# A baby, our baby! Beta is born!

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
**Created:** [October 7, 2008, 10:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826 "2008-10-07T10:54:22Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
**Page:** 9

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![DesertDog](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/desertdog/32/11503_2.png) [@DesertDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DesertDog)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 1:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/161 "2008-10-08T01:46:56Z")

</div>

> [@TokyoPlayer](#):
>
> “Would the father like to hold the baby?” naively asks the woman in white . . .

That did it; I’m bawling, now, damn you.

This needs to be translated, caligraphied in kanji, and hung over her crib.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![lizardling](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f4b2a3/32.png) [@lizardling](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lizardling)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/162 "2008-10-08T01:53:11Z")

</div>

And now I see there were pix posted, and a post by TokyoPlayer about holding Beta-chan for the first time.

_snif_

Beautiful pictures of a beautiful baby. I wish you all much joy in the days to come with little Beta-chan.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![JimOfAllTrades](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@JimOfAllTrades](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JimOfAllTrades)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 3:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/163 "2008-10-08T03:19:21Z")

</div>

Congratulations! Best wishes for you and Mom, and a long and beautiful life for Anya.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Aspidistra](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aspidistra/32/3894_2.png) [@Aspidistra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aspidistra)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 3:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/164 "2008-10-08T03:37:11Z")

</div>

That girl is. So. Adorable.

Not that you need me to tell you that!

Congratulations **TokyoFamily**. It’s so wonderful to see a happy beginnning…

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Hunter\_Hawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/50afbb/32.png) [@Hunter\_Hawk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hunter_Hawk)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 4:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/165 "2008-10-08T04:06:54Z")

</div>

\<riffles through a few pages in the Big Book Of Social Skills For The Clueless Bachelor\>

Ahem.

“That is the most beautiful baby ever.”

(Seriously, though, that’s a cute kid, and both mom and dad are _glowing_. Congratulations!)

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Stauderhorse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ce7236/32.png) [@Stauderhorse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stauderhorse)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 4:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/166 "2008-10-08T04:12:49Z")

</div>

YAY! What a cutie she is! I’m so, so happy for all three of you, **TokyoPlayer** ; you, your wife, and the baby girl who will be loved so deeply by her whole family (doper aunts and uncles included).

:):D:)

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![gwendee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/35a633/32.png) [@gwendee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gwendee)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 4:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/167 "2008-10-08T04:31:17Z")

</div>

Sorry I’m late but…

**Yay!!!**

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Ruby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@Ruby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruby)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 5:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/168 "2008-10-08T05:27:12Z")

</div>

Out-fricken-standing, **TokyoPlayer** _et al_.

You are truly blessed.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![jovan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/0ea827/32.png) [@jovan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jovan)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 5:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/169 "2008-10-08T05:39:03Z")

</div>

Congratulations! And welcome!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Lucky\_13](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lucky_13/32/13209_2.png) [@Lucky\_13](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lucky_13)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 6:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/170 "2008-10-08T06:21:30Z")

</div>

Congratulations **TokyoFamily**! Welcome to the world, Anya-chan!

Loved the pictures. Anya is so kawaii! Also, I just realized TokyoMama and I have the same type of eyeglass frames. All of you look so ecstatic!

:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)🙂

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![This\_ll\_Do](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/this_ll_do/32/3023_2.png) [@This\_ll\_Do](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/This_ll_Do)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 6:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/171 "2008-10-08T06:38:33Z")

</div>

Congratulations!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Cazzle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cazzle/32/75_2.png) [@Cazzle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cazzle)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 7:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/172 "2008-10-08T07:07:47Z")

</div>

So happy for you all. Congratulations!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 8:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/173 "2008-10-08T08:19:33Z")

</div>

> [@Drain\_Bead](#):
>
> Yay! She’s absolutely precious! I’m not even upset that I lost the baby pool! Congratulations.

That’s the cool thing about baby pools. So long as the baby arrives and arrives well, they’re unloseable.

And that too is a word!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![lynxie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e99b99/32.png) [@lynxie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lynxie)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 8:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/174 "2008-10-08T08:20:55Z")

</div>

Congrats! She is very pretty baby and the joy on your faces is unmistakable.

😃 😃 😃

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![missred](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/missred/32/14096_2.png) [@missred](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missred)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 8:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/175 "2008-10-08T08:34:36Z")

</div>

:):)🙂 Welcome to the world, Anya! :):)🙂

We’ve been anxiously awaiting your arrival for a long time!

Congratulations, **TokyoFamily**!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Ellef](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8dc957/32.png) [@Ellef](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellef)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 9:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/176 "2008-10-08T09:46:29Z")

</div>

Warmest congratulations on the new arrival, TokyoPlayer and Mrs. TokyoPlayer!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 10:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/177 "2008-10-08T10:33:39Z")

</div>

Congratulations to the **Player** family!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 11:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/178 "2008-10-08T11:04:24Z")

</div>

Mmmmm…she smells just like a baby!

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![Lady\_Venom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/9fc348/32.png) [@Lady\_Venom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lady_Venom)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 11:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/179 "2008-10-08T11:07:33Z")

</div>

> [@TokyoPlayer](#):
>
> “Would the father like to hold the baby?” naively asks the woman in white. First things first. After the checkup, and all is fine. After the mother is recovered, Anya is here. Just right away, she takes to the breast. Hungry and healthy and healthy and hungry. She drinks! She rests. She sucks again and again, until exhausted with the work, she falls asleep, a few hours into this world.
> 
> “Would the father like to hold the baby?” asks the nurse. No, the father does not just want to hold the baby, the father wants to cuddle her forever. Never let her go. Never lose her from his sight. If he holds her hard enough, long enough, she will be real. No, she already is real, here in his arms.
> 
> Fingers tingle, and the chest shakes. This is how to love a child. born to live. This is how to hold a child who can be held.
> 
> She cries, and I laugh. So sweet to hear your child’s cries. So sweet to hear your child’s sighs.
> 
> Ten fingers and ten toes. Healthy lungs and a beautiful nose. She lives! She cries! She kicks and she sleeps. She’s a baby, a healthy living baby. She’ll stay. She’ll be with us.
> 
> How many nights did I wait for her cry? How many days did I listen for her laugh?
> 
> A girl. My girl. Our girl. The mind spins. She is here. She’s healthy. She’ll live.
> 
> “Would the father like to hold the baby?” asks this, a new nurse, but not the second one, who knew us from our last stay. She knows. She knows that this father will never let go.

Congrats on the new arrival. You guys bring me hope! 🙂 She is just gorgeous!

Make sure you print that post of yours and put it in her baby book.

---

<div class="post-metadata">

### Author: ![dogbutler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dogbutler/32/428_2.png) [@dogbutler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dogbutler)
#### Post date: [October 8, 2008, 1:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826/180 "2008-10-08T13:35:11Z")

</div>

Congrats to **TokyoPlayer** and **TokyoWife**!!!

Welcome **Anya**!!!

[Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826.md?page=8)

[Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-baby-our-baby-beta-is-born/466826.md?page=10)
