To be honest, it kind of amazes me that it comes down to this for you guys. I.e., that it doesn’t matter unless it affects us humans very directly. But, be that as it may, the Nature article I linked to talks a fair bit about the ways in which the altered biodiversity (with the extinctions being one part of this) does affect us in the section entitled “Society Consequences of Altered Biodiversity”:
It goes on to give examples and talk in more detail about this.