# A dirty porn terminology question. Seriously, don't read this. **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [January 7, 2008, 7:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620 "2008-01-07T19:06:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Trunk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/87869e/32.png) [@Trunk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trunk)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 7:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/1 "2008-01-07T19:06:15Z")
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**Author:** ![Gfactor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9de053/32.png) [@Gfactor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gfactor)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 7:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/2 "2008-01-07T19:11:00Z")
[QUOTE=Trunk] Or a dong going from an ass to a mouth in one take? [/QUOTE] A dong going \*\*directly \*\* from an ass to a mouth. ---
**Author:** ![Lobsang](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lobsang/32/4067_2.png) [@Lobsang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lobsang)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 7:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/3 "2008-01-07T19:11:53Z")
No idea… why I clicked on this thread… Or what it means. But I guess it’s the second one. ---
**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 7:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/4 "2008-01-07T19:14:28Z")
Dong directly from ass to mouth. Finishing in the mouth after anal is sometimes referred to as an “ATM deposit.” ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 7:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/5 "2008-01-07T19:18:43Z")
[QUOTE=Gfactor] A dong going \*\*directly \*\* from an ass to a mouth. [/QUOTE] Agreed. ---
**Author:** ![Gfactor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9de053/32.png) [@Gfactor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gfactor)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 7:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/6 "2008-01-07T19:33:19Z")
[QUOTE=Czarcasm] Agreed. [/QUOTE] And I didn’t even have to buy you dinner! 😃 Homer trying to casually buy illegal fireworks: Let me have one of those porno magazines… large box of condoms… a bottle of Old Harper… a couple of those panty shields… and some illegal fireworks, and one of those disposable enemas. Eh, make it two. Later… Marge seeing Homer’s purchases: I don’t know what you’ve got planned for tonight, Homer, but count me out. ---
**Author:** ![Lobsang](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lobsang/32/4067_2.png) [@Lobsang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lobsang)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/7 "2008-01-07T19:40:12Z")
[QUOTE=Gfactor] Homer trying to casually buy illegal fireworks: Let me have one of those porno magazines… large box of condoms… a bottle of Old Harper… a couple of those panty shields… and some illegal fireworks, and one of those disposable enemas. Eh, make it two. Later… Marge seeing Homer’s purchases: I don’t know what you’ve got planned for tonight, Homer, but count me out. [/QUOTE] 😃 One of the better simpsons moments. ---
**Author:** ![bouv](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bc8723/32.png) [@bouv](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bouv)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 8:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/8 "2008-01-07T20:07:57Z")
Yeah, Ass to Mouth is going directly from anal sex to oral sex, almost always without a condom in both instances. I don’t know _why_ this is the “big thing” in porn nowadays, but it is, and I don’t see how anyone finds it sexy. One might make the same argument about vag to mouth, but I think most of the populace can agree that what’s inside a butt is grosser than what’s inside a vagina (most of the time, at any rate.) ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 8:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/9 "2008-01-07T20:13:52Z")
[QUOTE=bouv] I don’t know _why_ this is the “big thing” in porn nowadays, but it is, and I don’t see how anyone finds it sexy. [/QUOTE] I don’t know either, but I’ll take a stab at it. It says that the girl is such a dirty slut, she’ll do anything sexual. And that’s hawt. ---
**Author:** ![Trunk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/87869e/32.png) [@Trunk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trunk)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 8:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/10 "2008-01-07T20:24:56Z")
> [@bouv](#): > > . I don’t know why this is the “big thing” in porn nowadays, sometimes, the “demeaning” of the woman is the turn on. And, ATM is definitely demeaning. Of course, that sort of begs the question. ---
**Author:** ![D\_Odds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/d_odds/32/2882_2.png) [@D\_Odds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/D_Odds)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/11 "2008-01-07T20:32:50Z")
I think **Trunk** hit the nail on the head. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 9:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/12 "2008-01-07T21:09:18Z")
