# A former, and occasional, poster named Lyanthya **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [June 16, 2009, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902 "2009-06-16T02:52:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Tamerlane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tamerlane/32/7602_2.png) [@Tamerlane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tamerlane)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 11:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/21 "2009-06-16T11:55:28Z")
My condolences **Paul** :(. ---
**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 11:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/22 "2009-06-16T11:57:38Z")
I’m very sorry to hear this. My deepest condolences to you and your family. ---
**Author:** ![dogbutler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dogbutler/32/428_2.png) [@dogbutler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dogbutler)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 12:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/23 "2009-06-16T12:11:15Z")
My condolences on your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 12:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/24 "2009-06-16T12:47:46Z")
I’m terribly sorry, **PaulParkhead**. My condolences. ---
**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 1:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/25 "2009-06-16T13:01:13Z")
I’m really sorry to hear of all this, **Paul**. My sincerest sympathies. ---
**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 1:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/26 "2009-06-16T13:03:25Z")
May whatever gods there be, be with you during this difficult time! Sending supporting thoughts your way. ---
**Author:** ![Defensive\_Indifference](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/defensive_indifference/32/6502_2.png) [@Defensive\_Indifference](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Defensive_Indifference)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 1:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/27 "2009-06-16T13:06:10Z")
I am very sorry for your loss, **Paul**. ---
**Author:** ![Cazzle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cazzle/32/75_2.png) [@Cazzle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cazzle)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 1:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/28 "2009-06-16T13:16:10Z")
I’m deeply sorry for your loss, Paul. ---
**Author:** ![Yllaria](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yllaria/32/3452_2.png) [@Yllaria](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yllaria)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 1:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/29 "2009-06-16T13:37:55Z")
I’m so sorry for your loss. My sympathies are with you. ---
**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/30 "2009-06-16T13:49:41Z")
That’s terrible, Paul. I will be thinking of you both. Did her family approve of your decision? ---
**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 1:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/31 "2009-06-16T13:58:54Z")
That’s tragic, **PaulParkhead**. I’m very sorry for your loss. And yes, I’ll add her to the memorial thread when I have a few minutes. ---
**Author:** ![Wheelz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wheelz/32/5718_2.png) [@Wheelz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wheelz)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 2:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/32 "2009-06-16T14:01:19Z")
My deepest sympathy. I cannot even begin to imagine what you’re going through. ---
**Author:** ![Hanna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b3f665/32.png) [@Hanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hanna)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 2:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/33 "2009-06-16T14:10:14Z")
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. ---
**Author:** ![Shirley\_Ujest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/45deac/32.png) [@Shirley\_Ujest](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shirley_Ujest)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/34 "2009-06-16T14:21:03Z")
I am so sorry. ---
**Author:** ![Sigmagirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c89c15/32.png) [@Sigmagirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sigmagirl)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/35 "2009-06-16T14:27:54Z")
My sympathy is with you and your family, **PaulParkhead**. ---
**Author:** ![Kolga](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e56c9b/32.png) [@Kolga](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kolga)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 3:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/36 "2009-06-16T15:34:13Z")
Please accept my sincere condolences for your terrible loss. ---
**Author:** ![Taters](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/taters/32/2845_2.png) [@Taters](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Taters)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/37 "2009-06-16T15:52:31Z")
I am so sorry. I hope you can find some peace in the memories of the happy times you shared together. ---
**Author:** ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 4:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/38 "2009-06-16T16:06:12Z")
I’m very sorry to hear about this and offer my sympathy and prayers. Thanks for letting us know. Take care of yourself. ---
**Author:** ![PaulParkhead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@PaulParkhead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PaulParkhead)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/39 "2009-06-16T18:21:29Z")
Thank you all. > [@Dung\_Beetle](#): > > That’s terrible, Paul. I will be thinking of you both. Did her family approve of your decision? I wouldn’t say “decision” was the right word: there wasn’t really a meaningful choice. By that point, she had no hope of recovery. It was a question of “when”, not “if”. But yes, her mother and father supported me. ---
**Author:** ![AskNott](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asknott/32/5790_2.png) [@AskNott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AskNott)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 8:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/40 "2009-06-16T20:16:18Z")
I’m so sorry, Paul. Love will bring you peace, in time. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902.md?page=3)