# A Helpful Recommendation

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223>\
**Category:** About This Message Board\
**Created:** [February 24, 2009, 5:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223 "2009-02-24T17:11:11Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 5:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/1 "2009-02-24T17:11:11Z")

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I, for one, did not realize it, but the sticky about the Pit rules has been updated in what I consider significant ways.

I did not notice this, and I think it would be a good idea to publicize this a bit.

There is a thread discussing this in ATMB, should you be moved to comment.

Regards,  
Shodan

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**Author:** ![Beadalin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3be4f8/32.png) [@Beadalin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beadalin)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 5:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/2 "2009-02-24T17:14:44Z")

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Thanks for the heads-up. These two in particular are huge:

> [@Ed Zotti](#):
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> \*\*No abusive remarks directed at other posters \*\*
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> Don’t direct obscenities or vulgarities at other posters - this includes everything from “fuck you” on up. If you don’t like another poster, you’re free to make that plain. That doesn’t mean you can say anything you want. Creative insults are permitted; crude vituperation is not. We’ll be the judge of what constitutes abuse.
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> …
> 
> **No complaints about SDMB administration in the Pit**
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> All comments or complaints about SDMB administration should go in the About This Message Board forum, not in the Pit. Pitting of SDMB staff is permitted for views they express as ordinary posters.

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**Author:** ![Claptree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58f4c7/32.png) [@Claptree](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Claptree)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/3 "2009-02-24T17:27:25Z")

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Thanks for the heads-up, Shodan. You are truly a fluffy, pink gentleman, well in line with the new rules.

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**Author:** ![Revtim](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/revtim/32/1042_2.png) [@Revtim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Revtim)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 5:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/4 "2009-02-24T17:35:51Z")

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The thread in ATBM:

> **[Please change the Pit tagline \[New Pit Rules\]](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=507988)**
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> Apparently we’re not allowed to complain about mod/admin decisions in the BBQ Pit anymore. As such you may want to consider changing the Pit’s tagline ASAP to remove the part about board administration or moderation, so as to avoid mixed signals.

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**Author:** ![wring](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@wring](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wring)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 5:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/5 "2009-02-24T17:46:39Z")

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> [@Claptree](#):
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> Thanks for the heads-up, Shodan. You are truly a fluffy, pink gentleman, well in line with the new rules.

Why yes, indeedy do. I, personally, had posted **before I read the new rules** gasp. It gave me the vapors, it did.

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**Author:** ![Rand\_Rover](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/db5fbb/32.png) [@Rand\_Rover](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rand_Rover)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/6 "2009-02-24T18:08:13Z")

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Well fuck me (that’s OK, right)?

Sometimes nothing fits the bill like a short and sweet “go fuck yourself.” I guess I’ll start using “go pleasure yourself” instead.

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**Author:** ![Oakminster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/77aa72/32.png) [@Oakminster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Oakminster)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/7 "2009-02-24T18:15:14Z")

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February 24, 2009. The day the pit died.

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**Author:** ![Captain\_C](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e5b9ba/32.png) [@Captain\_C](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Captain_C)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/8 "2009-02-24T18:20:00Z")

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For clarification purposes, is the following acceptable?

“OP, I heard someone say you could go fuck yourself. Your thoughts on that baseless accusation?”

It isn’t me saying it! It’s hearsay I tell you! Nothing against the OP, just using you for example purposes.

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/9 "2009-02-24T18:20:57Z")

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> [@Rand\_Rover](#):
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> Well fuck me (that’s OK, right)?

Since you’re a poster, I think that merits a warning according to the letter of the new rules…

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**Author:** ![Bambro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@Bambro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bambro)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/10 "2009-02-24T18:23:21Z")

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> [@Oakminster](#):
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> February 24, 2009. The day the pit died.

Ineed. ☹

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**Author:** ![Queen\_Bruin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/e274bd/32.png) [@Queen\_Bruin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Queen_Bruin)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/11 "2009-02-24T18:25:07Z")

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What’s the matter? You guys don’t like puppy dogs and rainbows and Candyland?

