Why should I accept what people say at face value, when their actions don’t fit their claims? I’m not interested in bending over backwards trying to pretend that a bunch of people are well-meaning-yet-misguided.
No it doesn’t. Killing a mindless fetus is still killing a mindless thing whether you call it “murder” or not. Calling it murder just creates a category of murder that is justified, and cheapens the term.