# A Poll on Doper Sexual Activity: Have you Crossed the Lines Before? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [January 25, 2011, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873 "2011-01-25T03:08:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![purplehorseshoe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/purplehorseshoe/32/2996_2.png) [@purplehorseshoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purplehorseshoe)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/21 "2011-01-25T16:57:17Z")
F here. I picked the cop-out answer (“it’s complicated”) because while I identify as straight, I have a bi streak and messed around with a few female friends … yes, in college. It was willing, oh yes was it ever, but never reached any sort of climax so per the OP it doesn’t count, but \*to me \*it sortakindamorethanalittle does. These days, that streak just means my husband and I swap notes on girls we think are hawt (we apparently do not have the same preferences) and I pay as much or more attention to the girls when we watch pr0n together. Otherwise, for all intents and purposes I’m as hetero as any boring soccer mom. 😛 As a side data point, I’m still good friends with most of the abovementioned female friends, none of whom turned out to be lesbians after all. (One’s happily married, another wound up dating a guy who looked like Matthew McConaughey.) ---
**Author:** ![unwashed\_brain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/a9adbd/32.png) [@unwashed\_brain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/unwashed_brain)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/22 "2011-01-25T17:04:18Z")
The things people will post about themselves on the internet… ---
**Author:** ![Misnomer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/misnomer/32/14897_2.png) [@Misnomer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Misnomer)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/23 "2011-01-25T17:45:27Z")
> [@unwashed\_brain](#): > > The things people will post about themselves on the internet… That’s nothing compared to the condescending/judgmental attitude people will reveal on the internet… ---
**Author:** ![unwashed\_brain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/a9adbd/32.png) [@unwashed\_brain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/unwashed_brain)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 5:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/24 "2011-01-25T17:49:33Z")
> [@Misnomer](#): > > That’s nothing compared to the condescending/judgmental attitude people will reveal on the internet… Case in point? ---
**Author:** ![Sparky812](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb9ed0/32.png) [@Sparky812](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sparky812)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 5:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/25 "2011-01-25T17:52:58Z")
> [@StusBlues](#): > > What’s it like? Like warm apple pie. ---
**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/26 "2011-01-25T18:00:04Z")
> [@unwashed\_brain](#): > > The things people will post about themselves on the internet… So you post in this thread that this is the kind of thread you’d never post in? ---
**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/27 "2011-01-25T18:01:50Z")
How meta. ---
**Author:** ![Misnomer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/misnomer/32/14897_2.png) [@Misnomer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Misnomer)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/28 "2011-01-25T18:04:42Z")
> [@unwashed\_brain](#): > > > [@Misnomer](#): > > > > > [@unwashed\_brain](#): > > > > > > The things people will post about themselves on the internet… > > > > That’s nothing compared to the condescending/judgmental attitude people will reveal on the internet… > > Case in point? Not if you know what “condescending” and “judgmental” mean. 🙂 (And if you are the QUEEN OF NESTED QUOTES!!!) ---
**Author:** ![Azeotrope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/0ea827/32.png) [@Azeotrope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Azeotrope)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/29 "2011-01-25T18:08:58Z")
> [@Nava](#): > > I know, I hadn’t even heard about that “college lesbian” thing until quite recently (and it was in the boards, not even when I was in grad school in the US), but the way some people trot it about, it sounds as if they’re convinced that I was the only girl in my university who didn’t get it on with the whole female half of her graduating class - or worse: that I actually did, and I lie about it. And as for the “let me not and tell everybody I did” part, maybe that’s got to do with cultural values and American (or Anglo) women value “adventurous” more than Spanish ones do. straight female, never had any desire to get jiggy with another woman. This makes me remember one summer job I had in college when I first met one of the conceited pricks… I mean guys I would be working with. He asked me what school I went to and when I replied he said “Oh, the dyke school.” He spent the rest of the afternoon telling everyone else in our group how he knew someone who went there and all the girls in the dorms swapped rooms so they could be with their girlfriends. Did I mention this guy was a conceited prick, BTW? I then asked him if he ever turned off the porn and tried living in the real world, and he barely spoke to me for the rest of the summer. ---
