# A song makes me burst into tears.

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [December 2, 2004, 3:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699 "2004-12-02T15:34:15Z")\
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**Author:** ![zoogirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/b9bd4f/32.png) [@zoogirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zoogirl)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2004, 10:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/81 "2004-12-06T10:25:34Z")

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[http://www.alicecoopertrivia.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/lyrics/hs.php#6](http://www.alicecoopertrivia.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/lyrics/hs.php#6)

This is the song that’s making me misty right now. There’s a bit in it that just gets me. The chorus is -

\*I’m on the roof and I’m staring at the stars  
looking down at all the cars  
I can see you  
In the window of your favorite corner bar  
But to reach is just too far  
And I might as well be on Mars… \*

So, he’s on the roof and he’s pretty upset, right? At one point there’s a bit of a bridge and the way Alice sings it - well, I didn’t connect it the first couple of times and then I realized.

He’s thinking he should just go over.

The line is -

- Baby, I can’t fly  
If I could, I’d come down to you  
Maybe I should try…\*  
Oh, damn.

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2004, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/82 "2004-12-06T14:13:07Z")

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> [@Crandolph](#):
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> Uh…hate to “spoil” your downer, but that’s [probably a song about a guy being released from prison](http://www.loc.gov/folklife/ribbons/ribbons_81.html), and is possibly based on a true story. That’s why there’s suspense as to whether or not she still wants him…

I know what the song is really about, and I still just about lost it. Everything makes me cry these days; apparently I’m getting soft in my old age.  
Another lame one: Coven’s One Tin Soldier. I’ll be singing along, and when I get to the line “Peace on earth” was all it said my throat closes right up.

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2004, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/83 "2004-12-06T16:56:00Z")

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> [@Crandolph](#):
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> “_Catch_ the Wind”?

Thank you, yes. :o

There’s also a version of “Redemption Song” (mentioned above) by Stevie Wonder, on the “Get on the Bus” soundtrack, that has a very stirring sound to it.

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**Author:** ![KRC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/45deac/32.png) [@KRC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KRC)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2004, 9:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/84 "2004-12-06T21:40:28Z")

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I cried over Iggy Pop’s song \*\* The Passenger \*\* . It seems to be about a guy who drifts through life observing things rather than actually living. Hit a little to close to home, I guess.

One corny song that would probably make me cry is **Romance del Enamorado y la Muerte** , a medieval Andalusian folk song redone in 1967 by Chilean singer Victor Jara. In it a man discovers death is coming for him, begs death for a day to live, and gets an hour. He rushes to his girlfriend’s house but she can’t let him in because her parents are home. She offers to make a cord of silk so he can climb into the window (yeah, I said the song is kind of corny .) The cord breaks, death arrives, and the girlfriend decides to go off and die with her lover. I had a recording of it on tape but my parrots ate it. That was 20 years ago and I’d probably cry if I got to hear it again.

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**Author:** ![Infovore](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/infovore/32/420_2.png) [@Infovore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Infovore)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2004, 10:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/85 "2004-12-06T22:02:53Z")

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> [@zoogirl](#):
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> - Baby, I can’t fly  
> If I could, I’d come down to you  
> Maybe I should try…\*  
> Oh, damn.

Oh, yeah! That’s been one of my favorite Alice Cooper songs for a long time. That line doesn’t make me misty but it makes me kind of tingly because it’s so intense. In my mind I always picture him jumping off a big tall stack of amps as he sings it. (If there’s a video I’ve never seen it, and I’ve never seen him in concert, but that’s what I picture anyway).

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**Author:** ![EmeraldGrue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/dc4da7/32.png) [@EmeraldGrue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EmeraldGrue)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2004, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/86 "2004-12-07T01:47:03Z")

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“What A Good Boy” by the Barenaked Ladies (the live version) gets me all sniffly. And any version of “Country Roads”, no matter how punk-like the cover is.

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**Author:** ![maikai](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/53a042/32.png) [@maikai](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/maikai)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2004, 1:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/87 "2004-12-07T01:51:43Z")

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The Blower’s Daughter by Damien Rice. The way he sings “I can’t take my eyes off of you,” oh man.

Please Forgive Me by David Gray.

“I got half a mind to scream out loud  
I got half a mind to die  
So I won’t ever have to lose you girl  
Won’t ever have to say goodbye  
I won’t ever have to lie  
Won’t ever have to say goodbye.”

