# A guy gave me his number while i was jogging outside...

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [September 4, 2015, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924 "2015-09-04T18:25:16Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![harmonicamoon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/65b543/32.png) [@harmonicamoon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/harmonicamoon)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2015, 11:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/161 "2015-09-08T23:17:39Z")

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> [@control-z](#):
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> This guy obviously just wants a hookup. If that doesn’t immediately turn you off, then PM me your number. 😉

Trade your keyboard in for a Chevy Cobalt and you may have a chance.

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**Author:** ![Marylnshephards](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/bb73d2/32.png) [@Marylnshephards](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marylnshephards)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 1:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/162 "2015-09-09T01:06:52Z")

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Another update

We resumed contact and he told me that he wants to hangout soon. He asked me if I am free in couple days so we can hangout.Is there any way this could lead into something more than just a hook up?

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**Author:** ![CheshireKat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cheshirekat/32/1207_2.png) [@CheshireKat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CheshireKat)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 1:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/163 "2015-09-09T01:16:03Z")

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Leave your shoe in his car?

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 1:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/164 "2015-09-09T01:16:57Z")

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> [@Marylnshephards](#):
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> Another update
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> We resumed contact and he told me that he wants to hangout soon. He asked me if I am free in couple days so we can hangout.Is there any way this could lead into something more than just a hook up?

Sure, you could be engaged, married and pregnant by noon Friday.

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**Author:** ![Don\_t\_Panic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/don_t_panic/32/398_2.png) [@Don\_t\_Panic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Don_t_Panic)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 1:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/165 "2015-09-09T01:31:47Z")

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> [@Gotlift](#):
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> Wait? So this dude gives you his number, you text him, he starts talking about sex in graphic detail in your first conversation, and you’re still interested and wonder what to do?
> 
> Holy shit you kids work fast! I don’t even see where alcohol was involved. I think I was born 20 years too early!

I learned in another thread that the standard courtship behavior these days is the exchange of nude selfies, often before the first date. These two kids are total prudes.

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**Author:** ![harmonicamoon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/65b543/32.png) [@harmonicamoon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/harmonicamoon)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 1:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/166 "2015-09-09T01:50:47Z")

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This thread is a bomb! I couldn’t write a better script. And…

“Along comes Mary”

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**Author:** ![j666](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/9de0a6/32.png) [@j666](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/j666)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 2:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/167 "2015-09-09T02:00:59Z")

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> [@Marylnshephards](#):
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> Another update
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> We resumed contact and he told me that he wants to hangout soon. He asked me if I am free in couple days so we can hangout.Is there any way this could lead into something more than just a hook up?

Oh, I know this one!

Yes! Dismemberment and disemboweling are also possibilities, as well as your basic garden variety rape and battery.

(Think you can’t be raped if you’ve said yes? Yeah … that’s where the battery comes in.)

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**Author:** ![simster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/simster/32/1047_2.png) [@simster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/simster)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/168 "2015-09-09T02:39:17Z")

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> [@Marylnshephards](#):
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> Another update
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> We resumed contact and he told me that he wants to hangout soon. He asked me if I am free in couple days so we can hangout.Is there any way this could lead into something more than just a hook up?

You really think you can get any valid answer to this from a group of strangers that know nothing about you (other than you jog and attract drivers of chevy cobalts) or him (other than he seems attracted to you, atleast for a hookup, and that he drives a chevy cobalt) ?

You;re not here for the advice, are you?

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**Author:** ![eschereal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eschereal/32/18939_2.png) [@eschereal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eschereal)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 2:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/169 "2015-09-09T02:57:41Z")

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> [@John\_Mace](#):
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> Of all the message boards in the world, why did you pick this one to join and ask that question?

> [@Leaper](#):
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> … Only after getting advice contrary to her initial instincts. What better tiebreaker than a bunch of disinterested randoms? (Well, there are probably some, but still.)

> [@QuickSilver](#):
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> And why join a message board you’ve never posted to before with this particular story?
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> What advice (read: attention - what are you getting from this?) are you hoping to get here, from complete strangers, that any one of your IRL friends wouldn’t be happy to offer?.. Assuming that this is a true account of events.

> [@simster](#):
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> You really think you can get any valid answer to this from a group of strangers that know nothing about you (other than you jog and attract drivers of chevy cobalts) or him (other than he seems attracted to you, atleast for a hookup, and that he drives a chevy cobalt) ?
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> You;re not here for the advice, are you?

You guys are just a hamperfull of wet blankets. Go away.

