# a song that sums up your life

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [February 11, 2001, 12:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964 "2001-02-11T00:10:52Z")\
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**Author:** ![Mandi\_s\_Mind\_101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/51bf81/32.png) [@Mandi\_s\_Mind\_101](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mandi_s_Mind_101)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2001, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/21 "2001-02-11T19:30:55Z")

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“Torn” Natalie Imbruglia

Chorus  
"I’m all out of faith,this is how I feel.

I am cold and I am shamed, lying naked in the floor.

Illusion never changed, into something real.

I’m wide awake and I can see, the perfect sky is torn.

You’re a little late, I’m already torn."

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2001, 7:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/22 "2001-02-11T19:48:03Z")

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“Those Were The Days My Friend” Can’t say I ever liked Glen Campbell that much but the song kind of sad and fits some feelings I have from time to time.

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**Author:** ![Lazarus7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/67e7ee/32.png) [@Lazarus7](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lazarus7)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2001, 7:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/23 "2001-02-11T19:59:52Z")

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Reality used to be a friend of mine - PM Dawn

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**Author:** ![Jadis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/87869e/32.png) [@Jadis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jadis)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2001, 10:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/24 "2001-02-11T22:17:30Z")

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I’ve a huge Van Morrison fan, and there’s one verse of [Brand New Day](http://www.harbour.sfu.ca/~hayward/van/lyrics/moondance.html#track8) that has always seemed to sum up how I was feeling prior to meeting my current SO:

I was lost and double crossed  
With my hands behind my back  
I was longtime hurt and thrown in the dirt  
Shoved out on the railroad track  
I’ve been used, abused and so confused  
And I had nowhere to run  
But I stood and looked  
And my eyes got hooked  
On that beautiful morning sun

Since we’ve been having problems (too complicated to go into, we’re working on it), I heard [Fortress Around Your Heart](http://www.stingchronicity.co.uk/lyfortre.html) by Sting, and I was surprised at how well they summed up what my SO and I are going through:

Then I went off to fight some battle  
That I’d invented inside my head  
Away so long for years and years  
You probably thought, or even wished that I was dead  
While the armies all are sleeping  
Beneath the tattered flag we’d made  
I had to stop in my tracks for fear  
Of walking on the mines I’d laid

Seems sort of melodramatic and goofy when it’s laid out like that, but hey…I’m an emotional sort of gal. 🙂

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**Author:** ![capacitor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e47774/32.png) [@capacitor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/capacitor)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2001, 11:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/25 "2001-02-11T23:38:41Z")

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Mine are “Loser” by Beck, and “A house is Not a Home” by Luther Vandross.

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**Author:** ![Medea\_s\_Child](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8baadc/32.png) [@Medea\_s\_Child](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Medea_s_Child)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2001, 12:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/26 "2001-02-12T00:45:00Z")

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If we are picking one: **Bitch** by Meredith Brooks. (bite me, okay? Its one of the better explinations I have for why I am the way I am.)

If we can add minors: **I Dreamed a Dream** from Les Mis. Green Day’s **Minority**. **Angel of the Morning** by the artist of your choice. (I usually just sing it myself, I learned it off a player piano when I was 13.)

[sub]Thank goodness for Preview. While I’m sure **Angle of the Morning** is a fine song, and may indeed reflect some part of my life, it was not my intent.[/sub]

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**Author:** ![Gazoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ce73a5/32.png) [@Gazoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gazoo)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2001, 2:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/27 "2001-02-12T02:45:39Z")

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[Summer, Highland Falls](http://www2.bc.edu/~jensener/lyrics/joel/turnstiles/highland.html) by Billy Joel

[One Step Up](http://www.xs4all.nl/~maroen/engels/lyrics/onestepu.htm) by Bruce Springsteen

[You’re My Home](http://www.billyjoel.com/discography/myhome.html) by Billy Joel (not so much as the love song part but more the “wandering guy” thing. My current apartment that I’ve lived in for a year and a half is the current record holder for longevity since I first went to college 15 years ago.)

And there’s a song from the movie Major League that contains these lyrics (Finally found a link to it, it’s called [Most of All You](http://www.mars.sphere.ne.jp/cafe/soundtrack/lyrics/mostofallyou.html)) –

> [@](#):
>
> Woke up one day, what did I find?  
> Holes in my pockets, memories on my mind.  
> So many things I lost on the way,  
> but most of all you.
> 
> Pennies and dreams, carelessly spent.  
> Pieces of time, and who knows where they went.  
> Is there a chance to pick up the pieces,  
> and try for it all again.
> 
> Sometimes you get so busy running,  
> running 'round in circles  
> you never see you’re going nowhere.
> 
> Sometimes you get so busy chasin’  
> chasin’ after rainbows  
> you look around your life and find no one’s there.