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**Author:** ![mangeorge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d78d45/32.png) [@mangeorge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mangeorge)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2004, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/88 "2004-12-07T02:18:20Z")

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_Sting and Police, Roxanne_.  
Probably because I knew a Roxanne.  
Tellin’ stuff right outta my _soul_ now. :eek:  
Peace,  
mangeorge

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**Author:** ![Chanteuse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9de053/32.png) [@Chanteuse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chanteuse)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2004, 1:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/89 "2004-12-07T13:58:25Z")

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> [@AuntiePam](#):
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> Where’ve You Been by Kathy Mattea – you’d need a heart of stone to get through that without crying. How did she manage to sing it

Oh, I agree! And how about _How Can I Help You To Say Goodbye_ by Patty Loveless? From what I heard, it took several takes before she got through it without tears. I’ve never been able to sing it without crying.

And _Streets of Heaven_ and _Teddy Bear_ always get to me, too!

_He Stopped Loving Her Today_–I never much cared for the song, I found it too depressing. Then a few years ago, my ex-BIL, despondent over many things, including his twice-failed marriage, committed suicide. Now I can’t bear to hear the song at all, because it makes me think of him and the pain he must have been in.

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**Author:** ![TellMeI\_mNotCrazy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tellmei_mnotcrazy/32/3419_2.png) [@TellMeI\_mNotCrazy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TellMeI_mNotCrazy)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2004, 5:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/90 "2004-12-07T17:28:32Z")

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> [@Chanteuse](#):
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> And _Streets of Heaven_ and _Teddy Bear_ always get to me, too!

Oh good, I was starting to wonder if I was either a) the only one who knew the song or b) the only one reduced to tears by it.

Although, my dad also gets choked up by it. If you ever saw him, you’d likely vote him the least likely to get choked up by anything, much less by Teddy Bear.

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**Author:** ![coleridge78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f07891/32.png) [@coleridge78](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/coleridge78)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2004, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/91 "2004-12-07T18:12:11Z")

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I’ll have to take John Cale’s version of “Hallelujah”.

Tim (The Real) Buckley’s “Dolphins”.

“And the Band Played Waltzing Matilda”, to bring back the Aussie theme.

–  
And when the ship pulled into Circular Quay  
I looked at the place where me legs used to be  
And thank Christ there was no one there waiting for me  
To grieve and to mourn and to pity

And the Band played Waltzing Matilda  
When they carried us down the gangway  
Oh nobody cheered, they just stood there and stared  
Then they turned all their faces away …

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**Author:** ![Ol\_Gaffer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Ol\_Gaffer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ol_Gaffer)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2004, 8:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/92 "2004-12-07T20:33:29Z")

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Wow…what timing **coleridge78** …I was just going to post _Waltzing Matilda_…not that I cry or anything, but my allergies do seem to act up when I hear it. 😉

I’m also, ahem, affected by _The Town I Loved So Well_ by **The Dubliners**.

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**Author:** ![coleridge78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f07891/32.png) [@coleridge78](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/coleridge78)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2004, 8:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/93 "2004-12-07T20:36:32Z")

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> [@Ol'Gaffer](#):
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> I’m also, ahem, affected by _The Town I Loved So Well_ by **The Dubliners**.

Oooo, good one. How 'bout the Chieftains version of _Coast of Malabar_.

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**Author:** ![TastesLikeBurning](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/839c29/32.png) [@TastesLikeBurning](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TastesLikeBurning)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2004, 9:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/94 "2004-12-08T09:56:13Z")

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> [@](#):
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> Originally posted by **coleridge78** - Tim (The Real) Buckley’s “Dolphins”.

What do you mean by that?

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**Author:** ![coleridge78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f07891/32.png) [@coleridge78](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/coleridge78)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2004, 12:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/95 "2004-12-08T12:38:52Z")

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> [@TastesLikeBurning](#):
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> What do you mean by that?

Tim Buckley, Jeff Buckley’s father. Just my personal preference… I like Jeff’s stuff, but it always, to me, sounded like a conservative version of his dad. Eh. Different strokes.

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**Author:** ![TastesLikeBurning](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/839c29/32.png) [@TastesLikeBurning](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TastesLikeBurning)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2004, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/96 "2004-12-09T03:13:27Z")

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> [@coleridge78](#):
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> Tim Buckley, Jeff Buckley’s father. Just my personal preference… I like Jeff’s stuff, but it always, to me, sounded like a conservative version of his dad. Eh. Different strokes.

If by conservative you mean more coherent and accessible, then I’d have to agree. Other than that, you’re spot on in regards to personal preference.

Have you read “Dream Brother”?

If you’re a fan of either, it’s quite an insight into both of their lives with the book equally split into covering Tim and Jeff.