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**Author:** ![scootergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e99b99/32.png) [@scootergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scootergirl)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 4:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/170 "2015-09-09T04:18:48Z")

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> [@Marylnshephards](#):
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> Another update
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> We resumed contact and he told me that he wants to hangout soon. He asked me if I am free in couple days so we can hangout.Is there any way this could lead into something more than just a hook up?

Of course it will! First, you are going to “hook up” and then, he is going to fall madly in love with you. I hear wedding bells…ding dong…

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**Author:** ![Rigamarole](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/77aa72/32.png) [@Rigamarole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rigamarole)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/171 "2015-09-09T04:26:13Z")

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Wait, **Sam Lowry** is a chick? Weird choice of username.

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**Author:** ![Urbanredneck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/ea5d25/32.png) [@Urbanredneck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Urbanredneck)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 5:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/172 "2015-09-09T05:05:12Z")

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> [@Marylnshephards](#):
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> Another update
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> We resumed contact and he told me that he wants to hangout soon. He asked me if I am free in couple days so we can hangout.Is there any way this could lead into something more than just a hook up?

Was this an offer to just “hangout” or did he say “I’d like to take you to dinner”?

What exactly does “hangout” mean today?

Since your a jogger has he offered to go jogging with you?

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**Author:** ![eschereal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eschereal/32/18939_2.png) [@eschereal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eschereal)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 6:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/173 "2015-09-09T06:02:52Z")

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> [@Rigamarole](#):
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> Wait, **Sam Lowry** is a chick? Weird choice of username.

[Dark humor](http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088846/). Or at least _film noir_.

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**Author:** ![Gotlift](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9fc348/32.png) [@Gotlift](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gotlift)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 8:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/174 "2015-09-09T08:42:48Z")

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I think that in order to keep this thread interesting OP needs to take control and move this along quicker. Clearly she is DTF… assuming she is a indeed a female and this is indeed a true story. Who knows, maybe he’ll join and post a story about a psycho sexual encounter with a jogger after handing his number off while sitting in his red Pontiac G6.

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**Author:** ![Muffin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/muffin/32/4341_2.png) [@Muffin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Muffin)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 9:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/175 "2015-09-09T09:25:08Z")

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The thread needs a love child by a daddy-rapist.

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**Author:** ![Don\_t\_Panic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/don_t_panic/32/398_2.png) [@Don\_t\_Panic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Don_t_Panic)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 9:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/176 "2015-09-09T09:47:22Z")

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> [@Urbanredneck](#):
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> What exactly does “hangout” mean today

Heck, I thought it was a noun. Goes to show what I know, I suppose.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 1:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/177 "2015-09-09T13:24:57Z")

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> [@eschereal](#):
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> You guys are just a hamperfull of wet blankets. Go away.

Agreed! Stop chasing people away from the boards, it makes for a dull and boring experience if just the same six men are debating politics and rape.

As to the OP. Sure, giving me his number while I am jogging is a little bit creepy, but not so bad that I’d be horrified, especially since he drove directly away afterward.

BUT, I don’t think you are going to see a serious relationship out of a guy that asks you sexual stuff out of the gate. You might get a good ride though…pun definitely intended. 🙂

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**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 2:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/178 "2015-09-09T14:12:19Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> Agreed! Stop chasing people away from the boards, it makes for a dull and boring experience if just the same six men are debating politics and rape.

True, but… you know, it’s cute the first couple of times some kid prances in with a towel-cape around his neck and everybody oohs and ahhs. After a few thousand times, you get pretty sick of pretending he’s Superman.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/179 "2015-09-09T15:50:00Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> Agreed! Stop chasing people away from the boards, it makes for a dull and boring experience if just the same six men are debating politics and rape.

Yes, what this board needs is more old, fat, sweaty, hairy men pretending to be teenage girls.

> [@Anaamika](#):
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> As to the OP. Sure, giving me his number while I am jogging is a little bit creepy, but not so bad that I’d be horrified, especially since he drove directly away afterward.
> 
> BUT, I don’t think you are going to see a serious relationship out of a guy that asks you sexual stuff out of the gate. You might get a good ride though…pun definitely intended. 🙂

If we give the OP the benefit of the doubt, then “she” sounds about 15 years old. Do we really want to encourage her to “get a good ride” from a 23 year old?

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**Author:** ![YogSothoth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/8edcca/32.png) [@YogSothoth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/YogSothoth)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2015, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-guy-gave-me-his-number-while-i-was-jogging-outside/729924/180 "2015-09-09T16:02:42Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> Agreed! Stop chasing people away from the boards, it makes for a dull and boring experience if just the same six men are debating politics and rape.

Hey, we have standards on this board! Low standards, sure, but standards nonetheless!

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