# A former, and occasional, poster named Lyanthya **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [June 16, 2009, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902 "2009-06-16T02:52:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![rocking\_chair](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rocking_chair/32/2918_2.png) [@rocking\_chair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rocking_chair)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 9:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/41 "2009-06-16T21:49:02Z")
i’m so sorry. and very sorry you had to make such a difficult decision. may her memory be eternal. ---
**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 10:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/42 "2009-06-16T22:23:32Z")
I’m very sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![gardentraveler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gardentraveler/32/3576_2.png) [@gardentraveler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gardentraveler)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 10:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/43 "2009-06-16T22:44:29Z")
I’m so sorry for your loss, **Paul**. Condolences to you and your family and friends. ---
**Author:** ![Hockey\_Monkey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a183cd/32.png) [@Hockey\_Monkey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hockey_Monkey)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2009, 11:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/44 "2009-06-16T23:10:19Z")
I’m deeply sorry for you loss. ---
**Author:** ![KSO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f07891/32.png) [@KSO](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KSO)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 12:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/45 "2009-06-17T00:04:16Z")
I’m so sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts. ---
**Author:** ![Bam\_Boo\_Gut](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/8c91f0/32.png) [@Bam\_Boo\_Gut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bam_Boo_Gut)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 1:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/46 "2009-06-17T01:31:33Z")
Paul what a terrible shock this is. My condolences. ---
**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 1:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/47 "2009-06-17T01:41:03Z")
So young. I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you. ---
**Author:** ![Celyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9dc877/32.png) [@Celyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Celyn)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/48 "2009-06-17T01:58:49Z")
Oh that’s horrible news. I’m very sorry. ---
**Author:** ![Ruby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@Ruby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruby)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/49 "2009-06-17T02:03:23Z")
What a tragedy. **Paul** , may you find a moment of peace during this most difficult time. ---
**Author:** ![Brynda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e79b87/32.png) [@Brynda](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Brynda)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/50 "2009-06-17T02:05:09Z")
Paul, if you ever want to talk, PM me and I will send you my phone number or you can send me yours. Seriously. My husband died 3 months ago and it has helped me so much to talk to others who have lost a spouse. He was British, so I have cheap phone rates to the UK. ---
**Author:** ![MadTheSwine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@MadTheSwine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MadTheSwine)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 3:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/51 "2009-06-17T03:50:34Z")
So young. I am crying for ya Paul.Hang tough. ---
**Author:** ![anya\_marie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ebca7d/32.png) [@anya\_marie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anya_marie)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 7:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/52 "2009-06-17T07:16:02Z")
I’m so sorry. ---
**Author:** ![PaulParkhead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@PaulParkhead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PaulParkhead)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 10:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/53 "2009-06-17T10:17:17Z")
> [@Brynda](#): > > Paul, if you ever want to talk, PM me and I will send you my phone number or you can send me yours. Seriously. My husband died 3 months ago and it has helped me so much to talk to others who have lost a spouse. He was British, so I have cheap phone rates to the UK. Thanks. Check your PMs. ---
**Author:** ![HongKongFooey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c4cdca/32.png) [@HongKongFooey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HongKongFooey)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 6:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/54 "2009-06-17T18:39:10Z")
Sad news indeed. Very sorry for your loss **PaulParkhead**. ---
**Author:** ![Johnny\_L.A](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnny_l.a/32/1084_2.png) [@Johnny\_L.A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_L.A)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 7:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/55 "2009-06-17T19:59:44Z")
I don’t think I ever read any of **Lyanthya** ’s posts (I may have, but I don’t remember), but I have read yours, **PaulParkhead**. I’m saddened by this news. ---
**Author:** ![Hometownboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/5e9695/32.png) [@Hometownboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hometownboy)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2009, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/56 "2009-06-18T03:18:22Z")
My sincerest sympathies. I had to make a similar decision 13 years ago. While the pain never goes away totally, it does dim with time. My thoughts are with you. Hometownboy ---
**Author:** ![suranyi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@suranyi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/suranyi)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2009, 3:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/57 "2009-06-18T03:39:29Z")
I am so sorry for your loss. Ed ---
**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2009, 3:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/58 "2009-06-18T15:59:07Z")
My condolences to you and your families. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Monstera\_deliciosa](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monstera_deliciosa/32/109_2.png) [@Monstera\_deliciosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monstera_deliciosa)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2009, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/59 "2009-06-18T16:17:28Z")
I’m so sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/22080_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2009, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902/60 "2009-06-18T19:17:31Z")
How very, very sad. I wish you strength in the coming days and months. I’m so very sorry that this has happened. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902.md?page=2) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-former-and-occasional-poster-named-lyanthya/499902.md?page=4)