# A Mild Rant: Please quit commenting on my appearance.

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [April 16, 2002, 1:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-mild-rant-please-quit-commenting-on-my-appearance/103856 "2002-04-16T01:19:02Z")\
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**Author:** ![butter\_pie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/aca169/32.png) [@butter\_pie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/butter_pie)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2002, 2:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-mild-rant-please-quit-commenting-on-my-appearance/103856/44 "2002-04-18T14:20:55Z")

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> “You can tell a lot about a person  
> by the car they drive.”

My car has a bumper sticker that says “God was my co-pilot, but we crashed in the mountains and I had to eat him.”

Anyway…I was a chubby kid that hit a growth spurt or something in high school and it all evened out, so I’ve been on both sides of the fat/skinny fence. I personally don’t like people commenting about my weight, because it’s still a sensitive issue. I can’t say I’m lucky enough to have had someone walk up and say “you have nice tits/ass/whatever” but I imagine if I did, I’d find some way to utilize the situation to publicly embarass them. Of course, the way I normally dress tends to repel random people talking to me.

About the only thing I ever get comments on is my eyes, which are an odd colour, and I wear very dramatic makeup… I don’t think I’d have the right to be offended by a compliment on something that I deliberately (and obviously) draw attention to.

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