesbit – The Psammead series:  
_Five Children and It_  
_The Phoenix and the Carpet_  
_The Story of the Amulet_

L. M. Boston – The Green Knowe series:  
_The Children of Green Knowe_  
_The Treasure of Green Knowe_  
_The River at Green Knowe_  
_A Stranger at Green Knowe_  
_An Enemy at Green Knowe_  
_The Stones of Green Knowe_

And just to get it over with, since she shouldn’t miss these just because she’s learned to read so fast:  
Beatrix Potter – The 23 Tales:  
_The Tale of Peter Rabbit_  
_The Tale of Squirrel Nutkin_  
_The Tailor of Gloucester_  
_The Tale of Benjamin Bunny_  
_The Tale of Two Bad Mice_  
_The Tale of Mrs. Tiggy-Winkle_  
_The Tale of the Pie and the Patty-Pan_  
_The Tale of Mr. Jeremy Fisher_  
_The Story of a Fierce Bad Rabbit_  
_The Story of Miss Moppet_  
_The Tale of Tom Kitten_  
_The Tale of Jemima Puddle-Duck_  
_The Tale of Samuel Whiskers or, The Roly-Poly Pudding_  
_The Tale of the Flopsy Bunnies_  
_The Tale of Ginger and Pickles_  
_The Tale of Mrs. Tittlemouse_  
_The Tale of Timmy Tiptoes_  
_The Tale of Mr. Tod_  
_The Tale of Pigling Bland_  
_Appley-Dapply’s Nursery Rhymes_  
_The Tale of Johnny Town-Mouse_  
_Cecily Parsley’s Nursery Rhymes_  
_The Tale of Little Pig Robinson_

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I can’t recall any violence or death or hard-edged conflict in [Beverly Cleary’s](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beverly_Cleary#Works) books.

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Since she was born I’ve been reading my infant daughter some classic British children’s literature (not that she understands it, just reading it to her for the sake of reading something) and have been pretty impressed at the level of sophistication 20th century Brits expected from their children. Some of them are pretty expansive and what I would think would be difficult reads for kids, but maybe that’s the point. Even the _Peter Pan_ books are probably a bit difficult for the youngest readers. _The Wind in the Willows_ is a fantastic read, mostly idyllic with some fear and some conflict readily overcome by the main characters (although it’s pretty hard to dial it back if Green Eggs and Ham is too confrontational). Even with an advanced child reader I’d probably read it along with them to help them with some of the vocabulary. As a more simple read, anything from A.A. Milne’s _Winnie the Pooh_ series. Adventurous, but no danger too scary for a small child’s mind to overcome, yet still challenging enough.

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> [@TruCelt](#):
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> She also really dislikes books where there is a lot of interpersonal conflict.

Is she old enough to understand that most fiction is mostly about that?

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Saving Lily, though that is a bit emotional. I liked that book and it taught me (and my parents) to refuse to go to circuses.

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> [@Bob Ducca](#):
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> Where the Red Fern Grows…

> [@Hello\_Again](#):
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> ?? Was that a joke? Because there’s nothing like the disemboweling of a beloved dog to cheer up a sensitive 5 year old?

> [@April\_R](#):
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> No joke. Might as well recommend The Yearling or Old Yeller

> [@Washoe](#):
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> Shirley, you jest…(?)

Of course I was joking! It’s only one of the most upsetting books ever.

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I recommend _So Dear To My Heart_ by Sterling North; and the poetry books by Shel Silverstein, like\* Falling Up\*.

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> [@applebetty](#):
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> I recommend _So Dear To My Heart_ by Sterling North; and the poetry books by Shel Silverstein, like\* Falling Up\*.

Seconding Shel Silverstein.

[Especially](http://www.amazon.com/Uncle-Shelbys-ABZ-Book-Primer/dp/067121148X) . . . 😃

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> [@BrainGlutton](#):
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> Seconding Shel Silverstein.
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> [Especially](http://www.amazon.com/Uncle-Shelbys-ABZ-Book-Primer/dp/067121148X) . . . 😃

Only a sadist would recommend that.

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Thanks you so much for all the great recommendations! (and the specific warnings too - very helpful!)

And yes, she is well within normal six-year-old range emotionally, it’s just that most of the books at her reading level are written for older/tougher kids. And she’s not upset for a week over “Green Eggs and Ham” but she also doesn’t enjoy it, and that’s what we’re trying to achieve here, challenge + enjoyment.

It also doesn’t help that the logistics of chapter books sometimes mean that bedtime comes before the resolution of the conflict.

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Try the “Arthur Trilogy” of Kevin Crossley-Holland, beginning with _The Seeing Stone_. Great medieval detail (with helpful word list at the back to explain the meaning of terms like “bowyer” and “buckler” and “boggart”—not in the Harry Potter sense, but in its original meaning of “hairy goblin”), and very short chapters, just a page or two.

The tone is fairly quiet and meditative, although important and sometimes unsettling things do happen to the narrator. Fascinating books, and score very high on the “enjoyable for adults as well as kids” scale.

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> [@Dewey\_Finn](#):
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> Remember that the thread is about a six-year-old, not an eleven-year-old, so the sensitivity might be appropriate for the emotional age of the child. And I’d recommend The Phantom Tollbooth, if she has not read it yet. I did a book report on it around fourth or fifth grade.