**Author:** ![unwashed\_brain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/a9adbd/32.png) [@unwashed\_brain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/unwashed_brain)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/30 "2011-01-25T18:15:52Z")
> [@Misnomer](#): > > Not if you know what “condescending” and “judgmental” mean. 🙂 Your reply was condescending. Mimicking me while offering your criticism is indeed descending to my level. ---
**Author:** ![unwashed\_brain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/a9adbd/32.png) [@unwashed\_brain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/unwashed_brain)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/31 "2011-01-25T18:17:42Z")
> [@Little\_Nemo](#): > > So you post in this thread that this is the kind of thread you’d never post in? No, you misinterpreted it. ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/32 "2011-01-25T18:29:54Z")
> [@unwashed\_brain](#): > > No, you misinterpreted it. [Moderator Note]And I’m stopping it. If y’all want to continue this, take it elsewhere.[/Moderator Note] ---
**Author:** ![Acid\_Lamp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Acid\_Lamp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Acid_Lamp)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/33 "2011-01-25T18:32:03Z")
Straight male, It’s complicated. I voted before I read the OP entirely and since I did not climax I suppose it doesn’t count. However, I did allow a friend to try oral out on me to “confirm” to myself that I was truly straight. I failed to get even a little aroused. I likes the ladies. ---
**Author:** ![Azeotrope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/0ea827/32.png) [@Azeotrope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Azeotrope)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/34 "2011-01-25T18:34:42Z")
> [@Acid\_Lamp](#): > > Straight male, It’s complicated. > > I voted before I read the OP entirely and since I did not climax I suppose it doesn’t count. However, I did allow a friend to try oral out on me to “confirm” to myself that I was truly straight. I failed to get even a little aroused. I likes the ladies. so how YOU doin’? 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![China\_Guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/779978/32.png) [@China\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/China_Guy)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 6:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/35 "2011-01-25T18:40:40Z")
> [@StusBlues](#): > > So, you have had sex with a lady? I saw what you did there, squire. ---
**Author:** ![StusBlues](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dc4da7/32.png) [@StusBlues](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StusBlues)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/36 "2011-01-25T19:09:07Z")
> [@China\_Guy](#): > > I saw what you did there, squire. Glad somebody did. Wink wink, nudge nudge. ---
**Author:** ![Little\_Bird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Little\_Bird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Bird)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 7:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/37 "2011-01-25T19:50:07Z")
Last fall my husband and I had a lady friend over. We all got drunk and she requested use of my bod, and allowed my husband to watch. The two of them had an awesome time apparently–I had a nice enough time, but it really rather proved to me that I’m all about the dudes. Kinda like Acid Lamp, except my husband got to watch. Actually, now that I think about it, if my husband hadn’t been there I prolly wouldn’t have fooled around with her. I mostly did it to get him off. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Scumpup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ce73a5/32.png) [@Scumpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scumpup)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/38 "2011-01-25T19:56:54Z")
> [@Little\_Nemo](#): > > [Cite](http://www.menagea3.net/d/20090730.html) Well, if that doesn’t constitute documentation, then I don’t know what would. ---
**Author:** ![ZipperJJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zipperjj/32/211_2.png) [@ZipperJJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZipperJJ)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 8:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/39 "2011-01-25T20:03:16Z")
It’s hard enough for me to find boys to be with, so I haven’t really bothered to look for women to be with to see if I like being with women or not 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![gaffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e68b1a/32.png) [@gaffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gaffa)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2011, 9:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873/40 "2011-01-25T21:26:05Z")
Straight male, but have received oral from a male friend once in the context of a 3-way. I had a fairly large woman on my face at the time (the man’s girlfriend), so I didn’t seek it out. But it felt good - as blow jobs do. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-poll-on-doper-sexual-activity-have-you-crossed-the-lines-before/568873.md?page=3)