# A question I will probably regret asking about BJs

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-question-i-will-probably-regret-asking-about-bjs/529528>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [February 18, 2010, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-question-i-will-probably-regret-asking-about-bjs/529528 "2010-02-18T20:44:31Z")\
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**Author:** ![Zeldar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/b77776/32.png) [@Zeldar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zeldar)\
**Post date:** [February 21, 2010, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-question-i-will-probably-regret-asking-about-bjs/529528/41 "2010-02-21T18:22:59Z")

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> [@Fleetwood](#):
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> Answer is: Darling!  
> Question: What do you call a girl who

Touche’! How old is this, you reckon?

Alternative answer: Often

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**Author:** ![Serenata67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/serenata67/32/10646_2.png) [@Serenata67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Serenata67)\
**Post date:** [February 22, 2010, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-question-i-will-probably-regret-asking-about-bjs/529528/42 "2010-02-22T03:11:53Z")

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Here’s a trick I use is not really _sucking_ per se, but ends up giving just the right amount of suction. I form a tight seal with my mouth around the base of the penis, then as I draw my mouth up, it naturally creates some suction. The closer you get to the tip, the more suction. My husband loves it.

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**Author:** ![Sue\_Duhnym](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@Sue\_Duhnym](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sue_Duhnym)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2010, 5:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-question-i-will-probably-regret-asking-about-bjs/529528/43 "2010-02-23T05:45:35Z")

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Here is some practical advice: There is no perfect recipe for blowjobs.

Your best course of action, always, is to say, “You have to tell me what YOU like.”

There are a whole bunch of BJ threads here and the only real complaint is, “no teeth.” Otherwise it’s totally up in the air. Ask for guidance, follow that particular person’s likes and be enthusiastic.

It’s what you would want in a partner, right?

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**Author:** ![Rick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9f8e36/32.png) [@Rick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rick)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2010, 5:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-question-i-will-probably-regret-asking-about-bjs/529528/44 "2010-02-23T05:52:16Z")

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> [@Zeldar](#):
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> > [@Fleetwood](#):
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> > Answer is: Darling!  
> > Question: What do you call a girl who
> 
> Touche’! How old is this, you reckon?
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> Alternative answer: Often

Correction. You call her darling and you call her often.  
😃

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