# A bunch of jerkoffs ruin women's volleyball game

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**Created:** [September 20, 2023, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425 "2023-09-20T14:46:50Z")\
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**Author:** ![Darren\_Garrison](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darren_garrison/32/92_2.png) [@Darren\_Garrison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darren_Garrison)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/1 "2023-09-20T14:46:50Z")

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So at a game at a university in Brazil, several male _medical students (!)_ decide to celebrate the end by running out on the court and masturbating. All of them have been expelled, presumedly ending their hopes at a career in medicine thanks to their interesting interpretation of good judgement.

> **[A Bunch of Medical Students Celebrate a Win by Their School's Volleyball Team...](https://www.barstoolsports.com/blog/3485142/a-bunch-of-medical-students-celebrate-a-win-by-their-schools-volleyball-team-by-storming-the-court-and-holding-a-circle-jerk)**
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> There are few things that bring people together like cultural traditions and sports. And when you combine the two, it can be truly magical. And as much as I love a great pregame tradition like tailgat...

[https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/sport/more-sports/six-university-students-expelled-after-disgusting-sex-act-goes-viral/news-story/7d87fb9c41a7aa6d3adb04ced41cc32f](https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/sport/more-sports/six-university-students-expelled-after-disgusting-sex-act-goes-viral/news-story/7d87fb9c41a7aa6d3adb04ced41cc32f)

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 2:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/2 "2023-09-20T14:57:07Z")

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In the medical biz I guess there is such a thing as becoming _too_ comfortable about bodily functions & normal secretions.

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**Author:** ![solost](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/solost/32/11776_2.png) [@solost](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/solost)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 3:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/3 "2023-09-20T15:45:38Z")

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What a circle of jerks.

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**Author:** ![pjd](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pjd/32/3009_2.png) [@pjd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pjd)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 4:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/4 "2023-09-20T16:03:02Z")

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FFS.  
When did it stop being shameful to be a total wanker ? And to openly watch porn ?  
When i was a lad, this was the domain of dirty old men in dirty raincoats visiting  
seedy shops and buying magazines wrapped in brown paper from under the counter.  
These days kids seem proud of it.  
🙄

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**Author:** ![Just\_Asking\_Questions](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba9def/32.png) [@Just\_Asking\_Questions](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Just_Asking_Questions)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 4:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/5 "2023-09-20T16:19:07Z")

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> [@pjd](#):
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> When did it stop being shameful to be a total wanker ?

The idea of not only jerking off in front of other guys, but even _admitting_ that you jerk off is so anathema to the boy culture I grew up in that I can’t fathom it. Yes, I know the therm “circle jerk” exists for a reason, but where I grew up you’d be forever “queer” if you even talked about it.

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 5:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/6 "2023-09-20T17:46:06Z")

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The fact circle jerks were evidently a common feature of fraternity hazing ought to give some idea of how it was viewed.

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 5:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/7 "2023-09-20T17:49:47Z")

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> [@pjd](#):
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> When did it stop being shameful to be a total wanker ? ⁢

I never actually associated the insult with the activity until now. A wanker is just an jerk, usually a stupid one.

> [@pjd](#):
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> And to openly watch porn ?

This was already fairly common when I was in college. Not so much high school, but admitting to watching porn was not a big deal. **But you still didn’t do it communally**. You might watch a movie with titillating nudity with a group, but not full on porn–and you didn’t do anything while in the group. Nor did you talk about what you might do with porn in private except maybe with some innuendo.

However, note that this is in Brazil. I’m sure the culture is very different there.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/8 "2023-09-20T17:55:07Z")

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Darren is The King of Thread Titles here on The Dope.

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**Author:** ![Whack-a-Mole](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whack-a-mole/32/141_2.png) [@Whack-a-Mole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whack-a-Mole)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/9 "2023-09-20T17:59:59Z")

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These were future doctors?

Good riddance. I have made plenty of dumb choices in my life, especially when young, but nothing remotely that bad. Youth should have some allowance to be dumb (and suitably deal with the consequences and make amends). But some bridges are too far. I would not want someone with such poor judgement to ever be my doctor.

