erik150x, I’ve done you the favor of explaining on what interpretation of things your account can be made to make perfect formal sense.
And you, in turn, understand and accept that there are definitions relative to which everyone else’s accounts of things make sense, yes?
So what is it that you keep looking for? You want some extra proof that 0.999… is or is not actually equal to 1? That infinitesimals do or do not actually make a difference?
This is a nonsensical thing to look for. It’s like saying “Look, I get that you’ve made up a rule that says kings can move one square in any direction. But can you prove that kings actually move one square in any direction? Don’t just point to the rule you made up; can you prove it without that rule?”.
In mathematics, everything is ultimately an appeal to definitions. Everything.
There’s nothing to argue about. In one system, the rules are chosen so that 0.999… is inarguably equal to 1 and infinitesimal differences count as zero. There’s no question of “How do you know you’re allowed to do that? What gives you license to do that?”. It’s explicitly allowed by the rules. Yes, the rules we made up. That’s what math is; you make up the rules you’re interested in and see where they go.
In another system, the rules are such that 0.999 is inarguably less than 1 and infinitesimals can’t be ignored. That’s fine, and maybe you find this system much more interesting. But it doesn’t mean there is anything illegitimate in choosing to look at the other one without lengthy justification.
There’s no sense in asking which is the REAL system of rules. There’s no sense in seeking proof as to which are the true rules. That’s a meaningless question. It’s like saying “I understand that checkers and chess are different games, but I want some proof as to which is the REAL, TRUE game. Proof, not just definitions!”. It’s a nonsensical thing to ask about.
So what is the continued argument about? What are you still looking for?