I don’t know… kindergarten wasn’t all sunshine, roses and sensitivity.

When I was in Kindergarten way back in 1978, I punched another kid in the face for suggesting that Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny were really our parents, and weren’t real. It seemed like there were a few other fistfights, although that kind of thing didn’t really ramp up until 2nd or 3rd grade.

I also apparently pointed out loudly to the teacher (and everyone within earshot) that another student had wet themselves.

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> [@bump](#):
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> When I was in Kindergarten way back in 1978, I punched another kid in the face for suggesting that Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny were really our parents, and weren’t real. It seemed like there were a few other fistfights, although that kind of thing didn’t really ramp up until 2nd or 3rd grade.

When I was in 1st grade I was in a detention room for something or other with a bunch of other kids, and no adult supervision. One kid kept turning the light off and I got mad and stabbed him in the stomach with the tip of a sharpened pencil.

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Perhaps you were a less sensitive six-year-old? Children aren’t all the same.

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You might have some trouble finding them, though lots on eBay, but the Young Indiana Jones series might work. There’s not a whole lot of fighting, mostly young Indy meeting historical people. There’s a lot of mystery, adventure and the like but written of younger children. I don’t remember any deaths in any of the books. I gave a bunch to an 8/9 year old girl, though I don’t know how well she liked them, though I’ll ask when I see her mother.

They teach a lot of history too, there’s usually a chapter in the back of the book that tells about the time period and any cultures that Indy lives in. I enjoyed the books as an adult when I first got them all. I have a set I plan on letting my daughters read when they get to be a good age for it.

You will want to avoid the young Indy books that take place as a teenager as there is death and killing in many of them. He fights in WWI and along with Pancho Villa, but those are easy enough to know to avoid.

Here’s a [list of](http://www.theraider.net/information/literature/novelsy.php) the books. I see lots of 5-6+ for $10-15 bucks.

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> [@Sattua](#):
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> I’d try _Story Girl_ and _The Golden Road_ by Lucy Maude Montgomery. Very innocent, and as far as I remember even less upsetting than the Anne books.  
> …

The Story Girl/Golden Road set is falling down hilarious. One concern, though, is that L. M. Montgomery’s works are largely at a staggeringly high reading level. This may be exacerbated by the use of now-archaic vocabulary, but her writing is dense, poetic, full of allusions to other works, and has stunning poetic nature passages a la Tolkien. I think you might need to be a bit older to fully appreciate that.

In terms of direct content “concerns”, these two books (The Story Girl and The Golden Road) discuss young love with an particular emphasis on kissing \<3. Judy Blume’s Forever this isn’t, but I don’t think kindergarteners can really understand what passionate romantic kissing is all about and it’s likely to confuse her. Also, there is a sub-plot involving a date-setting doomsday preacher. If she remembers Harold Camping’s embarassment and the Mayan Calendar flop, it’s going to be familiar. Also, it is mentioned/alluded to near the end that

Cecily died shortly after the events in the last chapter.

Anne, of course, discusses death quite a bit and also alludes to child abuse, but not graphically.

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I haven’t read these so I don’t know if they’re any good or not (nor am I sure what age they’re aimed at), but what about the “American Girl” series? They have different young girl protagonists set in all sorts of different time periods. If you go with these, though, just be sure to keep her away from the huge merchandising machine (dolls, furniture, clothes, etc.–and all expensive!) that goes with the books.

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> [@Infovore](#):
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> Wasn’t there a lot of hardship and sadness in those, though? Like people dying? It’s been a long time since I read them, but I do remember them being fairly miserable (though I did enjoy them).

I have been obsessed with the Little House series since I was five years old. The family does have a very hard life, but each story has a happy ending. There is a very sad animal death and plenty of matter-of-fact hunting and slaughtering of animals, but I can’t think of any person who dies in the series. The harshness of their life really went over my head at a young age. I saw their life more as an exciting adventure. I was surprised when I reread them in my twenties and realized just how hard the family had it. The first book, Little House in the Big Woods, is not a troubling read and would be a good way to test the waters. The books grow in complexity and reading level as Laura grows up.

I will second the recommendations for the Ramona books by Beverly Cleary and the All of a Kind Family books.

Your daughter might also like:  
Heidi by Johanna Spyri  
Henry Huggins, Socks, Emily’s Runaway Imagintion, and Ribsy by Beverly Cleary  
The Fudge books by Judy Blume  
The Moffat family books by Eleanor Estes  
Ginger Pye and Pinky Pye by Elenor Estes  
The Shoes books by Noel Streatfeild  
The Betsy-Tacy books by Maud Hart Lovelace  
The Goneaway Lake and Melendy books by Elizabeth Enright  
The Bobbsey Twin and Nancy Drew series

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> [@Tara57](#):
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> Henry Huggins, Socks, Emily’s Runaway Imagintion, and Ribsy by Beverly Cleary

Don’t forget \*The Mouse and the Motorcycle \*and _Runaway Ralph_! 🙂

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Beverly Cleary is a great suggestion. I just had a few flashbacks too. Boxcar children, nancy drew, hardy boys…

None of them are in the fantasy genre though. Maybe the Narnia series?

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