Yes, usually. And we often are. Frequently enough. But sometimes bad things do happen.
Another one. Pedestrians walking across the Golden Gate Bridge are generally safe. The walkway safely ‘contains’ pedestrians from the roadway traffic, and for a parent you can easily think that your little children can walk ahead of you because there’s really “no place else they can go” (because the walkway will contain them). The barrier between pedestrians and traffic is good and effective.
About maybe 15-20 years ago a visiting tourist family was walking the GG Bridge when suddenly their young toddler disappeared at the side railing, not where the traffic roadway is but the other side where you look out onto the bay and the city.
Hidden from view, it turns out there is a gap between the bottom of the vertical railing and the horizontal walkway. The gap is small, but a small child can fall through it. If you walk to the vertical railing, at just the right spot (at just the right angle) you can see it but otherwise it is hidden from view.
The gap shows that it’s a crevice through which a child would fall from the bridge to the rocks below, or to the bay waters below depending on where you were on the bridge. That’s a far distance to fall. It would be fatal.
That’s exactly what happened. The small child fell to their death.
I’ve walked the GG Bridge many times and did not know this. After reading about this I brought my 3 young kids there for a nice outing, and as we walked the bridge I positioned myself at just the right angle and could see how that child could fall through. The view of the hazard was stunning.
Trying to be ‘the good dad’ I talked to my kids about how you can be enjoying your day and not realize there’s a potentially fatal hazard right where you are. I then walked them over to the crevice, at just the right angle, and showed it to them and explained how just the week before a young child fell to their death through that gap.
The sight through that crevice, when you’re at just the right angle and seeing how it’s big enough for a child, and looking down to the rocks below, was stunning.
San Francisco has since installed a tight cable along that crevice, effectively cutting that gap in half such that no child can ever slip through that space again. But you can see the hazard today.