I seriously doubt Christians will give atheists a fair shake in any election.
I don’t talk about being an atheist in public (IRL), because the reaction is always the same. And it’s tough to dodge questions about where I go to church. The answer is, I don’t go to any church. (Gasp and alarm, why not?) Because I am not a member of any religion. (Well I believe in God, right?) No. (Why not?)
There’s no answer to that question that will actually satisfy someone who finds it remarkable that someone could actually *not *believe in their God.
And of course, being treated differently afterward is always fun. Now the people who were talking and being friendly toward me now believe I am a sick evil monster, so, they disassociate and keep their distance. This has happened plenty of times. Basically, it’s okay if you believe in something else; be a jew, be a muslim, be a buddhist- anything at all… but believing in* nothing supernatural* at all, that’s beyond the pale. You see, if I were a Buddhist, there would be different questions. Curiosity. Excitement, even! Oh my, how interesting, a Buddhist. What is it that you folks believe in? Tell me more.
There is no such enthusiasm and curiosity if you say you’re a non-believer. Just awkward silence, followed by fewer conversations in the future.
You see, before I revealed that part of myself, I was a nice person, good enough to want to get to know, funny, charming, personable. Now, as non-believer, I am not worth getting to know anymore, so the conversation ends, and further questions about myself are not posed.
And I’m the atheist that people know in real, everyday life. You don’t see me urinating on crucifixes or whatever. You didn’t even know I was an atheist until years after you met me. So obviously I’m not so different from everyone else. But even knowing me, there is still distance afterward.
Now you factor in a politician that you’ve never met in person, and how can there be trust?
If I can work with you every day for years, make you laugh, and be interesting enough to get to know *until *I answer your question about my religion, and then you back away, how could you possibly trust a stranger? Getting to know me and finding out I’m a decent person didn’t stop you from distrusting me or disassociating yourself with me once you knew I was atheist.
You see, to me it is like the default position. If you never paint your house, it’s a house without paint. If you never teach a child religion, the child is an agnostic. But I can’t just respond “none for me, thanks” when someone wants to know what supernatural things I worship, because that alone causes discomfort and distrust.
I know it is not the same for everyone, there are tolerant religious people. But when half the folks with the same political opinion as you wouldn’t vote for you because you’re one of those bizarre non-believer types, then yeah, that tells you how highly most people think of atheists.
It’s small wonder any atheists think religion is a destructive influence- even in decent enough people, it causes people to treat others like they are diseased merely for being different. Whether the reaction is subtle or not, when you’re treated differently forever after, that tells me where I rank in the scheme of things, in the mind of many religious people.
Oh, atheist? Ewww get it away. Don’t marry my daughter, don’t run for Congress. I barely can tolerate you in my workplace, you pawn of Satan. :rolleyes: