The “hairless” thing? Apparently, for a large percentage of the gay male community, body hair is a bad thing. (Pubic hair being the worst offender.) I dunno about you, but I like my men to look like men, not pre-pubescent boys.
Sorry but I simply must call you on this as it is one of my pet peeves.
Marilyn Monroe never wore more than todays equivalent of a 12 and her weight was never above 140.
just a nitpick.
And never underestimate the ability of the human animal to cleave themselves into ever-smaller subgroups. Within the bear community there’s an ongoing dispute between the muscle bears and the heavy bears, with more than a few bear events and clubs dissolving in bitter arguments over who gets to call themselves bears.
It’s a human thing. And it sucks.
Preach it, brotha!