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**Author:** ![snowthx](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snowthx/32/10660_2.png) [@snowthx](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/snowthx)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 6:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/10 "2023-09-20T18:03:43Z")

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> [@Whack-a-Mole](#):
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> These were future doctors?

Yeah, but now they’re finished.

> [@pjd](#):
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> When did it stop being shameful to be a total wanker ?

IMHO the pandemic made people lose their effing mind - many social norms of the past are now just flagrantly ignored.

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/11 "2023-09-20T18:44:02Z")

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> [@snowthx](#):
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> IMHO the pandemic made people lose their effing mind - many social norms of the past are now just flagrantly ignored.

To the degree that’s true (and I’m not disputing you, just taking the idea at face value) …

Right now the people in late undergrad were late high school during the height of COVID. And the high schoolers now were middle schoolers, etc.

If the most seriously affected kids were WAG age 3-6 during 2020-2021 we’ll see that cohort emerge as post-college adults in about 2035-2040. Assuming COVID or other pandemic has not returned meanwhile, those folks ( and everybody else) will also have had the last ~15 years of comparative normalcy to “recover” from their early socialization damage.

Going to be interesting to watch.

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**Author:** ![Love\_Rhombus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/love_rhombus/32/10694_2.png) [@Love\_Rhombus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Love_Rhombus)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 6:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/12 "2023-09-20T18:47:19Z")

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Not surprised that “Barstool Sports” picked up the story.

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/13 "2023-09-20T18:57:53Z")

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From the link:

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> _“Say, remember that time at SCU when we hung brain on the court and all started rubbing one out? Those were the days…”_

Never heard that one before. “hung brain”? 😄

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**Author:** ![Q.Q.Switcheroo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/q.q.switcheroo/32/5713_2.png) [@Q.Q.Switcheroo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Q.Q.Switcheroo)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 7:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/14 "2023-09-20T19:23:37Z")

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> [@Whack-a-Mole](#):
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> These were future doctors?
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> Good riddance. I have made plenty of dumb choices in my life, especially when young, but nothing remotely that bad.

Well, not everyone’s cut out for accounting. 😉

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**Author:** ![Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mean_mr.mustard/32/3865_2.png) [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mean_Mr.Mustard)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 7:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/15 "2023-09-20T19:54:51Z")

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This is a pretty good illustration about the general maturity level of men versus women.

Could you ever, in a trillion, zillion years, imagine this happening if the genders were reversed.

No, you could not.

mmm

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 8:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/16 "2023-09-20T20:14:19Z")

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Or the general level to which sex-based “thinking” overrides other sorts of thinking.

I’m not quite ready to sweep that difference under the larger rug of “maturity”.

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**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/17 "2023-09-20T20:30:24Z")

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Imagine having the whole world at your fingertips and throwing it all away for a stupid stunt like this.

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**Author:** ![DoctorJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doctorj/32/2904_2.png) [@DoctorJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DoctorJ)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 8:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/18 "2023-09-20T20:41:43Z")

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I work with med students all day long…and this tracks.

Most of them are wonderful, but every class has a handful who could appear under such a headline and I’d just say, “Yep.”

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**Author:** ![Darren\_Garrison](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darren_garrison/32/92_2.png) [@Darren\_Garrison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darren_Garrison)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/19 "2023-09-20T20:52:39Z")

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> [@Grrr](#):
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> Imagine having the whole world at your fingertips and throwing it all away for a stupid stunt like this.

Imagine facing your parents afterwards.

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**Author:** ![Whack-a-Mole](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whack-a-mole/32/141_2.png) [@Whack-a-Mole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whack-a-Mole)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2023, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-bunch-of-jerkoffs-ruin-womens-volleyball-game/990425/20 "2023-09-20T20:55:53Z")

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> [@Darren\_Garrison](#):
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> Imagine facing your parents afterwards.

I’d like to see that conversation:

Boy: Mom, dad…I was expelled from school. My plans to be a doctor are done. The hopes to lift our family from poverty are over. Everything we worked years for is over.

Mom/Dad: What did you do?

Boy: Uhmm…

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