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**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/12 "2009-02-24T18:31:50Z")

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I’m actually really confused. I fear change. And sad. I’m confused and sad.

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**Author:** ![Gfactor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9de053/32.png) [@Gfactor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gfactor)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/13 "2009-02-24T18:35:03Z")

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This belongs in About This Message Board. I’ll move it there for you from the Pit.

**Gfactor**  
Pit Moderator

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**Author:** ![wring](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@wring](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wring)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/14 "2009-02-24T18:38:13Z")

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> [@Gfactor](#):
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> This belongs in About This Message Board. I’ll move it there for you from the Pit.
> 
> **Gfactor**  
> Pit Moderator

Actually, I think it SHOULD REMAIN in the Pit. The point **Shodan** correctly made is that posters did not realize rules had changed. And since the other thread got promptly locked and now this one moved, folks will still come in and post threads w/o knowing the rules had changed. Yea, you’ve got the sticky at the top but people don’t always look at it - it’s there, all the time, I often don’t notice it, and frankly didn’t today.

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**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/15 "2009-02-24T18:41:23Z")

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I didn’t notice it either til I saw the closed Pit thread. Oh well, it’s not like the people in charge care. If they did, maybe they wouldn’t have completely changed the function and purpose of a forum after over a decade of that forum’s existence.

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**Author:** ![Squink](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b5e925/32.png) [@Squink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Squink)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/16 "2009-02-24T18:53:24Z")

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> [@Shodan](#):
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> There is a thread discussing this in ATMB, should you be moved to comment.

Since there is already a thread about this in ATMB, and this thread is now in ATMB, shouldn’t this thread be closed as a duplicate, or at least merged with the other thread which is already here?

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**Author:** ![elucidator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8edcca/32.png) [@elucidator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elucidator)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/17 "2009-02-24T18:55:11Z")

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Its a joke. March Fool’s Day is coming up. Its St. Swiving’s Day. Gotta be something like that, this is too braindead to be real.

That said, **RR** ’s copulative proposal, expressed in the imperative, is deeply offensive to my deceased grandmother in both the wording and the intent. I should like to have him shot, if that isn’t too much trouble.

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**Author:** ![Crotalus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crotalus/32/41_2.png) [@Crotalus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Crotalus)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 6:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/18 "2009-02-24T18:59:03Z")

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> [@elucidator](#):
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> Its a joke. March Fool’s Day is coming up. Its St. Swiving’s Day. Gotta be something like that, this is too braindead to be real.
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> That said, **RR** ’s copulative proposal, expressed in the imperative, is deeply offensive to my deceased grandmother in both the wording and the intent. I should like to have him shot, if that isn’t too much trouble.

But not shot dead, right? Because that might be wrong.

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**Author:** ![SkipMagic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skipmagic/32/20706_2.png) [@SkipMagic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SkipMagic)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/19 "2009-02-24T19:00:42Z")

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> [@Squink](#):
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> Since there is already a thread about this in ATMB, and this thread is now in ATMB, shouldn’t this thread be closed as a duplicate, or at least merged with the other thread which is already here?

A fine idea. Since the two threads are discussing the same thing, please direct your comments to [this thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=507988).

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**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-helpful-recommendation/487223/20 "2009-02-24T19:00:45Z")

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> [@wring](#):
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> Actually, I think it SHOULD REMAIN in the Pit. The point **Shodan** correctly made is that posters did not realize rules had changed. And since the other thread got promptly locked and now this one moved, folks will still come in and post threads w/o knowing the rules had changed. Yea, you’ve got the sticky at the top but people don’t always look at it - it’s there, all the time, I often don’t notice it, and frankly didn’t today.

This is what I meant by starting the thread. Like **wring** , I did not notice that the rules sticky had changed, and I thought I would bring that to the boards’ attention.

I guess I should have included a link to the other discussion in ATMB to preclude discussions of the Pit rules in the Pit, where it is now forbidden.

I don’t see much purpose in a duplicate discussion, as **Squink** , so mods, feel free to lock this as you see fit.

Regards,  
Shodan