Demeaning? Interesting. I wonder why some guys like demeaning porn. I certainly don’t. To me, if the girl isn’t having a good time, I’m not either. Maybe some guys have anger issues? This brings up the interesting topic of why facials are hot. My take on it: Guys think of their jism as part of their sexuality. They tie up some of their identity in it, much in the same way that toddlers have some of their identity in their poo. Jism is masculine power. Imagine a porn scene in which the girl grabs for a towel the moment any gets on her, and she says “Eww, that’s gross!” It’s a direct rejection of that masculine power, and how opposite-of-hot is that? Instead, the girl accepts it in the most intimate way possible. If she loves it (or pretends to), then that’s sexy. ---
**Author:** ![Astroboy14](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/df705f/32.png) [@Astroboy14](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Astroboy14)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 9:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/13 "2008-01-07T21:59:42Z")
[QUOTE=tdn] Imagine a porn scene in which the girl grabs for a towel the moment any gets on her, and she says “Eww, that’s gross!” [/QUOTE] OK, I’m imagining the girl as Alicia Silverstone in Clueless… [sup]Shit! I’ll be back…[/sup] ---
**Author:** ![D\_Odds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/d_odds/32/2882_2.png) [@D\_Odds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/D_Odds)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 10:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/14 "2008-01-07T22:12:51Z")
[QUOTE=tdn] Demeaning? Interesting. I wonder why some guys like demeaning porn. I certainly don’t. To me, if the girl isn’t having a good time, I’m not either. Maybe some guys have anger issues? This brings up the interesting topic of why facials are hot. My take on it: Guys think of their jism as part of their sexuality. They tie up some of their identity in it, much in the same way that toddlers have some of their identity in their poo. Jism is masculine power. Imagine a porn scene in which the girl grabs for a towel the moment any gets on her, and she says “Eww, that’s gross!” It’s a direct rejection of that masculine power, and how opposite-of-hot is that? Instead, the girl accepts it in the most intimate way possible. If she loves it (or pretends to), then that’s sexy. [/QUOTE] There was a thread some months back similar to this. The OP, name forgotten, argued that spitting was a rejection, or something similar. His opinion was that if the girl would take it orally, then she should swallow. Personally, I found his POV foolish, and I thought he felt just as you typed above. (P.S. posting from handheld -one window, no tabs - else I’d try to track down the thread) ---
**Author:** ![Wee\_Bairn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/90db22/32.png) [@Wee\_Bairn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wee_Bairn)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 10:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/15 "2008-01-07T22:27:14Z")
The really good kind though, is girl A’s ass directly to girl B’s mouth… As for demeaning, I have see many where the girl is being demeaned in my eyes but enjoying it- anyone doing it with Ron Jeremy for instance, IMO is demeaning themselves, but can be loving the hell out of it. A girl obviously not having fun though, agreed, is a downer. ---
**Author:** ![Rebo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rebo/32/13005_2.png) [@Rebo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rebo)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 10:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/16 "2008-01-07T22:32:40Z")
I don’t know why I clicked on this thread either, but: Is this not done in gay men’s porn? I mean demeaning acts such as ATM. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2008, 1:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/17 "2008-01-08T01:08:26Z")
[QUOTE=Trunk] sometimes, the “demeaning” of the woman is the turn on. And, ATM is definitely demeaning. Of course, that sort of begs the question. [/QUOTE] …as in who slaps the $20 bill on who’s chest before leaving? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![GreedySmurf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a698b9/32.png) [@GreedySmurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GreedySmurf)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2008, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/18 "2008-01-08T02:23:34Z")
Colour me the odd one out. When I saw Clerks II, I presumed they were talking about rimjobs with the whole ass to mouth bit. Looks like this is my bit of ignorance fought for the day. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Shark\_Sandwich](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f04885/32.png) [@Shark\_Sandwich](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shark_Sandwich)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2008, 2:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/19 "2008-01-08T02:31:25Z")
[QUOTE=Gfactor] A dong going \*\*directly \*\* from an ass to a mouth. [/QUOTE] I’ve also heard this called, “The Rusty Trombone.” - SS ---
**Author:** ![SSG\_Schwartz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9a140/32.png) [@SSG\_Schwartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SSG_Schwartz)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2008, 2:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620/20 "2008-01-08T02:36:47Z")
[QUOTE=Shark Sandwich] I’ve also heard this called, “The Rusty Trombone.” - SS [/QUOTE] A rusty trombone is manually stimulating a male while performing analingous on him. I would post a cite, but if you really want one, see Andy Dick in [The Aristocrats](http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0436078/) (SFW) SSG Schwartz [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-dirty-porn-terminology-question-seriously-dont-read-this/432620.md?page=2)