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**Author:** ![Impolex](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/46a35a/32.png) [@Impolex](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Impolex)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2001, 5:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/28 "2001-02-12T05:37:19Z")

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Joyful Girl, by Ani DiFranco. Definitely. It’s just gentle and a bit painful but sweet and affirming, somehow. I love it. Everytime i listen to it her voice gets sweeter, and if the words sound truer than ever then i know that i’m doing something right. ::bows head and smiles:: music good.

I do it for the joy it brings,  
because i am a joyful girl.  
I do it because i learned it from you  
i do it just because i want to, because i want to.

The bathroom mirror has not budged, and the woman who lives  
there, can tell  
the truth from the stuff that they say  
she looks me in the eye and says  
would you prefer the easy way?  
no, well okay then  
don’t cry.

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**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2001, 6:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/29 "2001-02-12T06:27:39Z")

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I’ve always related best to **Eleanor Rigby.**

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**Post date:** [February 12, 2001, 6:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/30 "2001-02-12T06:51:58Z")

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Right now it’s Radiohead’s Exit Music (for a film) but at any one point it will change into another Radiohead song. Their music just puts me at ease and I can drift into this blissful feeling listening to them.

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**Author:** ![Lizard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@Lizard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lizard)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2001, 8:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/31 "2001-02-12T08:21:26Z")

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When I was younger it was “The Unforgiven” by Metallica. Now it’s “Limelight” by Rush.

“All the world’s indeed a stage and we are merely players, performers and portrayers. Each another’s audience inside the gilded cage…”

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**Author:** ![Skarecrow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bbce88/32.png) [@Skarecrow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skarecrow)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2001, 10:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/32 "2001-02-12T10:05:13Z")

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Warm Beer, Cold Women - Tom Waits

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**Author:** ![Coldfire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a587f6/32.png) [@Coldfire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Coldfire)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2001, 11:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/33 "2001-02-12T11:38:05Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Lizard \*  
> \*\*“All the world’s indeed a stage and we are merely players, performers and portrayers. Each another’s audience inside the gilded cage…” \*\*

**Out** side the gilded cage, heretic. 😉

[sub]Great song, by the way![/sub]

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**Author:** ![betenoir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/258eb7/32.png) [@betenoir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/betenoir)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2001, 3:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/34 "2001-02-12T15:05:10Z")

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Some Weird Sin- by Iggy Pop

I mean it used to be. Not any more of course 🙂  
:rolleyes:.

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**Author:** ![Pammipoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/87869e/32.png) [@Pammipoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pammipoo)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2001, 8:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/35 "2001-02-13T08:33:52Z")

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Most of the time, “Ironic”, by Alanis Morrisette

I remember when I broke up with my exboyfriend, the song playing on the radio was “Don’t Speak”, by No Doubt. It was almost creepy how close to home it hit.

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**Author:** ![Earthworm\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f07891/32.png) [@Earthworm\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Earthworm_Jim)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2001, 3:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/36 "2001-02-13T15:54:23Z")

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‘Southern Cross’, by Crosby, Stills and Nash:

“So I’m sailing for tomorrow, my dreams are a-dyin  
And my love is an anchor tied to you, tied with a silver chain  
I have my ship, and all her flags are a-flyin  
She is all that I have left, and music is her name”

The “you” in question being a subject for tomorrows post, of course 🙂

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**Author:** ![Annie-Xmas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@Annie-Xmas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Annie-Xmas)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2001, 5:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/37 "2001-02-13T17:30:07Z")

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Not Andrew Lloyd Webber, but “Carry On” by Styx. I was very glad when Dennis DeYoung played Pilate in the touring show of Jesus Christ Superstar and released his “10 on Broadway” CD, thus establishing an ALW/Styx connection.

Of course, there’s always the Jim Steinman/ALW song “Annie Christmas,” giving me my user name. I love Steinman’s work, am obsessed with ALW, my last name is Anne and I was born on December 25th. Bull’s Eye!

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**Author:** ![DocDaneeka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/c68b51/32.png) [@DocDaneeka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DocDaneeka)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2001, 7:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/38 "2001-02-13T19:33:19Z")

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My own girlfriend sums me up with Tom Petty’s “Even the Losers Get Lucky Sometimes”. Bitch. 😛

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**Author:** ![eponymous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/e0b2c6/32.png) [@eponymous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eponymous)\
**Post date:** [February 13, 2001, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-song-that-sums-up-your-life/53964/39 "2001-02-13T19:56:48Z")

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Sans the fame and fortune, I’d have to say [Life’s Been Good](http://summer.com.br/~pfilho/html/lyrics/l/lifes_been_good.txt) by Joe Walsh.

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