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**Post date:** [December 9, 2004, 3:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/97 "2004-12-09T03:30:36Z")

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> [@coleridge78](#):
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> “And the Band Played Waltzing Matilda”, to bring back the Aussie theme.
> 
> –  
> And when the ship pulled into Circular Quay  
> I looked at the place where me legs used to be  
> And thank Christ there was no one there waiting for me  
> To grieve and to mourn and to pity
> 
> And the Band played Waltzing Matilda  
> When they carried us down the gangway  
> Oh nobody cheered, they just stood there and stared  
> Then they turned all their faces away …

I opened this thread just to post this song – although the verse you quoted isn’t the one that does it for me:

_For I’ll go no more waltzing Matilda  
All around the green bush far and free  
To hump tent and pegs, a man needs both legs  
No more waltzing Matilda for me._

Which gets me sniffling through the rest of the song, until the last verses, which make me cry in these gut-wrenching, choking sobs:

\*And so now every April I sit on my porch,  
And I watch the parade pass before me  
And I see my old comrades, how proudly they march  
Reviving part dreams of old glory

Those old men march slowly, old bones stiff and sore  
They’re tired old heroes of a forgotten war  
And the young people ask, ‘what are they marching for?’  
And I ask myself the same question

And the band plays Waltzing Matilda  
And the old men still answer the call  
But as year follows year, more old men disappear  
Someday no one will march there at all.\*

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**Author:** ![Sam\_Stone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Sam\_Stone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sam_Stone)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2004, 3:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/98 "2004-12-09T03:52:11Z")

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How about, “You Are My Sunshine?” So many people think it’s a happy song…

> [@](#):
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> The other night dear, as I lay sleeping  
> I dreamed I held you in my arms  
> But when I awoke, dear, I was mistaken  
> And so I hung my head and I cried.
> 
> You are my sunshine, my only sunshine  
> You make me happy when skies are gray  
> You’ll never know dear, how much I love you  
> Please don’t take my sunshine away
> 
> I’ll always love you and make you happy,  
> If you will only say the same.  
> But if you leave me and love another,  
> You’ll regret it all some day:
> 
> You are my sunshine, my only sunshine  
> You make me happy when skies are gray  
> You’ll never know dear, how much I love you  
> Please don’t take my sunshine away
> 
> You told me once, dear, you really loved me  
> And no one else could come between.  
> But now you’ve left me to love another;  
> You have shattered all of my dreams:
> 
> You are my sunshine, my only sunshine  
> You make me happy when skies are gray  
> You’ll never know dear, how much I love you  
> Please don’t take my sunshine away
> 
> In all my dreams, dear, you seem to leave me  
> When I awake my poor heart pains.  
> So when you come back and make me happy  
> I’ll forgive you dear, I’ll take all the blame.
> 
> You are my sunshine, my only sunshine  
> You make me happy when skies are gray  
> You’ll never know dear, how much I love you  
> Please don’t take my sunshine away

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**Author:** ![koeeoaddi](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/koeeoaddi/32/408_2.png) [@koeeoaddi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/koeeoaddi)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2004, 5:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/99 "2004-12-09T05:11:18Z")

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Joni Mitchell is the Queen of Sobs:

_Song for Sharon_:

A woman I knew just drowned herself  
The well was deep and muddy  
She was just shaking off futility  
Or punishing somebody  
My friends were calling up all day yesterday  
All emotions and abstractions  
It seems we all live so close to that line  
And so far from satisfaction.

_Down to You_

In the morning there are lovers in the street  
They look so high  
You brush against a stranger  
And you both apologize  
Old friends seem indifferent  
You must have brought that on  
Old bonds have broken down  
Love is gone

_I Had a King_

I had a king in a tenement castle  
Lately he’s taken to painting the pastel walls brown  
He’s taken the curtains down  
He’s swept with the broom of contempt  
And the rooms have an empty ring  
He’s cleaned with the tears  
Of an actor who fears for the laughter’s sting-

I can’t go back there anymore  
You know my keys won’t fit the door  
You know my thoughts don’t fit the man  
They never can they never can

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**Author:** ![coleridge78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f07891/32.png) [@coleridge78](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/coleridge78)\
**Post date:** [December 9, 2004, 5:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-makes-me-burst-into-tears/277699/100 "2004-12-09T05:28:05Z")

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> [@TastesLikeBurning](#):
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> Have you read “Dream Brother”?

No. I’ll look out for it. Books about musicians that I love are almost always disappointing… but on the other hand, Joe Klein’s Woody Guthrie bio is my all-time favorite (so much so that I still owe a replacement copy to the Perrysburg OH public library, oops), so one never knows!

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